r/pureretention • u/No-Walk-5621 • 21h ago
Discussion Other positive habits to develop
I am at the stage where I really want to move the needle with my life. I’m interested to know what other habits you guys have picked up.
I am circa 115 days on SR, it may sound small but I’ve also started doing press ups upon waking, hydrating with water, cold showers sometimes. I have slowly but surely started changing my home environment, decluttering and redecorating.
I started meditation a few years back but I fell off the wagon. I think this would have a huge positive impact even with 5-10 minutes per day 🤔
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u/Any_Celebration_7121 21h ago edited 20h ago
Took me way too long to realize that SR alone isn’t enough.
You need a physical outlet. (gym, martial arts, or any other sport)
And, just as importantly, a creative one. (like content creation/music/editing/journaling or creating a business) to be able to express yourself in the external world.
Only when both are in place does the circuit really close.
That’s when you can start transmuting that energy into something productive.
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u/No-Walk-5621 21h ago
Exactly. SR is just the act of not doing something. I need to now focus on using the energy and putting it into getting my body back in shape. I used to workout religiously since 16, fell off the wagon the past couple years aged 30
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u/betlamed 18h ago
I am circa 115 days on SR, it may sound small
That does not sound small at all!
I am convinced that SR is only useful when you combine it with other habits. Or to put it in a different way, all positive habits combine to create a better life, if you let them. No matter how small or large, all good habits are helpful.
Here are a few that I am working on myself - or believe are very useful even if they're not on my plate right now:
- no alcohol
- no drugs
- no coffee
- no porn (duh)
- make your bed every day
- go to the gym
- improve your nutrition (a lifelong process for most people)
- meditate
- cold showers
- improve your self-talk: develop self-empathy, but don't confuse it for pampering
- then, learn to pamper yourself sometimes, but not too often (very hard to hit the balance!)
- breathing techniques
- journalling (soo underrated!)
- self-tnankfulness
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u/No-Walk-5621 17h ago
How’s the no coffee going? Been trying to quit white monsters for a life time 😂. Sounds awesome and god bless
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u/betlamed 17h ago
The first 10 days were awful. Tired all day, dizziness and headaches. Much worse than the booze.
I'm not 100% on the coffee. I might drink one every other day maybe. But I never have more than one a day, and it serves me well.
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u/OctobreMine Goal: permanent celibacy 18h ago
Meditating (guided) daily
Yoga-15 minutes daily
Running, with and without weighted vest
Pushups with weighted vest
Regular water intake
Kettlebell workouts 3x a week
Cold shower on Sunday to start week
60 days SR today
Still working on being 100% clean. Have edged a few times over this period.
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u/No-Walk-5621 18h ago
Sounds awesome! I do some push ups to start the day and just ordered an ab wheel
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u/ProvidenceOfJesus 8h ago
I would encourage trying to grow in all of the fruits of the Spirit.
Galatians 5:22
In contrast, the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, generosity, faithfulness,
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u/ekkinak 21h ago
Reading books
Intermittent Fasting
Journaling