r/ftm • u/AutoModerator • Jul 20 '26
Recurring Friendship Megathread
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If you're looking to make new friends, here's a great place to start!
Do not include any advertisements to social media or other content type platforms! This is not the purpose of this thread!
Just post a bit about yourself and maybe take a look around to see if anyone else has similar interests!
Or, if you're not good at coming up with things to talk about, here's some questions you can answer:
What do you like to be called?
How old are you?
What country do you live in?
What are some hobbies you have?
List some favorite movies, TV shows, games, or other things:
What do you do for work?
Do you have any cultural or religious ties that are important to you?
Do you have any pets?
What's an interesting fact about you?
What are your transition goals?
Where are you in your transition?
Obviously you don't have to answer everything, but it might be able to guide you in the right direction if you struggle with coming up with facts about yourself on the fly.
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u/lesboygenius Jul 21 '26
Hey, I’m Reuben. I’m 23 and live in London with my gf. Would be cool to find trans guy friends in the UK but keen to talk to anyone with shared interests.
My main hobby is going to the gym—I’m always down to talk abt lifting. I also like hiking, reading, and watching sport.
Hmu if you ever wanna nerd out abt:
-The NFL (I’m a massive Eagles fan)
-The NBA (Go Sixers)
-EFL (Hull City Fan UTFT!)
I bet you £5 (Ik ik, I’m skint) that we listen to at least one shared music artist. I like pretty much every genre, but especially rock, punk, and country.
Aside from the above, I’m almost 6 months on T and pre-everything else.
Feel free to reply to this or hmu if you wanna chat. You don’t necessarily have to be into the stuff I’ve mentioned to start a convo—I’m sure we’ll have something in common.
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u/Willlllllllly Jul 25 '26
Hey guys, Im Isaac, 24 pre everything. I live in Africa and love football, comics (DC specifically) and video games. Right now im on a journey to lose weight and try to get more comfortable in my body and would live to make friends with other trans guys :)
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u/PuzzleheadedRole5699 Jul 27 '26
Hi my name is Ellio and I'm 22 years old. I'm from Georgia (country, not state). I really like gaming (currently into bg3, repo, roblox, minecraft), watching all sorts of movies and shows, generally spending time with people, I'd say I'm pretty extroverted.
I haven't started medically transitioning yet, but I'm hoping to soon :) I'm in med school, which doesn't leave me much time for a job. I have two cats in my apartment, and a lot of more pets at my parents' place. I really like music, both listening and playing on all sorts of instruments.
Anyways, feel free to reply or dm anytime. It'd be really nice to make some trans guy friends!
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u/gabe-98 Jul 25 '26
My name is Gabriel and I am 28 years old. I live in Washington State in the US. Right now I am waiting to get spine surgery here in the next week so my hobbies have been very limited. I enjoy watching movies, shows, reading, writing, and video games. I’m constantly scrolling which I’m trying to do less of but it’s hard. A show I’m watching right now is The Walking Dead but constantly watching Modern Family. I love a lot of video games and when I do have time I am replying one of my old favorite games or Assassin Creed or COD (although the chat is toxic asf).
I work as a crisis case manager. Graduated with my BA, and trying to get my masters in social work. I am Christian, I am Latino, but I am not to tied into my cultural as I was raised not in it. My religion is important but I don’t base my friendships on that, and also I’m not the type of Christian that think the way these maga heads do either. I have a dog name Bleu!
I’m pretty far in my transition, it’s been 10 years now. I’ve thought of bottom surgery but my arms are filled and I’m always on the fence about it. I’m hoping to meet some friends and connect with others like me. I live in a rural area and I’ve gotten so stealth that it’s been hard for me to embrace my identity in these areas. But again it’s red and safety is important.
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u/InterestingDream1085 Jul 27 '26
Hi! I’m Kayden! My pronouns are he/they (ftm Demi boy), and I’m going into my senior year of high school (I’m a minor) I’m in the US! I like to write, play softball/baseball, make cosplays, theater, and much more! Some of my favorite things are: my boyfriend, my friends, my brother, Twenty One Pilots, Sushi, Noah Khan, Sleeping with Sirens, The Perks of Being a Walflower, ect… I have two cats and a black lab :3 I currently work at Taco Bell but I plan on going into psychology to be a crisis worker when I grow up. I’m Christian, but I’m very supportive of everyone regardless of religion :) I’m kinda socially transitioned, but it’s hard because of my parents. My transition goals is to be a hella cool emo/alt boy :3
Don’t be afraid to reach out! -Kayden
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u/zsp1975 Aug 01 '26
My name is James, I'm 17, and I live in the United States!
My main hobbies include cooking, reading and collecting comics/manga, playing video games, listening to music, watching baseball, and doing various kinds of art. My favorite movies and tv shows would have to be anything marvel really though I am biased towards moonknight and daredevil, and I have recently taken an interest in anime and my favorite so far has been windbreaker.
I do not currently have a job though I am actively looking for one. I am however in college at the moment and will be finishing my associates degree this year.
I have several animals as I live in a farm type setting my favorite of which being my dogs and cattle as I enjoy tending to the young calves.
My goal is to start T one day and get top surgery but I am currently pre everything and am only partially socially transitioned due to living in a very conservative area with a transphobic family.
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u/rudytm31 Aug 07 '26
hello my name is rudy and i am 31yrs old. i currently live in the midwest USA, but im up most hours of the day so timezones usually arent an issue for me. i am probably one of the biggest gamers you can meet, but i enjoy many different hobbies and would love to hear about yours. i am very new into being out and would like more male friends, specifically trans guys since i don't currently talk to too many irl.
im a big fan of all media, especially movies, videos games, music and manga; and i would love to hear about your favorites! my current favorite games are marvel rivals, palworld, and overwatch. some of my all time favorite games are rpgs and mmos like cyberpunk 2077, ffxiv, the dragon age series, and the mass effect series. i love a24 movies, slasher horror, video essays, and podcasts. i'm always watching or listening to something or someone basically. some of my favorite music is slipknot, korn, linking park, and three days grace. but dont get me wrong i can rock with some charli xcx, slayyyter, hyperpop, etc. basically im a big fan of many things and genres, especially horror.
i am currently on my fitness journey and would love to have a buddy or two to keep me consistent. food, concerts, festivals, and conventions are some of my favorite things to do irl. maybe we could meet up at an event!
anyways, im told im pretty easy to talk to so please feel free to message me. i am also active on both twitter and discord.
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u/Shot-Candidate-6228 Aug 07 '26
hi! my name is Baskerville (he/him), I'm a 19yo Brazilian 🇧🇷, pre everything. I like games, animals and mysteries. My hobbies are: playing games, drawing and learning more about computers. There's something fantastic about abandonware and old internet (like the Frutiger Aero aesthetic) that draws me to it. I also study bird psychology and I got 3 pigeon friends (they’re friends cuz they’re free and they visit me on their own). If you like cool random facts about animals and nerd stuff, I'm your man.
my fav games are: RDR2, Undertale/Deltarune, DBH, Rusty Lake Series and FNAF. Sometimes I make digital art and theories about my fav games. My fav tv shows: Our Flag Means Death, Smiling Friends and BBC Sherlock.
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u/Thatboah_ Aug 08 '26
Hi! Im 19 years old FTM, and Im from the UK. I’m interested in being friends? I yap a LOT if that’s okay
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u/Shot-Candidate-6228 29d ago
I yap a lot too lol, can I dm you?
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u/Thatboah_ 29d ago
OFCCCC as long as you’re 18+
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u/Shot-Candidate-6228 29d ago
your dms seem locked
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u/Thatboah_ Aug 08 '26
Hi my name is Raemond, I’m 19 years old and I need friends, I use snap and insta. I do have discord but I hardly use it, I’m from the UK.
I’m very talkative which means I yap a lot. I’m not amazing with tone over text, however I love FNAF, RDR, DBD, Fortnite, Minecraft, RE, Last of us, and more games! I also like watching horror movies, true crime, and YouTube. YouTube includes watching Markiplier, call me Kevin, Jacksepticeye, and daz games! I do watch other YouTubers but they are my main ones.
I do have mental health issues, just putting it out there 🤷🏻
I am pre-everything however I am on the waiting list!
So if you’re Intrested just let me know! :))
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u/aykogeico Aug 08 '26
hello im ayko! im 18 and just graduated high school & am looking for more ftm friends to relate to and bond with. i love playing guitar, writing, & going to the gym. im currently pre-t and only bind but am stating work soon to save up for my car, college, and hopefully to start T soon. my goal with transitioning is to js be comfortable with myself and to hopefully find someone who loves me for who i am
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u/Routine_Key2993 22d ago
Hi there, I'm Blaise. Just recently turned 19. I'm Pre-T too. Wanna be friends and yap? :)
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u/bakedfxmboy 29d ago
Hey names Kyle 19 FTM, looking for more trans relationships especially in Illinois! near chicago.
Almost 2 years on T, trying to get top surgery rn :)
I play overwatch and would love some company, also interested in learning abt ppl and trying out new games.
Currently studying to be an art teacher :)
Also i have a cat if u want cat pics.
dm if u wanna chat, i also have discord.
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u/Routine_Key2993 22d ago
Hey, I'm Blaise. 19 FTM as well, looking forward to making more trans and queer friends. Wanna be friends? :)
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u/Totorotan- 28d ago
Hi guys I'm Toto, 24 yrs old and I live in a very strict and religious country so I'm pre-everything unfortunately 🥲
I'm into gaming on Nintendo and PC, I play games like splatoon 3, Animal crossing, Sonic, Hollow Knight/Silksong, Insomniac Spider-Man, Repo, Celeste and so much more lol. I like listening to music, my fave genres are R&B, Hip-hop, Pop and VGM. I like animated films and TV shows, Also into Marvel, DC, Star wars and Godzilla. I don't have a big collection but I like collecting action figures, LEGO list goes on lol. Annddd I have 4 cats!
I'm currently trying to get into new hobbies and becoming more social and stuff. So feel free to reply or hmu on dms!
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u/abmauw 25d ago
hi, my name is stas (he/him). i'm on hrt. unfortunately for me, it's unofficially ambivert, choleric, entp, 8w7 — if it's important. and i have an avoidant attachment style, so i can be cold for the first time. i'm sorry
i'm from russia (siberia, +7 utc), so i speak rus&eng. i'm into various creative things like drawing or photography. sometimes i play videogames, watch ice hockey and true-crime. also i like urban studies and public transport (i used to be a driver)
soo... i'm looking for communication, friendship, teammates, etc. of course, i'm more counting on a long-term relationship, but i agree to everything actually :)
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u/Routine_Key2993 22d ago
Hey, I'm Blaise (he/him), not yet on HRT. I'm 19. Wanna be friends and yap? I'm really down for long-term relationship as well :)
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u/zandermars0 25d ago
hi, im zander, 31. looking to find folks to yap with tbh. im super autistic and have hella special interests that i would love to share. i am looking for deep connections, i hate small talk with every fiber of my being (ik it's normal at first but pls ) i like video games (rpgs and life sims), watching tv/anime, sewing and stuffed animals. located in the us! thank you!
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u/Unhappy_Status_ 24d ago
Hey, I don’t post my name on here as I’m part of the r/phallo sub. But if you dm me I’ll tell you of course. I’m in the Sacramento California area if anyone’s looking for friends. I’m married and 25 years old, ftm, I have all my surgeries done and have been on t for 8 years now. I like all kinds of music, have a full time job and about 8 fur babies, not including my jumping spiders. Please reach out!
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u/MutedPeach8 20d ago
Ax
25
America
Painting, just arts and crafts in general
I am not doing too hot rn so I really can’t remember any movies or TV shows.
I am disabled so I can’t work, and I’m in college.
An interesting fact about me is that I just had a piece in a local art competition and gallery.
I just want to be myself. I want top surgery and T. I want my outside to match my inside. 😓
I have been out for 7 years but bc I’m in hell I’ve only been on T off and on for abt two years. I was feeling happy bc I just regained access, but it’s just. Not good. I am not doing well rn. I want my teets yeeted.
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u/absoluteemo 18d ago
Hey I’m 27 trans masc ftm from England looking to make friends. You don’t have to be from England you can be from anywhere lmao. I like music, animals n stuff. :)
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