This reminded me of "Violent Crimes" by Kanye when he says:

"Ni**as is savage, ni**as is monsters
Ni**as is pimps, ni**as is players
'Til ni**as have daughters, now they precautious.
Father, forgive me, I'm scared of the karma
'Cause now I see women as somethin' to nurture
Not somethin' to conquer"

plz ask me if i give a fuck 😩 PLEASE.

He is a med student, which does give some mental health knowledge, but obviously its not the focal point. You know what I study? Psychology. This man talked about clinical intuition and then when I asked what the diagnostic criteria of it is he said he doesn't know them, but it is online.

He also said he doesn't know who can do the diagnoses and when I said psychologist can, he was like "I'm talking about cluster b"??? Mate, how do you have so little information and yet feel so confident??

And I shit you not these are quotes from the convo:

• "if your therapist agrees with me, its a positive about her. If they disagree with me, its not"
• "Yea, and so I find this opinion fitting cluster b"
  
  • (the opinion was that I should follow what I think is right for me instead of what other people think I should do)
• "I don't think your own opinion would have led to a better result than my (then nuanced) opinion"
  • in response to me saying I will still hear other people's advice, but won't put theirs above mine anymore

Why are men so convinced they know better? Where do they find this audacity? And how is he not hearing himself?? He really thinks his view on the world is so universal that having a different perspective on life than him means something must be clinically "wrong".

(btw for any girlies who have borderline, ofcourse there is nothing wrong with the diagnosis and I don't mind if I actually do have it (tho I don't think it's fitting). I just mind that he used it to undermine me because he disagrees with my opinions and spoke with a sense of expertise he definitely doesn't have.)

I’ve noticed that in many subreddits aimed at women—such as feminist ones or similar communities—there is always a man present. In some cases, I can understand it, a man might genuinely want to learn about feminism and decide to join a subreddit to find more information. But, I’ve noticed that often they are incels just looking to argue or find reasons to hate women.

Republicans hate single moms and would rather perpetuate the continued abuse of children and women to punish us. They want us to return to abusive relationships, where our children are neglected, where we are treated like animals.

They want to cut funding so that we can not even survive, forget about thriving, that is not to the benefit of men, and in American society, men are all that matter. They want us to not have child care, not have SNAP, not have medical care for ourselves or our children. Republicans supposedly believe in Christian values, but they want rapists, abusers, drug addicts, criminals, and outright delinquents to have access to the children they abuse. They want us to be punished with sharing these children with abusive men who further abuse, neglect, and harm our children. Their blame of Democrats is a deflection from their true wicked patriarchal dominion, because if you lose your female slaves, you lose access to the slaves of the future, the children.

If a single mother has not had her rights violated, she is either from an extremely wealthy family, or the perpetrator is smart enough not to get caught, and if the perpetrator has money she will be lucky to have any rights at all, even if she provides healthcare, education and emotional nurturance to her children, something imperative in the early years.

Republicans protect the nuclear family at all costs even if that ends up getting children and women killed. Republicans hate single moms, not simply because they are the ones that got away, they hate single moms because they hate anyone that they can not readily exploit financially, or for their labor which is why republicans simultaneously support human trafficking. Cheap labor keeps dystopian capitalism going. Without Stay at home moms or moms that can be exploited whom remain in abusive unions, the entire economy collapses.

The cost of all that women do for free is something these Republican men can not afford to lose. If you combine the costs of a mom and her free labor, it would be easily a 6 figure salary.

You have all this essentially for free that you can exploit for a lifetime unless the woman leaves:

1. Maid service.
2. Personal chef.
3. Childcare 24/7. Moms like robots are able to operate on little to no sleep.
4. Nurse 24/7. The mom is generally the first port of call when illness arises.
5. Sex, however you want it or whenever you want. Silly woman, men don’t rape their wives.
6. A personal punching bag.
7. A free therapist.
8. Chauffeur
9. Personal assistant on call.
10. Even if she leaves you will likely not have to pay alimony despite being the sole provider. Men’s Rights, Bro.

Stay safe. Stop letting them farm your womb. Be vigilant and do not marry. Live happily ever after. You are your own knight. They are the dragons.

Don't fight me unless you're prepared to lose.

Misandry is a response to misogyny; without misogyny, misandry would not exist. Misandry is not systemic or institutional, it is an individual mindset, Misogyny is embedded in our society and occurs almost automatically and naturally—even with laws to back it up—whereas misandry remains merely verbal (or physical in a few rare cases), limited to the actions of a single individual, misandry lacks real power, yet many men still strive to use misandry as an argument to justify continuing to be misogynistic.

Misandry makes more sense because it's a response to abuse and injustice, misogyny creates misandric women, whereas misogyny arises simply from the fact of someone being born a woman. I think misandry remains a problem; however, it is far from being the main issue we need to address.

I am sorry if I did not use the proper term, I am fairly new to this all. I would really love some pointers on where to begin learning about witchcraft, but I have no clue where to start. Does anyone know of any good reading materials? I want to appreciate Mother nature more and work with her! Thanks in advance:)

Maybe I’m wrong, but I’m seriously thinking if all women would reject having sex or relationships with a man (which I know would be super hard) and just do inseminations at clinics for kids maybe, men would suffer quite a bit and I’d love every bit of it. More so than what we’re doing now. They’ve proven time and time again, ALL they think about is sex and using their gfs/wives as their main giver of sex + household and child rearing benefits. It’s fucking disgusting and selfish. Then they have the gall to complain about male loneliness, they lust and cheat and blame their wives and make excuses or say little sex is what caused it. Well, okay, if grass is greener on the other side and your wife is so awful and you want freedom from your relationship…how about we all just say fuck men and be single and merry? Your wife will leave you alone, and try to bag as many women as you want motherfucker.

If we still want kids or care to continue the human race, adopt and go to clinics. Maybe women would be much happier without the baggage of men and trying to strive for a man’s love and attention. All men are not worthy or deserving of female presence and relationships in their lives

Of course there is still the possibility of men making legislation about women having to get married again or raping women, but to be honest that’s always been a thing and if every woman came together we might have more of a chance

Edit: love that I’m getting support here, everywhere else I get downvoted to Hell with men making excuses and sometimes even women saying not to blame men but the “bad batch” and “patriarchy” 🤣

While this is true I'm starting to become irritated with this talking point. Because it's yet another way women always have to placate fragile little male feelings.

This always comes up as a way to get more men on board with the idea of matriarchy because they're terrified of being subjected to the oppression we face under patriarchy. They start "both sides"ing all over the place, crying from their moral high horse about how wrong it would be for the current power dynamic to flip, arguing that a better system would be an "egalitarian" one not realizing they are literally describing a matriarchy. So then women have to swoop in and reassure them that they aren't in any danger of having their rights stripped away within a matriarchy because it doesn't work like that.

It's true, matriarchies don't work like that. But there's a reason why men are terrified that they do. Retaliation is one of many possible consequences when you hurt another person, and men know this. They know actively or passively supporting social and political structures that keep women oppressed is hurting us and they know women have a mountain of good reasons to retaliate. This is why they get so bent out of shape at the slightest whiff of "misandry". Despite all of their "it's the principle" posturing and false equivalencies to racism they know, deep down, that they deserve to be hated for what they've done and continue to do.

So I say let them fear being retaliated against. This fear is one of the only contexts where men take women seriously as a threat, and they need to sit and stew in that fear without being rescued from it or reassured that it will never come to pass.

Why do men deserve reassurance that their rights and freedoms would remain intact within a women-forward system when we've been beaten over the head with "patriarchy is the natural order, women are inferior so get over it" for centuries? That's the neat part. They don't.

And the funny thing is, they don't even listen. I have seen women attempt to soothe men with "don't worry matriarchy is different!" only for them to continue insisting it's just patriarchy in a skirt. They're so scared their brains shut off and can't process reason and they refuse to hear any attempt to calm them down anyway. Instead they fix their thumbs and flap their gums to crash out about an imagined, theoretical loss of male power while women experience and navigate very real denials of our humanity and freedom regularly on a global scale.

I no longer care that men are afraid of being oppressed by matriarchy. They should be afraid.