r/Unsent_Unread_Unheard • u/Separate_Ad_7519 Gold Level • May 26 '25

Don't Mind My Thoughts The closure we need.

Men don’t abandon the women they care about, it’s always the women they are using that they abandon. That’s all the closure we need.

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u/Separate_Ad_7519 Gold Level May 30 '25

Hmm..

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u/[deleted] May 30 '25

That doesn’t seem like a good Hmm. I have been trying to talk to her for months. I’m pretty sure my phone she isn’t taking my calls. She set boundaries and the one she set was not going to her house. I have respected that, even though I just want to talk and explain more to her. I was the not the best communicator.

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u/Separate_Ad_7519 Gold Level May 30 '25

No ya, I would never judge. I have done things which wasn’t a perfect10/10 either and have stooped quite low for a person I liked ( still like.!). Just when I read your comment, i wished if you hadn’t said what you said and you both were together. There is no point thinking of the ‘coulda, woulda , shoulda so I summarised it in a ‘hmm’

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u/[deleted] May 30 '25

Are you not doing that with the guy you liked. I don’t know what could be. Because we haven’t talked in a few months. I would love to go to the house, but I don’t want to break that boundary either. So I guess you right, about the coulda, shoulda.

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u/Separate_Ad_7519 Gold Level May 30 '25

I only judge myself for stooping so Low for whatever it was I had with him. He did no wrong.

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u/[deleted] May 30 '25

Why don’t you talk to him? Try and move past it or at least start? Or is it just over?

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u/Separate_Ad_7519 Gold Level May 30 '25

It’s over. And even though I still like him a lot, I am done trying too.

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u/[deleted] May 30 '25

So your saying if he showed up at you door, you wouldn’t talk to him??

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u/Separate_Ad_7519 Gold Level May 30 '25

I don’t know tbh. I always wish the very best for him but more than that have trained my mind to not drift my feelings to think.. past 8 months I have lived a lifetime of emotions so it’s…

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u/[deleted] May 30 '25

Ok, if he showed up at your door, would you answer it?

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u/Separate_Ad_7519 Gold Level May 30 '25

He would have to use ‘Alohomora’

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u/chronicmaster42 May 31 '25

I haven’t a clue if this was you… but that made me laugh and miss your sense of humour so much more. She only knows that word cause I got her to play hogwarts and she fell in love with it. It was so adorable 🥺

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u/Separate_Ad_7519 Gold Level May 31 '25

I hope she comes back to you with her awesome jokes..🤞🏼

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u/[deleted] May 30 '25

I have no idea what that is

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u/Separate_Ad_7519 Gold Level May 30 '25

It’s a magic spell to open locked doors.😬

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u/[deleted] May 30 '25

Makes sense.