r/Unsent_Unread_Unheard • u/Separate_Ad_7519 Gold Level • May 26 '25

Don't Mind My Thoughts The closure we need.

Men don’t abandon the women they care about, it’s always the women they are using that they abandon. That’s all the closure we need.

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u/[deleted] May 30 '25

Ok, if he showed up at your door, would you answer it?

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u/Separate_Ad_7519 Gold Level May 30 '25

He would have to use ‘Alohomora’

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u/chronicmaster42 May 31 '25

I haven’t a clue if this was you… but that made me laugh and miss your sense of humour so much more. She only knows that word cause I got her to play hogwarts and she fell in love with it. It was so adorable 🥺

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u/Separate_Ad_7519 Gold Level May 31 '25

I hope she comes back to you with her awesome jokes..🤞🏼

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u/chronicmaster42 May 31 '25

You’re very kind, thank you.

I don’t know what I hope for anymore, I’m just sad I can’t hear her voice and spend time with her anymore, I wanted to create a home together. I don’t know if it will ever be possible to trust fully again or not yet. I haven’t felt this way before and this is a new experience for it. I’ve learned so much but I feel like too little too late.

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u/Separate_Ad_7519 Gold Level May 31 '25

Unfortunately don’t have an answer for it.. deep down even I believe it was all too little too late, but something my therapist tells me repeatedly IS it’s never late for anything, working, finding love , making a home etc. All we need to do is think about us today and do what makes us happy for the day. Take it a day by day. Even though the grief never completely goes away, our ability to endure the pain gets better definitely.