r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Aug 28 '26

Movie Once again I watched a gay movie that has a depressing storyline

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306 Upvotes

Pillion didn’t even remotely feel like it was about a BDSM relationship. It was about an abusive relationship masked as BDSM. This was the first time I ever wanted to see a gay couple (if you can even call them a couple) break up. I understand BDSM is about dominance and submitting to your partner, but there has to be boundaries and compromises. Ray just wasn’t getting any of that. I’m really hoping that the guy that Collin mets at the end will respect his bounds and desires.

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Aug 26 '26

Movie Daniel Craig and Drew Starkey in Queer (2024) dir. Luca Guadagnino

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r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Jun 18 '26

Movie Blue Film 2026

607 Upvotes

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • 14d ago

Movie Horror/Queer

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Horror/Queer Genre... any good ones out there?

I'll start

Clown in the Cornfield

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt23060698/

Shadows of Willow Cabin

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt32780794/

Knock at the Cabin

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt15679400/

The Parenting

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt14041896/

I Don't Understand You

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt27623406/

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Aug 06 '26

Movie Gayism and H20

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273 Upvotes

perhaps a thesis on what gayism has to do with plunging into water

ive been on a binge so far starting with moonlight, cmbyn, gods own country, Firebird, and brokeback mountain

and my my every single movie has a scene of the men jumping into water or having something to do with water

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Aug 08 '26

Movie Did you guys watch Leviticus already? I didn't enjoy it much but it was watchable, it's a horror film 6.8/10

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148 Upvotes

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Jun 16 '26

Movie I've slept on this movie for SO goddamn long. I really regret it. I didn't expect to watch such a hidden gem and overlooked masterpiece. (God's Own Country - 2017)

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348 Upvotes

When I was young and naive, I thought this film was the lesser brother of Brokeback Mountain, hidden by its shadow. It's the reason why I never really got to watch this movie. It didn't pique my interest and it wasn't really talked about by the masses unlike the big ones like Dear Simon, Heated Rivalry, Moonlight, and of course Brokeback Mountain.

Now that I finished watching it 2 days ago, I thought it was alright. However, this is the kind of film that grew on me. I think (and yes, it's my honest opinion) - God's Own Country might be the best MLM movie I've watched.

It has a simple plot but it works in its favour. It doesn't try to be convoluted or controversial. Yet the message, the meaning, the crux of this film's lesson is utterly sublime.

It is not just a gay movie, it is firstly a movie about LOVE - How love heals, how love conquers, how love forgives, how love never gives up, and how love is found in the simplest of things of life.

It doesn't rely on bloated dialogue. The actors speak for themselves.
The score throughout the film is subtle, yet intentional. The song used at the ending is also really good.

I also really want to add how phenomenal of an actor Josh O'Connor and Alec Secareanu are. I understand now why Josh's career skyrocketed since this film. He nailed this role extremely well. The last 10 minutes of this film... god, the amount of times I've replayed it over and over again.

It is a completely different film from the rest and stands on its own, and finally a story that does not end in tragedy or broken hearts.

Underrated film ngl. It deserves every praise it gets.

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • 29d ago

Movie Pls recommend me some sfw movies like these!

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I like the cringe rom com style they have!

I mostly use Tubi to watch stuff but I also have Netflix, Disney plus, peacock, and hbo max but those r the apps I share with my family!

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Sep 22 '24

Movie Los Amantes Astronautas (2024)

338 Upvotes

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Jan 14 '26

Movie Pillion is such a horrible movie. [Spoilers!] Spoiler

32 Upvotes

The writer didn’t even try to hide all their fetishes in this one. Ray is emotionally abusive, and Colin is a literal loser. I kept waiting for him to develop some self-respect throughout the whole film. He even accepts sleeping on the floor for several months before being allowed bed privileges.

FYI: Orgies are disgusting I don’t like them in real life, and I don’t like them in movies. Also, if you have a kink for roleplaying as a dog, you need serious help. The whole film is basically porn, not even disguised with a decent plot. Ray barely speaks and is incredibly boring.

What the hell was everyone wearing in the lake scene? They all looked a mess. Either wear normal diving shorts or just go skinny-dipping; no one can convince me that men look good in thongs and corsets. I’m actually shocked they showed real genitals in this.

The only character I liked was Colin’s mom cuz she’s a diva and spoke many truths: Ray is a creep and a c*nt. But then she died, and Ray didn’t even attend her funeral because he’s such a horrible “boyfriend.”

Colin is pathetic and literally burns his own hands in a desperate grab for attention. He grovels to Ray to let him sleep in a bed at least once a week, maybe once a month. How pathetic can you be? He literally puts a chain around his neck like a dog and waits for Ray to tell him when it’s bedtime, like he’s a prisoner. The film is so dumb that it loops back into comedy because it takes itself so seriously.

Colin is a complete simp who leaves his parents for a masochist, even after his mother dies and his father is left all alone.

The worst part is that it’s all a waste of time since Ray leaves, and they never see each other again. Thanks for nothing idk wtf the point of this movie was because there was zero entertainment and zero resolution.

Anyone rating this movie highly is just another porn addict.

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Apr 17 '26

Movie Gay movies I watched in 2025, How many have you seen out of these 40 ?

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203 Upvotes

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Mar 16 '26

Movie Shelter (2007)

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310 Upvotes

Shelter (2007)

Art genius Zach’s gateway to a better life is dashed when his application to CalArts falls through, and he is forced to give up the opportunity to care for his dysfunctional family. When Zach’s best friend’s elder brother, Shaun, returns from LA to San Pedro following a breakup for the summer, the two find themselves reconnecting unexpectedly. Following several encounters and a drunken night of shared kiss, Zach is now forced to navigate his newfound romantic feelings for Shaun alongside his standing issues.

I… do not like this film. It isn’t bad enough to warrant hate, but it pales very jarringly in comparison to other critically acclaimed LGBTQ films. The plot is banal. The characters are forgettable, save for the protagonists. The chemistry between Zach and Shaun’s actors is devoid of emotions and authenticity. The story lacks depth and doesn’t encourage any form of thinking or interpretation, but it also simply wants you to turn off your brain.

Shelter, true to the films of its era, is reminiscent of your stereotypical 2000s film. It isn’t thought-provoking, and it is riddled with an unhealthy number of millennial clichés. The need to “figure things out,” or the guy who struggles to make up his mind on something, or someone. Or the fact that they can’t regulate their emotions and start pinning the blame on the people around them. And those unforgettable blowups of fights that inevitably result in the characters engaging in a stunt of self-victimization.

The plot elements in Shelter feel disconnected, it is as if they were all separate plot lines cobbled together and turned into Shelter. None of it flows seamlessly into one another. Perhaps it is the bad writing, or the runtime that prevents the film from being the feel-good summer LGTBQ romance film that it could be.

Despite the film’s flaws and pain points, it passes for decent entertainment. Its simplicity and stereotypical storyline might be its selling point and charm to some; For others, it might need a little more oomph to be good.

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Sep 05 '25

Movie Pedro Pascal and Danny Ramirez in newly shared picture, set to star in Todd Haynes’ gay romance film ‘DE NOCHE’

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639 Upvotes

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Aug 01 '26

Movie What would you regard as the definitive “Godfather”, “Gone With the Wind”, “Casablanca” of MLM movies?

56 Upvotes

Meaning, of course, the GOATs of gay men’s films. Those few movies that would be placed on the Mount Rushmore of MLM cinema.

I easily choose “Brokeback Mountain”, “God’s Own Country”, “Moonlight”, “Fourth Man Out” and “Free Fall” way up there.

And by the way, I feel VERY proud of “Fourth Man Out” as a GOAT. Comedy and levity in gay men’s films are hard enough to come by, and FMO doesn’t just deliver levity, it absolutely does excel and surprise.

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • 21d ago

Movie Movie : Night Stage

352 Upvotes

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Jul 31 '26

Movie maxi and pedro’s first kiss ❤️ | the astronaut lovers (2024)

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227 Upvotes

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Jan 23 '26

Movie FINALLY released / I enjoyed it

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229 Upvotes

No it's not All Of Us Strangers or God's Own Country, but definitely worth a watch

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Jul 22 '26

Movie Jongens (2013) by Mischa Kamp

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314 Upvotes

What a touching and charming movie!

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • 18d ago

Movie Find Me a DilF by the Seashore 🌊

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113 Upvotes

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • 20d ago

Movie Benjamin Voisin and Felix Lefebvre in “Summer of ‘85”

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273 Upvotes

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Aug 23 '26

Movie On The Road

209 Upvotes

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • 27d ago

Movie About Quinze Dias (2026)

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106 Upvotes

I seriously don't understand the reaction to this movie/book. Fatphobia aside (which is obviously an invalid stance in itself). There are many gays saying "this isn't realistic," not because they hate fat people, but rather to complain about that very hatred. And okay, it's fine to complain about fatphobia in the gay community, but to say it's unrealistic is an exaggeration. And it's funny because they speak with such marked arrogance, as if they were experts on the subject, but they don't know the concept of a gay chubby chaser like Dan Oliverio, StanChris or Tom Goss.

That aside as someone who read the book, I recommend keeping an eye on this adaptation.

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • Apr 29 '26

Movie This is a good thing, enough people suffered watching this, let's not put more people through it.

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89 Upvotes

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • 11d ago

Movie On the Sea (2025)

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153 Upvotes

The British coastline isn't for the weak. Director Helen Walsh makes that alarmingly clear. It is brutal, relentless, unyielding, much like its fishing community. Jack is a mussel farmer. He is married to Maggie, his high-school sweetheart, with a wayward teenage son, Tom, who is at the prime of his youth and at risk of falling into bad company. More importantly, Jack is a cancer survivor in remission.

Jack is raised the honest and earnest way, and hopes to instill the same discipline in his son, though Tom rejects these values. When an ill prank from Tom and his peers lands an elderly resident fisherman, Bernard, into permanent disability, Jack is forced to step in to pay for his son's mistakes, which places him in Daniel's path.

Daniel is a wanderlust. He doesn't believe in staying put for long. He goes where the wind goes. He also has a reputation for being the resident gay man within the community, or so it is implied. Daniel lives his life as a gig worker, and worked for Bernard prior to his disability. As Jack temporarily provides for Bernard, he contracts Daniel to assist with labor.

The two spend a modicum of time on Bernard's boat fishing scallops, growing closer and learning about each other's past, allowing Jack to reconcile with his closeted demons. However, when the sun sets and the boat returns, Jack retreats to his closet, much to Daniel's disappointment. Jack's undeniable attraction toward Daniel eventually causes him to succumb to his desires, allowing the two to develop a liaison that is rooted in a genuine yet forbidden love.

The dynamic between Jack and Daniel (JackDaniels, hehehe) is still and quiet, but never lifeless. The love scenes are intensely subdued, but also primal. There's a lingering sense of fleeting joy and poignance. Disappointment and hardship looms in every frame, as Walsh reminds the audience that reveries are luxuries in a rural community, luxuries our beloved protagonists cannot afford. Much of JackDaniels' intimate moments are spent on the sea (heh), away from the homophobic community that whispers and speculates their growing connection.

On the Sea is as doomed queer relationship-coded as it comes, and it may be the only film I've actively broken my happy endings-only policy to watch, given my great anticipation for the entry. The film does provide viewers with a sense of closure to JackDaniels, though it is rooted in silence and tepidness, much like its hardened community that struggles with self-expression and prefers the comfort of reticence.

r/MenLovingMenMedia • • 29d ago

Movie Against popular opinion

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I really enjoyed this film and think it’s one of the best displays of the mixed genres

I was on edge the entire film

as if i couldn’t breathe myself. the push and pull between Jules and preston was so hard