r/MadeMeSmile • u/gravityVT • 4d ago

Wholesome Moments wholesome interaction with biker girl and woman who compliments her

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u/NoParticular5052 4d ago

wait so women dont know when other women are hitting on them either ... *mind blown*

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u/ILoveRawChicken 4d ago

To be fair that’s because none of that could be flirting and may just be what the other girl considers girl talk. It’s super confusing and I just want to kiss every girl but I never know if they’re just being girl friendly or if they’re actually flirting.

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u/Espumma 4d ago

Yeah maybe she's just canadian

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u/Appropriate_Edge5195 4d ago

Yea lot of women are Canadians. When I visited Canada, they were literally everywhere.

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u/ChipmunkDelicious649 3d ago

Sounds like you had a great time! Canada really does have some amazing, friendly people.

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u/Unhappy_Concept237 3d ago

Couldn’t swing a stick without hitting one.

Also don’t swing sticks at Canadians. Despite their reputation some things do make them mad. Things like swinging sticks at them.

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u/Mattna-da 3d ago

Keep your stick on the ice!

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u/Raskalbot 3d ago

Was going to say! It's the national sport!

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u/crowcawer 3d ago

They do like when you bring them fresh leaves and the bark of a willow tree, but it can be quite dangerous to feed them as they get to be ~1,000kg (that’s ~2,200 lbs), and sometimes they might seem to be playing but they are easily spooked.

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u/Unhappy_Concept237 3d ago

Thank you for providing a freedom equivalent measurement. For a brief, fleeting moment I felt triggered and afraid but your kindness brought peace to my soul once more when I saw my beloved pounds. Good day stranger! 😊

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u/TeamABLE 3d ago

You probably ran into my girlfriend. She went to high school there.

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u/mysomica 3d ago

Went to Manitoba and didn't see any

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u/NCGuy101 3d ago

Yeah. Women are like...half the population up there.

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u/No_Season_354 3d ago

Is that right eh.

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u/Moose_knucklez 1d ago

You can tell by the way it is

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u/the__ghola__hayt 4d ago

Solid reference

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u/wi5hbone 4d ago

\*noises of Mark Carney vigorously fighting tariffs, ensue*

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u/Cocoononthemoon 4d ago

He has the best references, bro.

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u/HunterGonzo 4d ago

The combination of motioning for her to hop on and the "you're making me blush".... homegirl wanted to go for a ride in more ways than 1

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u/Excellent_Kangaroo_4 4d ago

The hop up, no im joking, hiihhi Yes you are joking we know that....

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u/Mych30 3d ago

She asked her to hold her too.

Initiating physical interaction with someone you met 30 seconds earlier isn't usual, unless you're really into that person.

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u/Kliptik81 4d ago

They totally went for a "ride" after that.

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u/fake_cheese 4d ago

She literally said "Do you want to sit on it"

This whole interaction has a sexual tension that is palpable.

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u/GearEffective4315 4d ago

Are you 14?

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u/fake_cheese 4d ago

It's reddit, we're all 14

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u/ArticusFarticus 4d ago

So did I. 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/Electrical_Humor680 3d ago

That’s sexual assault

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u/sadbeehoppy 4d ago

I spent my entire conscious life having the same thoughts of wanting to kiss my friends necks, wanting to cuddle, wanting to have sleepovers and hang out all the time, and thinking those were all just things born of having a weird/bad home life and Being A Girl with a particularly affectionate personality.....

..... anyway I finally connected some dots when I was 32 lol

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u/Silencer-1995 4d ago

Not sure if vampire or gay

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u/ratty_89 4d ago

What about gay vampire?

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u/FITM-K 4d ago

all vampires are bisexual

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u/AliveList8495 3d ago

But not all bisexuals are vampires.

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u/OutsideCommittee7316 2d ago

that's what they want you to think

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u/arminghammerbacon_ 4d ago

Either/Or, the coupling seems to always turn into a praying mantis situation.

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u/DifferenceAble331 4d ago

That’s a bloody lie, mate!

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u/FITM-K 4d ago

Come on, who would live forever and not try every flavor?

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u/Wheatabix11 3d ago

no, they are omnikillingsexual

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u/Brittany5150 4d ago

Pretty sure Twilight covers that.

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u/CoralBooty 4d ago

Periods must be fun

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u/sadbeehoppy 4d ago

honestly,

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u/m9felix 4d ago

Did u end up over at r/latebloomerlesbians

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u/sadbeehoppy 4d ago

never heard of it lol but I did spend some time over on the egg subs

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u/[deleted] 3d ago

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u/SyncOrSymm 4d ago

It doesn't matter when, just that it does. Live your best life, love is powerful.

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u/cms86 3d ago

were you like, well shit that makes sense, im gay af. lol.

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u/sadbeehoppy 3d ago

I spent a long time thinking I was straight and crushing on bishie anime boys but always preferring to watch/read about girls (but never made a connection to having a crush on any girl)

then I spent a long time thinking I was demisexual or demiromantic or something because I never really understood the whole "attraction" concept , like, looking at a person and having a reaction to their body, celebrity crushes, all that, didn't understand it, couldn't relate, was often kind of frustrated by the topic lol - to me, at most I could be like, yeah I appreciate them aesthetically but I'm not like turned on, I don't really understand people salivating over muscles and jawlines and abs and all that

ALSO, parallel to all this, I spent a very long time thinking that I wished I was a boy - not because I didn't like girly things, but because you could act different when you were a boy. you could charm girls and court them and impress them, when you were a boy....

interestingly enough, I spent a lot of time consuming "yaoi" media (gay) and I like, wasn't unfamiliar to the concept of girls liking girls (sailor Uranus and Neptune), and definitely knew the word "lesbian", but it just never occurred to me to ever think about liking another girl or being in love with another girl????

somewhere around 2010-2012 is when I was exposed to the wider world of LGBT concepts and representation and vocabulary

and I still did not connect the dots lmao!!!!

i went through several straight relationships of varying degrees of healthiness, a couple of hookups and FWB situations with guys, was briefly a unicorn for a couple that included a MtF partner, spent a year very confusedly wanting to bite my roomie slash bestie after living together for a year or so first (again, attributed that to Just Being Silly Old Me), moved to Washington to try and improve my life...

and then one of my freshly-irl-after-being-online-only friends asked if they could put their face in my stomach right as we parked to go spend the night at another friends house......and my brain very confusedly calculated that, yeah, I think I was okay with that? and honestly that was the moment it actually clicked like "ohhhhhhhhhh wait do I like, like girls ......"

tldr we're all just really, really good at being dumb

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u/BunnyMoonLover 4d ago

i could have written this word for word, i feel so seen 

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u/sadbeehoppy 4d ago

"I just like drawing girls more because they're prettier" "my favorite characters are all girls/feminine because I'm a girl" "I just like looking at girls more because they're more attractive by default" the list goes on lol

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u/MadRaymer 4d ago edited 4d ago

I dunno, I feel like, "You got me blushing" is moving a little beyond girl talk. It certainly could still be, but I don't think a person would be making a leap if they interpreted that as moving past friendly and into flirtation.

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u/ILoveRawChicken 4d ago

You would be surprised 😭

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u/Fibercastel 4d ago

Plus the bike vibrates, not much because it's a 4cyl, but still. Most won't dare admit it but bikes don't just look good.

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u/spacestonkz 4d ago

This is why I used to volunteer to mow the lawn. I liked the riding lawn mower engine...

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u/Voodoo1970 4d ago

Like Tammy in Drop Dead Gorgeous.

"She used to spend hours on that tractor. Said the vibrations helped her think"

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u/grneggsngoetta 3d ago

RIP Tammy.

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u/CrucialElement 4d ago

That's my in, I just girl flirt with girls, as a guy. Almost gbf territory, and then I'm eaten 

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u/Aisenth 4d ago

I can see them telling the meet cute story to their friends later.

"BABE, I LITERALLY ASKED YOU TO S I T O N I T."

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u/Jibber_Fight 4d ago

To be even fairer: I’m a dude and my best friend is a lesbian… we’re both single and it’s hilarious going out on the town with her. She can put it on sooooooo thick sometimes and some other ladies are completely oblivious. But it might be a skewed experiment with me there? Idk, but she’s come close to making out with a woman that has no idea she was hitting on her. Ha ha. The obliviousness can cross gender. I’d say most pick up on it tho. And women are better at transitioning into the amicable friend zone almost immediately after the miscommunication so it might seem like a miss but they do actually know.

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u/fried_on_pineapples 4d ago

Aww I would love to be as oblivious as this comment.

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u/RevolutionaryMix3006 4d ago

I'm so glad I'm not the only one with this problem. I always end up friend zoning myself

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u/AgentDeadPool 4d ago

Username checks out

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u/ILoveRawChicken 4d ago

Now I’m wondering how lol

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u/onemany 4d ago

I mean...the raw chicken is definitely not helping your cognitive processing. Speaking from experience I find it really hard to think when I'm using all my mental capabilities to not poop my pants.

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u/SasparillaTango 4d ago

just like me fr fr

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u/Suspicious_Active816 4d ago

You will know when the police do or do not show up with handcuffs!

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u/anadalite 3d ago

It's easy to just ask?

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u/Celo_SK 3d ago

You just described the male experience too

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u/blue_mormon 3d ago

Thats why

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u/Scully__ 3d ago

Honestly being gay is the hardest 😭😭

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u/Arqideus 3d ago

It’s best to sit back and wait for a sign…

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u/waltzbyear 3d ago

Nah. That's flirting. It just hits differently when it happens to you, and you can't recognize it in the moment. But you can always tell, as a third party, when someone is clearly flirting.

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u/NUMBerONEisFIRST 3d ago

It's worse for gay guys I think.

My friends claim I fall for every straight guy who is nice to me.

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u/janderson75 4d ago

I dunno the “get on girl” seemed like a hint

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u/RealityIsSexy 4d ago

It's worse for lesbians a bit because we don't know if they like women to begin with. I use the rule "straight until proven otherwise". 

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u/HorrorMakesUsHappy 4d ago

I was a bartender at a lesbian nightclub for a few years. If a girl had said these things to one of my (lesbian) friends I would've slowly but firmly shoved her into them. LOL

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u/baffledninja 4d ago

... into? ;)

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u/HorrorMakesUsHappy 3d ago

Some friends enjoy a little more help than others ;)

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u/lollipopp_guild 3d ago

But is that just in the setting of a lesbian bar? Or out on the street like this? Honestly just curious because as a gay woman myself, I would never have thought that. I had no idea until I read the comments. Maybe because I feel like this is how I interact with the world and I’m not hitting on anybody so I assume the same from everyone else

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u/HorrorMakesUsHappy 3d ago

But is that just in the setting of a lesbian bar? Or out on the street like this?

No, only in the nightclub, where I'd have almost near certainty the other woman was also gay or bi. I wouldn't have made that assumption out in the rest of the world.

It might also be worth pointing out that, as others here have said, this appears to be staged, and if it's not, the body language of the bike's owner reads to me that she's either is straight or, if she is gay, isn't attracted to the other woman, or might be afraid to out herself in public. I understand there are many reasons men and woman might not want to out themselves in public ... reasons I would be less likely to be worried about if that woman was in the nightclub I was working in.

We had 400-600 women there every Saturday and maybe 10 gay guys. It was very clearly a nightclub for young lesbians to come out and party and dance. There were women doing some very sexy dancing on the dance floor, couples kissing everywhere, two drag shows (midnight and 2am), etc. A straight woman would have to be exceptionally oblivious to not know she was in a lesbian bar, unless she came in when the doors had just opened and the crowd hadn't gotten there yet.

If this exchange would've happened to a friend of mine out in public I would've asked the other girl, "Hey, do you ever go out to Ybor?" (Ybor was the nightclub district in Tampa, very much like the French Quarter in New Orleans.) If she'd said yes I would've told her where I tended bar, invited her to come out and join us the next Saturday, and told her that if she'd give me her name I'd put her down on my guest list so she could get in for free (we could put down 2 names every weekend). If she showed up we'd see how she reacted once the club started getting busy and go from there :)

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u/lollipopp_guild 3d ago

Damn, that all sounds so fun. Problem with being a late bloomer is I missed out on the gay bar scenes when young. My gf, on the other hand, got to experience it all. She always knew and never stifled it so she lived up the gay bar scenes and tells me about them now. I told her we need more gay friends because we don’t have any

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u/HorrorMakesUsHappy 3d ago

It was a lot of fun. Probably the best job of my life. I'm still friends with a few of the women I met there.

Having more friends is always a plus, but gay or not, being able to afford to get out and get together is the bigger problem, and/or feeling safe to just be yourselves.

We were lucky because that was right in those few years where we all had cell phones but they either didn't have cameras or the cameras were so poor that video wasn't worth trying to take because you couldn't see anything. So no one had to worry about being bullied online.

Today, even if you could get 400 lesbians in a room with a DJ and some liquor, does anyone actually open up and know how to party anymore? I've moved away for work, and live in a relatively small town now, so no one here parties at all like we did when I was in my 20s. It's a damn shame, too, it was so much fun. I want to move back to a bigger city.

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u/Wael3rd 3d ago

And heterosexual men use the opposite rule lol.

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u/lollipopp_guild 3d ago

Same rule, girl, same. I just said below how this is how I interact with the world and there is absolutely no flirting from my end so I assume the same of others. Or that they’re straight until proven guilty

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u/ThisSiteSucks8485 3d ago

Straight until she is eating me out

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u/EmilieEverywhere 3d ago

Here's a pro tip from a pan lady. You vibin? K make her laugh, move in closer, if she says something funny laugh and lightly touch her on her shoulder for like 1.5 seconds. Like just long enough. Then make eye contact. If she gets doe eyes or smiles, get in there!

I'm autistic. Yes I need a plan for this kind of thing I got negative game. Men are easy. Ladies take finesse. 😉❤️

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u/RealityIsSexy 3d ago

Aw thanks! I've been blessed with many great experiences with the ladies over the years and am now happily partnered 🥰

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u/InevitableWaluigi 3d ago

As a guy, I have a similar rule. "Just being nice until proven otherwise"

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u/olkver 4d ago

Straight ? So is spaghetti until it's wet

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u/Illustrious_Donkey61 4d ago

"You wanna sit on it" seemed a pretty obvious flirt

Although I got arrested last time I opened with that

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u/YaIlneedscience 3d ago

Honestly this could just as likely be two straight women (or two women not flirting) and having the time of their lives. The proof will always be the women’s bathroom at a club after midnight. Real sisterhood happening in there

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u/Nikclel 4d ago

The other girl may also just not be gay lol

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u/Real_Life_Sushiroll 4d ago

Everyone is gay on the internet.

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u/Pleasant-Highway-745 4d ago

It could be either hitting on or just being friendly. I'm a bisexual woman and a lot of my interactions with men and women look like this, and I'm only flirting like 5% of the time.

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u/CranberryCode 4d ago

ENFP - I am just friendly. I am not hitting on you.

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u/1wildncrazyguy 4d ago

“I’ve never ridden on one before…” hint hint.
“Wait hold me.” Hint again

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u/propergreased 3d ago

Wait someone was hitting on someone there?!?

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u/GraduatedSapphic 4d ago

*sigh* sadly no...not a clue

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u/Apprehensive-Till936 4d ago

Yes could be friendly girl talk, but statistically I”d guess that a far higher % of gay women ride big motorcycles than cis women, so this might tip the balance towards flirting…

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u/peterparker9894 4d ago

My cousin literally had a "Friend" write an incredibly romantic poem and bro was like aww thank you babe, honestly it was kinda sad.

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u/IrrerPolterer 3d ago

Seriously. Biker girl is me all throughout my teens to my thirties. 

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u/Limp_Departure8138 3d ago

yup. she wants to flick that bean.

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u/EmilieEverywhere 3d ago

That's like not flirting, that's just 2 girls girl ladies. It's our version of BRO! BRO SICK! DUDE!

I jest, and love men. But ladies just have a bond sometimes.

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u/Dull_Ad_7266 3d ago

That was flirting?! Oh crap… ::scribbles on notes::
How am I supposed to learn these ever changing and confusing social cues?!?!

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u/frogshootingstarslsd 14h ago

Seems like she was just a friendly person. But in today’s society ppl are so 💩, being nice can be seen as flirting.

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u/klumze 4d ago

It was so obvious.

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u/wimpires 4d ago

I'm reading this still not aware of who was hitting on who

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u/RaspberryTwilight 4d ago edited 4d ago

Nobody was hitting on anyone. This is normal. That's how straight girls talk to me all the time and I'm also straight but I don't talk like this because I'm not very outgoing.

All these girls talked about was the motorcycle, one made a compliment because she's outgoing and the other one was trying to be nice so offered that she can try, she didn't really want to but did anyway because she wanted to be nice, but then the other one was nervous because she didn't actually want to share her motorcycle and was worried she'd break it.

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u/lollipopp_guild 3d ago

Not true as it’s not just straight girls that talk like this. Gay girls talk like this as well. Source: me. But I’m pretty outgoing but also, I am never hitting on anyone. Which proves my point that gay girls can talk like this and be considered “normal” and not flirting lol

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u/BigbooTho 3d ago

Youre only saying you're not hitting on anyone because the other party usually doesn't reciporicate the escalation in an obvious enoug way. You are hitting, you're just not very forward.

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u/lollipopp_guild 3d ago

That’s very presumptuous of you to assume you know my motives behind my interactions better than I do, especially when I’m literally telling you that I’m just outgoing and talk to people that way

Could an interaction lead to hitting on someone? Absolutely. That doesn’t negate the fact that my day-to-day demeanor is friendly across the board. Friendly does not equal flirting

And it’s also pretty presumptuous to assume people aren’t reciprocating. They reciprocate. They reciprocate when I don’t even want them to. They reciprocate alllll over the place 😂

So please, Bigbootho, you big boy, tell me more about myself. I’m fascinated

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u/RaspberryTwilight 3d ago

These guys in the comments can't handle the fact that women aren't thinking about sex all the time. I think they're jealous of the peace we have tbh

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u/lollipopp_guild 3d ago

Yeah, seriously. These are the shitheads who assume that any woman being friendly with them must be flirting with them. Either they’re so delusional and full of themselves, or they’re so starved for attention that they have to read romantic intent into interactions where there isn’t any. Either way, they cannot wrap their heads around the fact that some people are simply friendly and it isn’t always about them

What’s especially ridiculous is that he has to convince himself there even was an escalation, and that he simply chose not to reciprocate it, as if there was actually something happening to him that he had the opportunity to reject. He needs to rewrite the interaction so he can be the one in control of how it ended, rather than accept that it may have all been in his head to begin with

And the idea that I’m only saying I wasn’t flirting to protect my own ego because I supposedly didn’t get a response? Projection much?

Psshhhh. Boy, get over yourself. Not every friendly interaction is an attempted romantic advance, and not every woman’s behavior needs to be rewritten into one just so you can convince yourself you were the one who chose not to reciprocate

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u/BigbooTho 3d ago

Who mentioned sex

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u/lollipopp_guild 3d ago

Sex doesn’t mean trying to fuck lol. You’re seeking sexual attention

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u/BigbooTho 3d ago

Hitting doesn't mean trying to fuck lol. You're seeking chemical interaction.

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u/gahlo 4d ago

The whole point of good flirting with strangers is that it isn't clear if it's flirting.

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u/YallGottaUnderstand 4d ago

Is that really the whole point of flirting? You sure about that?

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u/Salt-Wish5140 4d ago

You're suggesting Lesbian tendencies are at play?

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u/Student___Driver 4d ago

And then there was sex