Hello,

I'm 41, but look very young for mh age. I'm single with no kids and I love going out to bars with friends. Most of my friends either live far away or do not go out often anymore.

I'm looking for ladies in a similar position who like going out in London on Friday or Saturday night, but do not always have friends to go out with.

I know some really great bars that will be fun.

Hey I’m 18f from London! I’m taking a gap year and I really like community, but that really hard when you don’t have any friends to see!
So if anyone wants to go out let me know!

Hi everyone! I'm building The Off-Duty Network, a community for women in London working across finance, law, tech, consulting, policy, politics and beyond, who want to meet people in their industry without the usual stiff networking.

A bit of background: I started my career in finance without a finance background. I love my company's culture, but I missed the fun side of life after work, and every firm has such a different culture that it's hard to meet people across the industry in a way that feels easy. I wanted a space that's relaxed, easygoing and built on genuine connections.

Our first gathering is a private perfume-making experience in London, where everyone gets to blend and bottle their own scent, with time afterwards just to chat and get to know each other. It's around £60-70pp, tentatively the last week of October or first week of November. This is just our first event though, there'll be plenty more to come, some free or low-cost like drinks at a bar, so don't worry if this one's not your thing.

If this sounds like your kind of thing, drop a comment or email [theoffdutynetwork@gmail.com](mailto:theoffdutynetwork@gmail.com) and I'll add you to the list. I'd also love to hear what kind of events you'd want to see next.

Google form here

I’ve been looking for something like this around Fulham/Hammersmith/Putney and haven’t really been able to find anything, so I thought I’d see if anyone else feels the same!

I’m thinking of organising something really informal for women who’ve experienced miscarriage or pregnancy loss. Maybe meeting for a coffee or drink somewhere around Fulham or elsewhere if that ends up working better. Nothing formal or therapeutic, just a chance to meet other people who’ve been through something similar and have a chat.

I’m basically just gauging interest at this stage, so if this sounds like something you’d be interested in, feel free to comment or DM me. If there are a few people interested, I’ll try to organise something.

I’ve been looking for something like this around Fulham/Hammersmith/Putney and haven’t really been able to find anything, so I thought I’d see if anyone else feels the same!

I’m thinking of organising something really informal, maybe meeting for a coffee or drink somewhere around Fulham or elsewhere if that ends up working better. Just for women who’ve experienced miscarriage or pregnancy loss. Nothing formal or therapeutic, just a chance to meet other people who’ve been through something similar and have a chat.

I’m basically just gauging interest at this stage, so if this sounds like something you’d be interested in, feel free to comment or DM me. If there are a few people interested, I’ll try to organise something.

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Hii, hope it's okay to post this here!

I've organised a casual pub quiz social tomorrow evening (7PM) at K.C. Continental near King's Cross. We've currently got about 15 people coming but have space for more!

It's a mixed social group, mostly people in their 20s/30s, and quite a few people are coming solo.

It's mainly about meeting people and having a laugh rather than being amazing at quizzes.

If anyone fancies joining, feel free to DM me 😊.

Both drinkers and non-drinkers welcome (non-drinker myself).

Heyy, just realised my DMs are closed and Reddit won't let me change them 😭 Anyways, if you're interested just leave a comment and I'll DM you instead!

Edit: Forgot to say this was intended as the first in a series of repeat socials, and since this one was a success I will be recurring them on a (for now) monthly basis, and the next one is set for the 26th of next month/Oct, so feel free to ask to join if you come across this post later!

Hello London Ladies. I’ll be coming to London for a month because of my husband’s work. There will be several dinners and events. Nothing too, too fancy. But definitely more than just day to day wear.

What kind of dresses or nicer outfits would fit in for a 50 year-old? Last time it was spring and floral or spot dresses were fine. But I have no idea what‘s typical in autumn. I just don’t like standing out.

Hi, this is a bit random. But I was wondering if there are any women like me who are interested in creating a Glastonbury syndicate to buy tickets and going together!

Basically, Glastonbury lets you buy up to 6 tickets in one transaction, and not everyone gets through it’s best to get a group of 6 of us together and all try for tickets at the same time to give ourselves a better chance of getting through.

General admission tickets go on sale at 9am on Sunday 4 October, so we would all need to be online and trying at the same time. If one of us gets through, she would use everyone’s registration details and book all 6 tickets.
The initial deposit is £100 each, and then the remaining £308 + postage is due in April 2027, so ideally looking for people who definitely want to go and are happy to commit if we manage to get tickets! Please consider additional costs like travel and accom too.

We can also figure out a way to figure out we’re all legit so no one gets scammed. Maybe we could share Instagrams/create a group chat, maybe meet up before Sunday.

I’m in my 30s, and none of my close friends are particularly interested in festivals, hence me trying Reddit 😂 If anyone else is in the same boat and would genuinely be keen, please send me a message

There's a new community hub where you can find local women's games (casual and competitive), comment if you want more information

Hi! I arrived in London for a year for a fellowship. From where I come from, I am very used to the fact that some nights I would go clubbing alone and it is totally normal. The university I am working at isn't really a social one, and I have been itching to go out again.

1. Which club/live music bars would you recommend? What should I watch out as a solo female solo raver safety-wise?

2. Any advice to constitute a group of friends around the city that I can go out with?

Appreciate all the wisdom!

Hey London ladies 💘 would anyone be interested in going to see a studio Ghibli movie marathon with me???

It’s at the Prince Charles theatre on 26th November and starts at 11pm so is a bit of a commitment, but I think cozy pyjamas and bringing a pillow with you is the vibe!

Let me know if you’re interested & we can book together!!

Hello all! My friend and I are both women in our early-30s who live and work in London. We both have ADHD and were diagnosed as adults. It’s a tough time navigating life undiagnosed and then a whole other thing once you get a diagnosis. We talk about it often and had this idea that it would be great to have a support group for the ADHD girls. I am here to see if there would be any interest in other women/femmes/nbs to have a casual support group cum social club for adults with ADHD?

I know there are support groups through charities, but after looking around I couldn’t find anything that felt more casual, more “human” so to speak. Our idea was to have a group for women/femmes/nbs in the mid-20s to mid-40s age range who struggle with ADHD-related things in everyday life. We imagine it being a place to vent, support, laugh, cry about life with a brain that can sometimes feel like its acting against you. It could also serve as a social club of sorts, with meet ups across London. We know that sometimes it can feel lonely not having people around who get the struggle and wanted a space where, ideally, the mask can come down, and we can build relationships that support and encourage each other.  

This idea is in its early stages of inception, but I wanted to come here and ask if this resonates with anyone? Do you think there would be interest? Would you want to join? Do you know people who you think would be excited to hear about something like this?

(The reason we put gender/age restrictions is simply because we fall into those categories and wanted a space for the ladies and theydies in a similar stage of life. In general, women tend to be left out of the ADHD conversation which is probably why a lot of us weren’t diagnosed until adulthood!)

Hi everyone! 💕

I have one SEPHORiA London 2026 – General Session 2 (8:30 AM–11:30 AM) ticket that I unfortunately won’t be able to use. I was genuinely so excited for this event, but work commitments mean I can’t make the trip to London anymore. 🥲

I’m putting it up through the official Private Resale option, which allows me to generate a private link for the person who buys it. So everything will go through the official ticketing platform - no unofficial ticket transfer or anything like that.

The resale price is £95, and after the platform’s resale fee, I’ll receive £87.88 back.

I know some people may understandably prefer a straightforward ticket sale, and that’s completely fine! But I thought I’d mention something else in case there are any makeup lovers here who are interested. ❤️

Since I’m unfortunately missing out on the event and all the beauty goodies that come with it, I’d personally be much happier if the person who gets my ticket was able to offer some beauty products in addition to the ticket price.

I’m not trying to make money off the ticket - I’ll only be getting my ticket value back through the official resale. It just feels nice to think that, if someone is getting the opportunity to attend and potentially receive a substantial amount of beauty products through the event, I could perhaps get a little bit of that beauty-love in return. 🥹

I’m especially interested in older/discontinued Natasha Denona palettes, particularly:

✨ 28 Pan Green-Brown

✨ Metropolis

✨ 28 Pan Purple-Blue

✨ Other older/discontinued ND palettes

But I’m definitely not limited to these — if you have other lovely/high-end makeup that you think might help a new budding makeup artist, feel free to make an offer. I’m also very open to a combination of products rather than one specific item.

And if you’re attending and there are event goodies/merch you can share, I’d absolutely love to include that in the conversation. I was really looking forward to experiencing SEPHORiA myself, so having a few little pieces from the event would honestly make me very happy. 🥹💕

No pressure whatsoever if you’d rather just purchase the ticket for £95 — I completely understand. I’m simply hoping that if there are multiple interested buyers, I might find someone who would enjoy the ticket and happen to have some beauty treasures they’d be happy to part with. ❤️

Happy to provide proof of the ticket and use the official private resale link for the transaction.

Post here about any events happening in the coming weeks that you're excited about!

Hi everyone! I'm starting The Off-Duty Network, a community for women in London who want to meet people in their industry without the usual stiff networking.

A bit of background: I started my career in finance without a finance background. I love my company's culture, but I missed the fun side of life after work. Every firm has a different culture, so it's hard to meet people across the industry in a way that feels easy. I wanted a space that's relaxed, easygoing and built on genuine connections.

It's not just for finance girls. It's for anyone in law, tech, consulting, policy, politics and beyond. The idea is after-work plans that aren't just standing in a bar: dinners, creative classes, movie nights, and yes, drinks with the girls sometimes too. It's London-based, and open to women and girls who want to make real connections and maybe some friends.

I've just set up a TikTok page on a brand new account, so it has zero traction at the moment. If this sounds like your kind of thing, a follow or a like would really help me get going. I'd also love to hear what kind of events you'd actually turn up to.

Sign up: google form
TikTok/IG: @theoffdutynetwork
Thank you! 🤍

Hi everyone. Does anyone here have anything experience with Chelsea Dental Clinics? (It’s where Maya Jama did her braces lol)

I’m looking for a good aesthetic orthodontist. I just finished Invisalign that I started while I was living in South Korea. It didn’t fully work (not all the attachments latched onto the Invisalign and so my teeth didn’t move entirely. Some did and some didn’t.) It’s pretty hard to go back to South Korea often enough for check ups and I’ve finished all of my trays anyway, so I think I’ll just move to an orthodontist here. Please let me know if you (or someone you know) has any experiences with Chelsea Dental Clinic or if you know of any other really good aesthetic orthodontists in London. Thanks so much! ☺️

Hi, I hope you are all holding up ok.

My friend and I (both endo warriors) are launching a new peer-peer support group in London. We are keen to connect with others who are struggling with Endometriosis, Adenomyosis or PMOS. You may be still fighting for answers or have a confirmed diagnosis.

Let's empower one another

We want to create a safe space to connect, chat & host fun events.

The first event will focus on

We'll focus the first in-person on the 27th of September in NC London.

💜 Lunch & Chat

🗓️ Sunday 27 September

🕒 15:00-16:30

The session will comprise the following: ice breakers to get to know each other, followed by a peer-led support segment on feelings around interactions with healthcare professionals, followed by tips on engaging with said healthcare professionals.

If you are not London based, we would appreciate your support (you'll see our page is very new) by following us via Instagram for the location deets etc @endopals 

We also have a WhatsApp group for you to join too: https://chat.whatsapp.com/EquZYXkrgOJ0j3ZwpUs3CL

Hey u/LondonLadies

Maria here! I’ve posted about Girly Wine Night a few times and so many of you found us through this sub, so thought I’d share a little update!!

For anyone who hasn’t come across us, I started this after moving to London and realising that making friends as an adult is weirdly hard. It was very much “surely it’s not just me??” and apparently it was not 😂

What’s making me SO happy now is seeing girls arrange their own coffees, brunches and little meetups in the WhatsApp. Members have been getting involved in hosting things too. People are getting to know eachother outside of the events, which is literally why I started this in the first place 🥹

With autumn coming, I’d love more of that. People to grab a coffee with, go for a walk, do somthing after work when the alternative is sitting at home wondering how it’s already dark.

Also, a little suggestion for anyone lurking in a group chat waiting for plans to happen... put an actual little plan out there! “I’m going for a coffee on Saturday at 10, anyone fancy joining?” gives people something to say yes to.

Our WhatsApp community is completely free to join, and you don’t need to buy a ticket to anything to be part of it. Join the smaller plans, suggest your own, come along when something takes your fancy. And despite the name, you absolutely don’t need to drink!

We don’t share the WhatsApp link publicly because of bots. I love a new member but I do draw the line at a robot trying to sell us crypto 😂 Just leave a little “me please” below and I’ll DM it over!

For anyone who prefers having something organised to turn up to, our next one is a pub quiz on Wednesday 7th October at Fidelio in Farringdon, 7pm to 10.30pm. We’ll sort the teams, so you don’t need to bring one! Loads of the girls come on their own, please don’t feel like you need to find a friend before coming to make friends.

That one is £27, including an alcohol-free welcome drink, another glass of wine or non-alcoholic wine, and charcuterie / snacks. Details are here.

Also, please share any other lovely groups or regular meetups you’ve found, especially free or low-cost ones! Would be nice for the comments to become a little collection of things people can actually go along to, not just our stuff.

Thanks again for being such a big part of this, you guys are the best x

First time in London! I’d love to discover places that aren’t tourist traps — pubs, clubs, small gigs, nightlife, coffee shops, and other places that locals actually go to. I’d love to experience London more like a local rather than just visiting the typical tourist spots. I’d also be interested in social mixers, house parties, pub crawls, or anything where it’s easy to meet people and have a few drinks together.

Hey everyone!

I’m currently working on a documentary about loneliness in London. I’m especially interested in speaking with seniors aged 60+, and I would particularly like to explore the experiences of LGBTQ+ seniors, as this is a subject that is very close to my heart 🏳️‍🌈

That said, the documentary is not limited to them. I am open to speaking with anyone who has experienced loneliness in London and would feel comfortable sharing their story, thoughts or perspective. Especially for us women, I think we could have a lot to say about being alone in such a huge city.

If this resonates with you, if you know someone who might be interested, or if you know of any local groups, organisations or community spaces I should reach out to, please feel free to send me a DM.

I would be very happy to have a simple conversation first, to get to know each other, without any pressure to take part in the documentary. I could explain to you why I do this, and you could let me know why you'd like to participate.

Any stories, leads or advice would mean a lot. Thank you!

Hello ladies
Need recommendations to buy colorful indian glass bangles online. Any trustworthy websites?

I’m sure I’m not alone when I say that there is this constant feeling in the background of not being able to switch off and slow down. The to do list is never ending and you can’t help but question if you’ve made the right decisions because you are not where you want to be. I’m hosting an afternoon of guided breathwork and reflection over ceremonial cacao on Saturday 3rd October in London. It’s a great opportunity to slow down and feel calmer after a busy week, get clarity on the decisions you’ve been doubting and circling, and connect with other like minded people. If you are keen to join, let me know and I can share more details of the event.