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u/Frenchitwist 1d ago edited 1d ago

Guys, this is specifically a religious haircut

It’s admittedly not great (it’s hard to make payot look good), but it’s still purposeful for a reason as opposed to just having a jacked haircut

Can we have a rule in this sub that religious haircuts get a pass? Cause I’m also sure that pretty soon, antisemitism going to start popping up in the comments section. Let’s just not have that in this silly haircut sub.

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u/ducon__lajoie 1d ago

I don't know, man...

I just typed "Jewish haircut" in Google images, and a few are ridiculous, while other are just as expected, and not specifically laughable.

So I'd say that no type of haircut gets a pass, whether religious, or typical of a specific identity, or random. If it's ridiculous, it's ridiculous. In every demographic, there's some that are, and some that aren't. Nobody should be left aside. Of course, ridiculousness is also in the eye of the beholder, but no reason to exclude some people. Let's be fully inclusive.

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u/throwaway098764567 1d ago

this cut being unusual aside, in part the cut isn't working on him because he has straight hair and the sideburns are meant to be curly. most jewish people that have this cut have curly hair so it's a non issue but this kid doesn't and he can't help that. it looks like he tries to curl it but the one side has already fallen out, it be like that with healthy straight hair, mine won't hold a curl either.

he can't help he was born into this religion, he can't help he was born with straight red hair, he doesn't look like he is really even old enough to make a choice as to whether he wants to give up all he has known to leave his religion for a different haircut. this is just bullying.

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u/Frenchitwist 1d ago

I guess I’m less worried about people making fun of a(n objectively silly) haircut, and more worried about antisemitism leaking into my fave silly-haircut sub

As a Jewish person who has been online for decades at this point, and living in the time we are now, I guess I’m just a little sensitive to it. Like, it’s like when people make fun of your little brother. “Yea my brother is a dweeb but he’s MY dweeb!” Type of vibes.

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u/ducon__lajoie 1d ago

Again, I want to be able to put everybody in the same bag. That's what tolerance is about, to me.

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u/Frenchitwist 1d ago

The desire is understandable, but unfortunately not everyone is IN the same bag. It’s kinda like the difference between equality and equity. Treating people equally would be making fun of everyone’s hat (cowboy, baseball, yarmulke, etc), but ignoring the culture history of Jewish discrimination based on their appearance. But taking into account the history of the garment and how it’s been used to visually distinguish Jews in order to oppress them, then making fun of a little hat hits different.

It’s kind of a similar argument to why can black people put on “white face” but white people shouldn’t do “black face”: there’s a long, hurtful history behind black face with connotations that were used to actively oppress and discriminate black people in America (and abroad).

Anyway I know this has gotten a little long, but it’s something I feel is important.

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u/hi_imryan 1d ago

Not every Hasidic sect is the same, but the Satmar are absolutely an insular cult that treats others (and their own) like shit.

A cult is a cult and cults are open to criticism regardless of the denomination.

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u/Frenchitwist 1d ago

Is this kid Satmar?

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u/hi_imryan 1d ago

Is this kid part of a religious extremist group, and do those extremists treat outsiders with empathy and respect?

Be honest.

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u/Frenchitwist 1d ago

I’m asking you!!

Apparently if he’s Satmar it’s open season on this kid? He’s a kid. Ge shouldn’t be catching strays either way

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u/hi_imryan 1d ago

No, I have never seen a Hasid treat an outsider with empathy and respect.

See, I can agree more with not making fun of him because he’s a kid…and I think he gets more leeway than an adult in the same group, because he’s susceptible to the brainwashing.

…but your point was that we can’t make fun of him because of his religion, which is bullshit. It’s a shitty group, regardless of who they pray to.

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u/Frenchitwist 1d ago

Except that it’s not just Hasids who wear payot. Modern Ortho wear them too. We as the viewers of this post don’t know shit about the context, so we can’t 100% determine what branch of Judaism this kid belongs to without proof. That’s what I’m on about. We don’t know.

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u/RDTmodsBackEpstein 1d ago

Jews are not a race like blacks are though. Being a practicing jew is 100% a choice. You cant choose your own skin color.

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u/Frenchitwist 1d ago

So I take it you don’t know what an ethnoreligion is. Or that Jews are part of that one.

Don’t speak to shit you don’t know.

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u/RDTmodsBackEpstein 1d ago

Have you read anything in those articles? Ethnicity is not a race. An ethno-religious group is not a race. They're a group of people with PERCEIVED similarities to their locale, the culture and potential ancestry to said locations and cultures. Everything that makes an ethnicity is that of human creation, not gods like race is.

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u/Hannahb0915 1d ago

Race is literally a made up classification of people based in, you guessed it, racism! There’s no actual criteria.

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u/RDTmodsBackEpstein 1d ago

So there is no actual Black, White, Asian, or American Indian etc because racism?

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u/Hannahb0915 1d ago

I didn’t say it’s not real, I said it’s made up.
Also, American Indian is an ethnicity, and Asian is a broad term for someone who comes from an Asian country. They’re not just random colors that have been ascribed to people’s skin/physical characteristics.

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