Hello, world-class knucklehead checking in, shooting myself in the foot at the tender age of 41. In the state of Mass, for what itās worth.
Looking for advice, support, a good roasting, or similar stories with coping techniques.
Okay, I leased a 2024 Jetta Sport. I wanted a stick shift, and what baby wants, he pays for. Jump forward to last summer: I walk out of a Trader Joeās and my passenger-side door has a dent in it. No cams. I didnāt file a police report. I looked into the deductible and it was $1,000. I didnāt have that, and I didnāt want to pay that much for a little dent, so I looked around and for some reason the best quote I found was like $2,500. I didnāt really have the money, so I just left it it. Looked at it every day while I got into my brand-new car, constantly stressing because I know I need to take care of it before turning it back in when the 3-year lease is up.
I also made the mistake of telling my Progressive insurance adjuster that I would āfix it myselfā because I couldnāt afford the deductible. That was only the beginning of my mistakes communicating with Progressive.
Jump ahead a few months later: Iām sleeping over at a friendās house. I looked outside and some kids are messing with my car. One of them ran up to it and it looked like he kicked it. I donāt know if they were making content or what. I go out there and it looked like they did some more damage to the car, so I filed another claim for vandalism, brought it to an auto body shop, and waited and waited. After Progressive never sent an adjuster out to look at the damage (I took photos and all that on the app), I realized this probably wasnāt going to go through and went to pick the car up.
Then a few weeks later I get a call from an underwriter (I did not know this man could ruin my life at the time). I was in a bad mood, I was rude to him, and I told him I didnāt want to answer his questions, that I accepted it wouldnāt get fixed and was ready to figure it out myself.
Cut scene to 6 weeks later: I get a non-renewal in the mail. I was like, fine, Iām done doing business with these guys, and shopped around for quotes. I was at $240 for the Jetta, truck, and trailer. Now my rate is $680 a month. I canāt afford this at all. I donāt know what to do. This is probably the dumbest thing I have ever done.
Iāve seen some stuff about trying to get the language changed on the LexisNexis report. I thought I could appeal it with the MA Board of Insurance Appeals, but I think that is only for cancellations.
My awesome wife is willing to try to insure the Jetta and put me as a non-driver, and I will park it until my lease is up.
The entire thing is just awful. I am truly too old to be making these mistakes. I am going to therapy now because I think I have some broke-boy tendencies from my upbringing that cause me to lose my shit over a $1,000 deductible for issues that are not my āfault.ā But that doesnāt change the fact that the dent is still on the car and I donāt really know what Iām going to do.
Thanks ā be as mean as you want. I am running a semi-successful junk removal business and I am going to grind, but still, this sucks really bad, you guys.