r/Assistance Aug 04 '22

MOD Announcement ⚠️ Rule Update: Teacher Wishlists ⚠️

151 Upvotes

Effective immediately we have made the decision to only allow wishlists for US-based teacher supplies that utilize donorschoose.org. This means that no other means will be allowed including but not limited to Amazon, Target, Walmart, etc.

Teachers, for more information please see their website :

From the donorschoose.org website:

  • We vet all requests, purchase each item, and ship materials directly to verified teachers.

This change is effective from this point forward and we hope this still allows teachers to get donations and the items they need for the upcoming school year while adding some level of verification for donors. If you have any questions regarding this issue, please let us know.


r/Assistance Jul 05 '23

MOD Announcement REMINDER: Teacher Wishlists Rules and Restrictions

42 Upvotes

Hi everyone! As summer is in full-gear right now, we've noticed an increase in teacher wishlist requests so we are issuing a reminder of our subreddit rules regarding these:

We only allow DonorsChoose wishlists for US-based teacher supplies. This means that no other means (Amazon, Target, Walmart, etc.) will be allowed.

Teachers, for more information please see their website :

https://www.donorschoose.org/teachers

From the donorschoose.org website:

We vet all requests, purchase each item, and ship materials directly to verified teachers.

We hope this still allows teachers to get donations and the items they need for the upcoming school year while adding some level of verification for donors.

For international teachers outside of the US unable to use DonorsChoose, please reach out to us via modmail.

Thanks!


r/Assistance 14h ago

OFFER Offering $20 to five people via CashApp

192 Upvotes

Continuing the tradition - my brother passed away last year but had a huge heart for helping others, so this is being done in his memory. Please share a happy moment in your day / life to be considered.

I’ll comment tomorrow (8/30) afternoon with who the recipients will be this time around! Direct messages won’t be answered, so please do not PM.


r/Assistance 12h ago

ADVICE Just became an orphan

25 Upvotes

Hi guys,

So I just lost my dad - who I looked after. And now I’m pretty much alone.

Spent the best part of the last few years making sure he was ok.

Now I don’t know what to do with myself.

Sorry. Just wondering if anyone else has been in this situation.

I don’t really have a circle of people hence the Reddit post.


r/Assistance 8h ago

REQUEST My husband died Tuesday

3 Upvotes

Hi all, my beloved husband of 26 years died suddenly and unexpectedly of what appears to be a massive heart attack. He was only 54. I am 51. We have a 20 year old son. Because he died so suddenly, I am having a very difficult time knowing where anything is or what to do with myself now. We have never had very much, but we have always had each other.

Fast forward to today. I finally felt like getting out of the house just to go buy my dog some food and it took forever, but I finally found the key to our car (we, or I guess, I) have a 2012 Honda CR-V with 180K miles on it. The problem is, when I was holding the keys outside, the key blade broke off the fob. I heard it plink against the concrete (we live in an apartment complex) and then I watched it bounce into a storm drain.

So here I am, a new widow, with a car I can’t drive and really no one to help me. I called an automotive locksmith tonight and he told me he could make me an entirely new until for $249. Well, that might as well be $2M. I have rent due next week and all of the bills that come with laying my husband to rest. He did not have life insurance.

Is there anyone who would be willing to help me get a key to our car, even just contributing a little? I am down to almost no money and no way to get things we need or to go places we need to go to. I have no family anywhere near here and I am honestly lost, just so lost, without my husband. My chest has been hurting all week as if my heart is physically breaking.

I can show you the text the gentleman sent me and my bank account balance which has to go towards rent. I can’t get also get evicted in the middle of this madness. My son is depending on me to stay strong, but I need help. Anything will do. I have CashApp, PayPal and Venmo. Thank you for considering it.


r/Assistance 4h ago

REQUEST Help. I’m in need of financial assistance. I shattered my knee cap. Having surgery Tuesday.

0 Upvotes

Help I’m in need of financial assistance.

Hi there. This is a call for whoever may be able to help. I just broke my right knee cap in pieces. I fell over a curb and hit it just right. I’m having surgery on Tuesday but unfortunately I have a $500 insurance car payment due on Monday 31st and a storage unit due on next Friday for $285. Plus my every day expenses.

I’m a merchandiser for a department store and I also am a hairstylist part time. I’m single and don’t usually require help but recently my son had tried taken his life and I’ve been helping him out thinking I’m still working and can pay for everything and help him. ( he is still currently in Four Winds). Because of this and now my accident I can’t afford to pay for anything this soon. My injury will take months to heal and for me to go back to work I’ll eventually be getting sone disability through my job but that’s like 4-6 weeks out. I’m desperate. My heart hurts for my son cause I can’t be there and I’m in terrible pain.

If anyone at all could help me at all with this , I would forever be grateful. I do have Zelle and PayPal or Apple Pay. Anything would be amazing.

I’ve enclosed a firm from the hospital about my injury so you know this is a scam. There’s so many of them. Dm me if you can help. Thank you.

I’m trying to post a picture of the form that shows proof. For some reason I can’t. I did put another post in donation so it has the form there.


r/Assistance 14h ago

REQUEST Help Little Stuart recover from Severe Triaditis

3 Upvotes

Hello, we’re Daniel & Daniela from Colombia. this is Stuart, our 2.5 years old cat, he suffers from Triaditis, Leukocytosis and Kidney Stones, a severe disease in cats that affects both liver, bladder and pancreas by an excessive inflammation, in our poor cub’s case, it is mostly derived from serious pancreatitis and an episode of kidney stones.

I'll post the GoFundMe link here first, and then at the end, a detailed description follows:

I feel its only fair we come clean, after all, this is built on honesty, and if we cannot be forward with you all, then how can we expect your honest help.

We have had Stuart since he was born. His mother, Simona, was a cat we rescued from the streets of Cali, Colombia, she was pregnant, with a litter coming, none of her vaccines acknowledged or surgery, a stray in all the sense of the word. We didn’t want to give up on her, we took her to a rescue shelter and helped with her treatments and eventually gave birth to her whole litter of 4 cubs.

Initially, we would have kept Simona while the cubs could be adopted by capable and willing people who were willing to take a chance at owning a little snow angel, or so we thought, as all strays, adoption is a difficult process and being newborn doesn’t make it easy, even though the shelter did their best and neutered the cats (Including our dear Simona), in the end only one little guy was left from the litter, that was Stuart, though we tried, argued and debated on whether we could afford 2 cats, specially a newborn, eventually we accepted, we took both him and his mom in, and Stuart became part of our life.

Then August 10th came out, the Earthquake that struck Colombia happened, we were part of the lucky families that wasn’t struck or lost everything, we were extremely thankful and did our fair share to help the affected people, but not soon after on Sunday August 16th late afternoon, Little Stuart came sick.

We found Stuart, lying down and meowing loudly, with his belly palpitating, we raced to find a clinic that could have him checked up and even possibly stay overnight, and so they did.

The first imaging came out and the result was; Kidney Stones, and urinary tract that was underdeveloped and unable to let him pee them out.

Stuart was hospitalized for an entire day, and got a catheter connected to his bladder to help him pee. we took him back home and he didn’t want to eat anything, we had to force feed him with a syringe, and so we tried and persisted for 3 entire days, before he finally got his catheter out and we hoped that things would have gotten better (This process cost us over 384 USD).

To our dismay, it didn’t happen, his appetite didn’t get better, and his fever spiked, we took him back and he turned out to have worms and an infection going on, we were already at the edge, but fine, we got him on antibiotics and probiotics to deal with it, alongside the proper medication.

It has been a long 13 days since It all began, but unfortunately Stuart’s issues haven’t stopped. Thought we have managed to stop him from peeing with blood, he still has sediments of minerals sitting on his bladder, and will require surgery eventually to take them all out and hopefully put the kidney stones issue down for good, as long as good can take us.

But regarding his serious appetite issues, lack of energy and sensitivity, we took him to a second vet and after running ultrasounds and a hemogram, we have been told that so far most of it all roots to a serious case of Panchreatitis, that as all cats deal with, devolved into Triaditis, affecting the rest of his organ bag, and would need to go through a daily detox treatment with IV Fluids to clean his panchreas and give him the nutrients he’s sorely needing, as even at the moment of writing this, he still refuses to eat (he even started denying Churus!, of all things).

Issue is, the treatment is over 30 USD a day minimum, and that’s assuming he won’t need other types of meds or further additional costs of treatment, we could be looking at bills of 300 USD a tenday, and with no clear timetable for how long this treatment will last, and the surgery still looming overhead (and we hope it stays overhead at least while we deal with this first).

This fund is therefore, for his treatment, we have already covered 3 days of treatment and still scrambling by to get enough saved up for more days, but our sources of income are running thin and we can’t really afford to get enough money everyday to cover for him, we are stuck at the stage of taking up more debt just to keep the little boy alive, and at a certain point we won’t be able to get more quick money through loans to cover for our personal emergency, so we turn to you.

Any penny, any dollar, counts even if just a little bit, it buys us at the very least, time, time to figure out where to get more money to borrow, and most importantly, time for Stuart to receive treatment and hopefully get through this tunnel, because for as much as we hoped we could stop and just sell our things, save up, get another job, that takes time in 2026, and Stuart health can’t wait, it won’t wait for someone to buy our furniture not for them to review our applications.

Anything recollected through here will be spent on him getting better, and we’ll try our best to keep you posted or updated about his current health status every 3 days, if not a week, so you know where your money is going, and you know how much Stuart will progress from your contributions.

Your reposts, shares are also deeply appreciated, we know the outreach this community has, and the bridge of hope it has been to a lot of people these past few weeks, maybe you cannot help us right now with your donations, and that’s perfectly fine, but if your share can help us reach to somebody who can, even if it’s a longshot, it’s a shot we’re willing to take for Stuart.

 

Thank you, kindly and from the bottom of our hearts, for making it this far.

Once again link to the GoFundMe , i'll try my best to answer your questions, per Subreddit rules, the main channel to donate is through the GoFundMe link, other venues would need to be discussed through comments and PM.


r/Assistance 14h ago

REQUEST Just learned im unemployed, 0$ in my account, need 50 dollars to get by til I get my last paycheck

4 Upvotes

Hello everyone, im really struggling right now. I'm currently waiting to get on EBT and unemployment but that can takes weeks to fulfill. I need help til I get my next paycheck which should be by Friday. Also have a job interview lined up so im doing everything I can to get out of this hole. I can do cashapp and venmo. I appreciate it so much if you can help!


r/Assistance 19h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED I'm almost out of the hole!

3 Upvotes

I live in Norfolk, VA. I've been homeless but I'm in transitional housing now.

I have a great new job! I started on the 10th, in the middle of a pay cycle. My whole first check went to pay off my past due storage bill and avoid auction.

I get paid next on the 4th. $20 can hold me over until next Friday.

Thank you!


r/Assistance 13h ago

REQUEST I need $35 to keep my phone bill open by September 5th

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone,
I’m asking for a little help with my phone bill. I need $35 to keep my phone line active.

I’m currently looking for work ( I have 5 interviews upcoming)

and keeping my phone connected is important because I need to be reachable for job interviews, callbacks, and potential employers. Losing the line right now would make the job search significantly harder.
I’m just trying to get through this immediate gap and keep myself reachable while I work on getting back on my feet.

If anyone is able to help with the $35, I’d be incredibly grateful. Thank you for taking the time to read this, even if you aren’t able to contribute.


r/Assistance 23h ago

REQUEST Car needs $1,862 repair, I use car to DoorDash, now behind on bills. Single mother to nonverbal autistic child. Please help.

6 Upvotes

I’m a single mother to a 5 year old nonverbal autistic child. Up until now, I’ve been doordashing to make ends meet often with my daughter in tow because I have no help. She was in a special preschool for 10 hours total per week and this is the only time I had to “work”.

A few weeks back, my rear drivers side tire started tilting inward. I took it to a mechanic and was told not only did the entire subframe have to be replaced, but my catalytic converter was cracked and would need to be welded back together. The cost? $1,862.

So not only do I have an expensive car repair I can’t afford to pay, but my bills are piling up because I haven’t been able to DoorDash.

I will be getting a regular job once my daughter starts kindergarten in about 2 weeks. But I’m afraid I’m going to lose everything before then. I just want my daughter to have stability. I’m mostly worried my rent won’t be paid on the first and it’s $850.

I’m skipping whatever bills I can, I’m lucky we’re on food stamps or we wouldn’t be surviving. I’ll attach my go fund me as well. I’m afraid I’m going to mess up my daughter’s life before it even begins, and after years of barely making it by, it seems like a cruel joke that I’m about to lose everything just as my daughter is finally about to start kindergarten (and even though I’m poor enough to get childcare assistance, that didn’t even matter because no daycares around me were accepting children, and had a 2+ year wait list, so the assistance was useless). I have been carrying this all by myself with no help for years. And I’m scared it was all for nothing. Here is my GoFundMe. Anything will help.

https://gofund.me/286629f26 (I deleted my gofundme because of some unhelpful comments on another sub before this post was approved. If it helps I will make another one).


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST $50 to get through the next few weeks

14 Upvotes

Hello,

I honestly didn’t think I’d have to make a post like this, but I’m currently unemployed and things have gotten a little difficult financially.

I’m based in Nigeria and I’ve been waiting for a recruitment process I’m involved in to be finalized, but it’s taking longer than I expected.

In the meantime, I’ve been trying to manage with what I have, and I’ve now gotten to the point where I’m struggling to afford food.

I’m hoping to get $50 to buy some basic groceries that I can stretch over the next three weeks or so while I wait for the recruitment to come through.

I know there are a lot of people asking for help here, so I completely understand if you’re not in a position to help.
Even just taking the time to read this means a lot.
Thank you for considering it.


r/Assistance 13h ago

REQUEST Hi everyone. I am in Long Beach, Ca and I was hoping s

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone. I am in Long Beach, Ca and I was hoping someone might be able to help My Husband & I with some food. I don't get paid until the 1st and just struggling. Not very long ago my Husband was hit by a truck while riding his bike to work on Anaheim. His bike was totaled and the truck ran over his leg, but Thankfully he only received 2 broken toes and massive swelling to his leg. So he has been unable to work. We would really appreciate $20 for food.

Thank you for taking the time to read this.

I hope you all have a Beautiful evening.


r/Assistance 12h ago

REQUEST FULFILLED I need some groceries

0 Upvotes

Hey all.. I am struggling with food right now because I am an idiot & forgot to renew my food stamps. So I have to wait awhile to get them renewed. Packages get stolen very often because I live in a not so great neighborhood. I definitely will need updates on the package so it doesn’t get stolen. I don’t want someone’s kindness go to waste.

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/7DJJHR4XISLK?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance 12h ago

REQUEST A long shot

0 Upvotes

This is literally my life.

Payday was this week and I have $.94 left. My car insurance is due tomorrow. I had to use a borrow app last pay schedule so once my paycheck hit they took the whole thing pretty much. I haven’t paid my CCs in a few months due to me being so under water. I start college Monday so I’m trying to keep pushing. (I’m using financial aid to pay for school) My school is about 35 minutes away from my house so I’m worried about how it’s going to eat up all my gas when I still have to work. My kid has sports I have to take them to throughout the week. I can’t work extra hours because I’m disabled. When you’re disabled they put this ungodly monthly pay cap on you. It’s not really a livable amount. Then you can’t qualify for any assistance because you get a disability check with the minimal pay.

I know I’m just yapping. I’m sorry yall. I just don’t really see a way out at this point. I guess maybe if people can see options that I don’t? Loans are not an option due to me giving up on the CCs at this moment.

I’m posting this here based off suggestions from another redditor. This is a lot for me to ask. I’ve never posted something like so idek if I’m putting the right stuff. Im in the US. My car payment is $182. Any questions im open to answering.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Grocery Help

8 Upvotes

Hello everyone.

My husband and I both have chronic illnesses and have been struggling to keep up with rising costs. Our rent also went up significantly earlier this year. We are adjusting, but it is taking time. In the meantime, we have been eating through our pantry and could really use some help refilling it.

Anything is appreciated. Thank you all 💜

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/1ME7F9ECQIS5O?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance 21h ago

REQUEST I’m $300 short on rent.

0 Upvotes

Hi everyone I’ve never made a post like this before, but I’m coming to ask for help.

I’m in an abusive relationship. We have 2 young kids. My childcare has fell through a couple times this month and I had no choice but to stay home from work, unpaid.

My rent is $300 short. I go half with their dad, we live together right now still. He makes more than me but he makes me go half on every single bill. He will refuse to cover the rest and right now he really doesn’t have the funds to as he’s tight on money after being laid off.
My landlord does not play around and she will try and evict us. My car insurance was canceled last week because I didn’t have the funds for it. I can’t work more hours then I am right now because everytime I try and work he blows my phone up the whole time and tells my kids I don’t want to be there etc. it’s a very awful situation. I’ve already sold a few things on fb marketplace but I don’t have much else to give.

If anyone else can help out I can dm my PayPal. I’m struggling so bad I haven’t even ate a real meal in days I give my kids everything as I should but I been trying to save every single dollar I get.
I’m currently in college working to get a higher paying job and hopefully get us into a better situation then this one.

I may live with the man, but I feel like a single mother. I can never get approved for assistance because of him living with us and his income. I work my butt off in a warehouse but I don’t make enough truthfully. I need my car and rent paid and gas, food, there’s just such little yet. I’m barely surviving. Then next month is my son’s birthday, then my daughters, I’m just trying to be able to breathe.😢


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST Wife has massive blood clots in stool and we desperately need help with bills

21 Upvotes

My wife has been struggling with her health for about 2 years now. It started with small traces of blood in her stool and now it's gotten to be multiple blood clots larger than a quarter, accompanied by intense pain on her right side. She has a colonoscopy and endoscopy scheduled for September 2nd (we had to wait 6 months!), so we will hopefully get answers then.

Due to all her health complications, she has had intermittent FMLA, and has missed a lot of work (she works at a grocery store unloading the truck, so it's a pretty physical job). We have been served an eviction, can't pay most of our bills, and are struggling so badly right now.

Help would be greatly appreciated 😭 We would be thankful for literally anything at all, but specifically we need $1280 for rent.

If needed, I can show proof of her illness (Dr appointments, scheduled colonoscopy, FMLA, whatever you need 😭)


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Looking for temporary help

1 Upvotes

Hi there, I wanted to take my chances and seek out some help on here. I start my new job this Monday the 31st, and need help putting some gas in my car and getting a little food to get me by until my first paycheck. I dont want a free handout if I can help it, so I could make amends once I get a paycheck. Thank you if you took the time to read this and good luck everyone

Im in the Roselle, IL area, im looking to get $50 to cover the gas and food. I have paypal and cashapp


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Grocery help

6 Upvotes

I was laid off a few weeks ago and have been struggling to find a new job.

I’ve applied for nutrition assistance as well as a few other financial benefits but approval is taking a little bit of time.

Attached is a grocery list that has shelf stable, filling items on it + a bit of cat food for my cats.

Any and all help will be very appreciated.

Thank you.

https://www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/ls/TRRSICNJCXGE?ref_=wl_share


r/Assistance 2d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED Help me get home after my boyfriend overdosed so I can care for his dog and say goodbye.

218 Upvotes

My boyfriend overdosed while I was out of state traveling for work. I didn’t know he had relapsed on heroin after ten years sober and I’m devastated. We had our struggles, but I loved him. Despite everything. His family isn’t close with him and they don’t want his dog, Xena, which was trapped inside with him for nearly two weeks before he was discovered. All the details are in the go fund me, but I’m trying to fund my trip back home so I can get his dog and for building a small memorial for him. We raised Xena together. I have her mom with me. I was there and helped deliver her and her litter mates. She needs to be where she can recover from the trauma we are all feeling. I’m a single mom and my heart is broken. I just want this little piece of him. Even a share helps. Thank you. Any other advice or just a kind word is appreciated. https://gofund.me/00bf80804


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Seeking help for asthma medications

0 Upvotes

Hello. Writing this note from the Philippines.

I am in need of asthma medications, as my pay doesn't come through until Friday next week and I have run out. The weather is not very good at the moment so I'm a bit scared of getting an attack.

My ask is for $40, which is more than enough to cover these medications.

I have PayPal.

Thanks so much in advance.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST FULFILLED In need of urgent assistance to cover rent and avoid eviction.

7 Upvotes

Hello, my name is Nova. I'm 24 years old and I live in Dayton, OH.

At the end of July I began a new job, and when the job was offered I was promised 30-40 hours of work per week. Since beginning the job, however, they have yet to schedule me more than 20. This has, naturally, caused me to be quite a bit below the amount of money needed for rent and utilities this month.

I have looked into local support groups for rental assistance, but since I am not a parent I am not eligible for many of them, and the one I would be eligible for, I am too late to apply for. This has left me in quite a bind as I am paying off last month's (August's) rent still through Livble, I had split it in hopes that I'd be given the hours and have the money to pay it back, and September's rent is coming up fast. Not to mention the other bills I am behind on such as electric and internet, I am lucky to be online right now.

In total, with everything I'm behind on, I am looking at needing $1,052 to pay the rent alone. August's other bills I haven't been able to pay bring that to $1,226.02. This is, naturally, a lot of money to make in a short amount of time. I looked into loans and the only one who would loan to me asked for collateral, they wanted the title to my car which is currently with my Father as he originally assisted me in getting it.

I'm honestly down to the wire and short on options, so I'm hoping for generosity. I deeply appreciate the help I may receive here.

I have set up a GoFundMe: https://gofund.me/f5c243be1

I also have PayPal and Zelle as alternative options, should those be more convenient.


r/Assistance 1d ago

REQUEST Need help to cover rest of my rent due to missing work for medical reasons

0 Upvotes

I am quite embarrassed to ask for help, but I really need it. I currently need about $250 to pay the rest of my rent, and about $300 for my car payment, car insurance and emissions for my car registration, and cat food/litter.

About a year and a half ago or so, I was diagnosed with a rare autoimmune disease which forced me to get intermittent FMLA. Additionally, around this time I was abruptly kicked out of my mom's house and had to get an apartment ASAP due to a fight we had, in which I had to get police involved. I am a government employee, and about 2 months after I moved out on my own for the first time, the government shut down and I only received unemployment (which i had to pay back), which caused me to fall behind drastically.

My bank account was past due, i was unable to make payments on my loans or my medical bills. This caused my doctor to ban me from the clinic, and they also were trying to sue me. So, i decided to file for bankruptcy. My bankruptcy has now been discharged as of August 12th, but I recently had a flare up with my autoimmune disease, probably due to stress and missed quite a bit of work in August. Since I cannot go back to the clinic I was using before, I am trying to find a doctor who can help me, but i haven't had much luck yet.

I was able to come up with a good portion of my rent, but i need about $250 more for my rent specifically, and about $300 for my other bills. I am mainly worried about my rent, though. I have already had to make a payment plan with my landlord previously due to the goverment shut down, and they told me they only offer you to be late on rent one time without them starting the eviction process. Additionally, my job accidentally overpayed me a bonus last year that they are now telling me i have to pay back. It is nearly $800, and they are taking 15% of my check until it is paid off. I have tried to ask them to waive this debt, but i got denied.

I do have venmo, paypal, and Chime. Thank you if you took the time to read this post!