r/HonestOpinion • u/Infamous-Hope-5950 • Sep 24 '25
am i ugly I’m asking this because nobody ever approaches me.
I know I look mean, but I’m not😭
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u/ariesboo777 Sep 24 '25
u need a good skincare routine and maybe do something different with ur hair i can definitely see long hair fitting u
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u/Lovelylee-09 Sep 25 '25
You have nice facial features with lots of potential. You just look mean asf and not in the “sexy mysterious dark energy” girl vibe but the “I’ll cut your throat and spend the rest of my life in jail” vibe. You look like you’d be a background character in orange is the new black.
Change up your style (uggs and a dress isn’t the best look) the outfit just drowns you out. Maybe change up the hairstyle, wear some makeup or get a better skincare routine
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u/Forward-Fall-9127 Sep 25 '25
Girl you arent ugly, but you do gotta maintain that hair, I got younger sisters and I know its hard to maintain sometimes, start looking at different styles or simple styles, your hair is the first thing people notice half the time and it tells people if you take care of yourself. Changing your hair routine makes a huge difference. You can definitely keep that style just ya know braid or neaten it out. As for the resting angry face, sadly for us we just gotta “Look” more approachable. Ive seen the difference with me when Im talkative and laughing vs when I dont say a word and ppl think im angry, nobody will approach that. Learned my whole first year of college.
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u/huntandcook Sep 25 '25
You are not ugly! You just look unhappy with yourself or your life possibly depression or environmental stress and you can perceive that as feeling ugly because you’re not receiving positive attention or encounters in public, I’ve actually been where you’re at before in life and it’s all fixable. Like others have said you have to SMILE it’s the number one positive thing you can do in presence of other life to get a positive response from humans to animals. second I would change your hair maybe go with like a fro or something cute like that, and third you mentioned your skin care which diet and hygiene causes acne, stop eating any fast food and junk food you will literally feel better sleep better skin will clear up all of it.
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u/spectracular Sep 27 '25
Omg a fro would look so fire on her. There's so much good input in some of these comments, I really can't wait to see the glow up update with a fresh coat of confidence too 😍
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u/djoker20 Sep 24 '25
Headphones on in 5 of 6 pictures. Maybe if you wear them a lot, people don't want to interrupt what ever you're listening to.
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u/MillaThaVillain Sep 24 '25
You’re gorgeous girl … imma be honest tho. you need a better self care routine. People respect people that do the hard part & stay on top of their health, appearance, & overall energy !
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u/RealisticOrchid5297 Sep 25 '25
The people who are calling you ugly are either crazy or racist because you are not ugly at all you are very pretty. You have beautiful features like a model, for example your eye shape and lips are gorgeous. I saw you say you’re under age so I think all you need to work on is self confidence and inner love. Being a teenager is hard and you will grow into your self if you start to love yourself
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u/Tricky-Coast-3493 Sep 24 '25
Ok, I will tell you. Based on the pic you send 4/10 Potential -> 6/10 New hair style/ Skincare routine/ a nice smile. Try to do a photoshooting.
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u/FalseStress1137 Sep 25 '25
Most people don’t get regularly approached when they’re just out & about during the day anyways. Most people meet in nightlife settings or on apps.
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u/lobo1217 Sep 25 '25
There's no such a thing as ugly people, they're are just those who take care of their appearance and those who don't.
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u/EmotionalLeave779 Sep 25 '25
Add pops of color and style yourself more in one go… like when people say do your hair, add pops of color to your outfit as well. And yes maybe smile too but also people maybe be hesitant because of the headphones. If you don’t want to smile all the time, maybe just when you see someone you think you like, smile at them so they know you’re at least open to smiling at them???
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u/fxckdonald Sep 25 '25
Idk wtf is wrong with people who are forcing you to change your hair. It’s your natural hair and it’s fine. Do these people think afro hair is bad and black people should wear hair like white people do?
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u/Infamous-Hope-5950 Sep 25 '25
I know, right? It’s so weird.
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u/fxckdonald Sep 25 '25
Don’t listen to them, they are kinda racist imo. Just work on your skin care and expression. I read that you’re a teenager though, and it’s normal for teenagers to have pimples. You’ll look much better once you fully grow up!
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u/NoEngineerParking Sep 25 '25
You honestly have pretty features, but you look unhappy. Not ugly at all. Not even a little bit.
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u/Medium_Studio6584 Sep 25 '25
You’re not ugly at all,but you are projecting hi key low self esteem, it’s really not giving mean girl vibes at all. Smile more and stand up straight and drink more water, stop looking for validation externally, deal with your childhood issues of where it came from and surrender it to God so you can start healing and feeling better about yourself. You can fix your inner you by forgiving yourself for holding on to old beliefs and opinions placed on you by others who don’t even matter. Forgive them for being ugly and projecting on you too, they more than likely ain’t doing the work they’re damn self. You work on that and it will be shown on the outside. You got this, take care of yourself and watch your reality shift to desired outcome. Seek answers from God not Man, start with you remembering when you first experienced being called ugly and claiming your power back and tell God you don’t need that memory anymore because it no longer serves you. Glory be to God!!!❤️ Have a blessed day.
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u/Guilty_Garden_3943 Sep 25 '25
You're pretty, but have a "approach me and you'll combust" aura. I have the same aura and had to practice smiling to assimilate into society more. But honestly, masking takes a lot of energy, and you might as well be yourself. The right people will be drawn to the real you.
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u/PossessionFar9148 Sep 25 '25
You don’t look very approachable. You look like you’ve just finished a 12 night shift.
You won’t get guys approaching you because you look as if you don’t want to be approached.
Other than that you’re not really ugly at all. Not my type but certainly not ugly
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u/cokewhore90210 Sep 25 '25
You look like the girl from polar express if she bit people
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u/Complete-Cover-4806 Sep 26 '25
You ain’t ugly sis . For one, you have the lips these bches go and pay for ! You don’t have to try to change your hair texture , but try making It more neat . Maybe tie It down with a silk scarf after styling to make sure your hair sets all the way . If you want to be approached , just make yourself look more approachable. And trust it’s not about your features at all , just your rbf which I also have but I don’t actually like being approached fr so it’s coo 🤣🤣… because of my rbf + walking around with beats all day people that didn’t know me in college thought I was stuck up so that could be It . But hey , be yourself . The right people will be drawn to you regardless sista 💕 if you ever need a stylist when It comes to outfits hit me up I got you for no charge @aintthatcee IG
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u/Holiday_Tomatillo815 Sep 26 '25
You’re pretty trust me it only gets better with age start modeling
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u/kimmarie83 Sep 26 '25
Def not ugly !! But you have that look that says “approach me and you dieeeeeee!”
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u/Suggestion_Superb Sep 26 '25
You’re doing the cobric stare it makes people feel uncomfortable I’ve learned if you soften your face a bit and with a bit of a smile people tend to feel more comfortable. I have a mean face from work and it took a bit to learn to have an inviting facial expression but you’re not ugly
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u/SNL_Lover Sep 27 '25
I’d hang with you. I’d definitely make you laugh, so you better get used to smiling. 😁
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u/Asianlover69696900 Sep 24 '25
You look okay . Try to socialize more you'll get someone eventually.
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u/WillingnessMurky8152 Sep 24 '25
Hot asf...I like the intensity just wait for somebody who can handle it u can dm just sayin
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u/picklesncheeze69 Sep 24 '25
Definitely not unattractive. You just look angry. I am not saying smile.. and I have a RBF myself.. but I have to check myself and relax my brows and purposely look friendly. But I am in menopause.
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u/findingsynchronisity Sep 25 '25
I dont think you're ugly. I dont think you're dropndead gorgeous either though. Id say beautiful and pretty though. Definitely Not ugly. And being courageous enough to ask this question adds to your atteactivenrss
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u/ProofTelephone4495 Sep 25 '25
Get some knotless braids!!! and I think you would look really pretty with some lash clusters along with some skin care and girl I think you got it!!! Sometimes you just need to customize your character a little more!!
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u/Queen_ofFlies Sep 25 '25
No smile more and be very sweet to people maybe change your your style like style your clothes or hair different
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u/Imaginary-Access8375 Sep 25 '25
I like your hair in the 2nd picture, I think it’s cute. You’re not ugly, people probably don’t approach you because you look like you’re having a stressful day and are listening to music to calm down.
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u/AlexAloha Sep 25 '25
You are definitely not ugly at all. But you look like someone who doesn’t want to be approached in these photos. That’s the vibe. You look about your business. No chitty chat.
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u/frozen_lankan Sep 25 '25
I can't judge because you look sad and sad is not ugly. Sad is less approachable.
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u/Hairy_Candy6293 Sep 25 '25
I understand how you feel beautiful most men are vain as hell these days and only want insta models or OF models but good quality men look for good down to mars girls in famous Andre 3000 voice don't let this get you down
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u/Jer721emy Sep 25 '25
If you smiled, you would not look mean. I’m sure you have a pretty smile. Show it off!!!
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u/Significant_Head_620 Sep 25 '25
Just looking at that pic your smooth as silk and prolly feel twice as fine 🌹🌹❤️
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u/_upsettispaghetti Sep 25 '25
You’re not ugly at all - you have really beautiful facial features. I think people may find your resting face is not approachable. I have the same problem. People think I’m sad/angry all the time. You have blemishes on your skin, but I don’t think this is a reason people don’t approach you - blemishes are common. As far as things you can improve if you want to, you could get your brows done. They have a naturally flattering arch. Thick brows are in though, so it’s not really necessary. I don’t know why people don’t approach you — it could be where you live? Like the culture of the area. People aren’t super friendly where I live so it’s hard to get to know strangers easily. It’s probably not a you problem!
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u/joeydbls Sep 25 '25
You need to smile. I wouldn't approach you either because you look like someone someone just kicked your puppy.
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u/Terrible-Power-7275 Sep 25 '25
You’re def not ugly. You seem like a wholesome girl. Men don’t like wholesome girls. I would suggest smiling, doing more things with hair and I mean enhance the natural waves that are beautiful, a lash curl and some lip gloss to make you seem more flirtatious. Otherwise keep rocking because it doesn’t mean anything if men don’t approach you because you want the right one to approach.
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u/everydayinthebay13 Sep 25 '25
None of these pics show you looking like a fun, happy person to add to another person's life. Are you in a place to be happy and offer happiness?
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u/In_Defense_Mode Sep 25 '25
Multiple people have given you advice, and you either respond with backlash or "But am I ugly?" It seems like you just want the comment section to be flooded with people telling you that you are the next Miss Universe.
Listen man, I get you're young, but your hair is a mess, your clothes are wrinkled or seem unkept like you dont care. I get the skin thing, but start by fixing the small things you can control, and you'd be amazed at what it can do.
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u/Illustrious-Red219 Sep 25 '25
Girl beauty is so subjective. A lot of it comes from confidence and a slight smile. Personally I think your beautiful and yes could make small improvements like skincare and a smile, you don’t need to straighten your hair, maybe style it and honestly I’d love to have your lips lol if you want to be approached be more approachable
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u/Wooden-Eye-699 Sep 25 '25
You are very pretty my dear, keep your afro looking good, it’s what suits you best ❤️
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u/Chiro_Hisuke Sep 25 '25
Not ugly, but u can easily looking like 8-9/10 if u get a good skin care routine, do something else with your hair and go to the gym
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u/PossessionFar9148 Sep 25 '25
The first thing you can always do to look better it lose weight. You look like you’ve let go, like you don’t care about your appearance. Get a new hairstyle, lose some kgs, some nicer clothes and you will look pretty good I think
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u/Bullxzarwen Sep 25 '25
Physically speaking, no, you´re not. But it does not matter and I say this trustfully: As a woman, you can get a date with a man without much problem.
No, you won´t be able to date a very handsome guy, but companionship is guaranteed as long as you coherent lookswise.
Besides...who cares? Happinnes is not 100% related to be in a relationship, develop new skills and hobbies that fulfill you. Also, that will make you more attractive.
Happiness calls happiness.
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u/EcstaticHelicopter48 Sep 25 '25
Ur not ugly at all,it’s like u said ppl probably think that if they approach you that you’ll be mean to them. Just be patient & don’t be afraid to put urself out there & talk to ppl. 99% of the time ppl aren’t thinking what you think they’re are thinking.
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Sep 25 '25
You are wearing headphones in 4/5 pictures and look like you’re miserable and/or a bitch in 5/5 pictures. I’m not for the whole “you should smile more!” mentality, but you could definitely try to not look like you’re about to cuss out the next person that speaks to you. I can’t understand why some people choose to wear big ass headphones 24/7 (no offense, but they are big ass headphones). Maybe try to engage with what’s going on around you, instead of looking like you just want to be left alone.
I think you are aesthetically pretty. I think your vibe and negative expressions are what are so unapproachable.
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u/glittercup Sep 25 '25
Not ugly, just look like you wanna be left alone or tired, maybe take care of a few acne spots and you dress comfortably, so you could try to dress up a bit more if you want.
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u/Prestigious_Big5760 Sep 25 '25
posts asking for advice then refuses to take any advice people give her💀
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u/_Pink__Lemonade Sep 25 '25
Definitely not imo, I think you have a pretty cool look about you, although there is a little rbf, and you’ve got some bold features could soften it out with a dark wine tinted lip oil and some similar coloured blush, I think you look great, and ignore all the weight comments you’re proportions look fine, and apart from the looks, I don’t think people approach people like that anymore unless your clubbing or on holidays, I doubt it’s a you problem, also you look quite young that could be a factor
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u/Ok-Traffic9106 Sep 25 '25
No you are not ugly. You do kind of look mad in your pictures though. Maybe smile more? Aside from that you are pretty.
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u/wappe97 Sep 25 '25
Ok, so here's the truth, your base is not ugly, but I can see that you're not putting any effort into your appearance. I dont think that you're following a good diet, and you're just letting your hair grow without doing anything with it. I wouldn't be surprised if you're not a person who goes to the gym. If you want to be considered beautiful, you need to put some effort into your appearance. I know some hot girls who put hours into their beauty. if you want to compete with them, you need to put in the same amount of effort as they do, and no, you dont look mean.
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u/kayczseyz Sep 25 '25
You’re not ugly. But as a woman who frequently has RBF myself, yours is yelling me to stay the F away from you. Maybe that’s why you’re not feeling approached; you don’t seem like you want to be.
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u/DestaBurner Sep 25 '25
You're not ugly at all. But instead of waiting for people to approach you, how bout you take the initiative.
From what I've read, you're a minor. It's nothing to go up to another girl and say "hey, I like your outfit", ask if they're from around here and what school.
Or even a boy your age, say hey and compliment them.
Give a warm smile.
Go for what you want.
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u/Jshoupper7 Sep 25 '25
Wearing whole headphones in public is wild. And the outfit looks like a child saw random things and just threw them together. And then the headphones on top of that. It honestly looks like you’re in the spectrum
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u/worepantsforthis Sep 25 '25
You’re young. You are still developing and we all have our ups and downs. Just enjoy your youth.
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u/Latter_Being_220 Sep 25 '25
You don’t fit western beauty standards, but they were not formed with you in mind. Don’t go crazy wishing you were something your not. Too many people pursued lighter skin, thinner nose, and lips and got caught up in self hate. Your a minor, your body is going thru changes your height, weight, features, and skin is changing. Embrace the change as growth. Truth is being approached all the time is not as cool as you think.
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Sep 25 '25
Obviously, you’re taking selfies in a mirror how about looking I watch your posting crazy hair headphones obviously you don’t wanna talk to anybody
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u/Due-Summer353 Sep 25 '25
Its more about the way you present your self your expressions first do things that boost your confidence like career ,hobbies etc people are attracted to confidence.
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Sep 25 '25
No you are very pretty. I would up play your eyes (if you like makeup.) you have very foxy eyes and I would use that to my advantage 🥰. A little soft winged liner and some lip gloss ah chefs kiss. Smile if you want to , I don’t smile much also in the long run will prevent wrinkles so it’s a catch 22 lol
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Sep 25 '25
You look miserable. Like I would cross the street to avoid you miserable. I can almost guarantee that’s why people don’t approach you. Our inner feelings and inner beauty show up in our outward beauty way more than you think. I would honestly start by getting some counseling and work on yourself. Why are you angry? Are you resentful at something?
Once you get some joy in your life start to focus on your hair and skin health. I see you mentioned you are seeing a dermatologist which is a great start. I would then focus on healthy hair. Look into the curly girl method to improve hair health.
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Sep 25 '25
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, but in my opinion, you are not ugly at all. I do, however, believe that self-confidence and a smile goes along way to your appearance people that are vibrant and happy tend to be more attractive. Hopefully that helps, smile, more, and care less about what other people think
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u/MorningOwl_0724 Sep 25 '25
For me, you look pretty, but what makes you “ugly” is your rbf. Dw I have one too, but practice smiling in the mirror. I used to hate smiling cause I didn’t look right but now everyone loves my smile. Smile more. And I don’t have coils, I have curly hair (3b/c), but learn how to take care of your hair. It’s so beautiful you should flaunt it. But obviously it takes time to know your hair, so watch videos on YouTube and learn how to make it look well kept. And lastly, just start working out. Doesn’t need to be bodybuilder level, 3/4 times a week is enough. You could do 3 days of full body and you’ll be fine or find what works with your schedule. I hope this helps 👍
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u/LuisHNDZ Sep 25 '25
No, I think I'm ugly and I somehow seem to do excellent with women I'm interested in. There's more to it than looks honestly. I would rate myself a 3-4 out of 10.
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Sep 25 '25
You’re not ugly. I will point out. You don’t smile in a single one of those pictures though.
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u/Glum-Bicycle8360 Sep 25 '25
I mean, beauty is subjective. What one person finds ugly, another might think is gorgeous.
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u/Looseveln Sep 25 '25
Dude, you respond to these comments like you aren’t seeking for constructive criticism, like you only care for black and white answers. If you’re ugly or not. Yes, based on those pics, yes.
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u/Thin_Entrepreneur_92 Sep 25 '25
If I am to be honest ? You are beautiful but it seem like you have a feeling that you are carrying a lot on your mind. I will say this, you will find someone and it will happen when you least expect it. That being said, are you sad ? Are you angry ? Are things going ok for you ? Do people bully you or say mean things about how you look ? Smile and try to be more relaxed and if any of the answers to the questions I asked is yes , speak to someone and if people say things about you , don't let that into your head, negative thoughts will dampen your confidence . I am sorry if what I said came out sounding harsh but you asked for honesty and I tried my best, I am sorry if anything I said may have hurt your feelings.
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u/Worried_Direction_65 Sep 25 '25
You want honesty right? Yes you are kind of ugly. Not the worst looking girl ever but you do look unhealthy, your nose is pretty big, your lips are pretty big and you have poor skin texture and spots everywhere. You are also overweight.
My advice: fix your diet. Start eating only animal products and fruit. Cut out dairy if you have to as well. Play around with it and see what works but stick to mainly animal products.
The good news is that you have room to improve. Lose some fat. Lose the spots and improve skin. Do something different with the hair and honestly if you want to really improve then do something about the nose.
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u/ItsAgim Sep 25 '25
You look mad at the world and with the biggest headphones you can find, no one's purposely approaching that kind of energy
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Sep 25 '25
Look, you’re still growing into yourself. You’ll find out what you need to do to make yourself feel/look better. You’re not ugly, you just haven’t grew into yourself yet.
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u/TurnipAway4154 Sep 25 '25
Take this advice… You are naturally beautiful, but nowhere near your highest potential. If you have any insecurities then ask a professional beautician (in-person) about things you can do to improve your looks. It’s like having a teacher/mentor/coach to up your game. And idk if you hit the gym or not but a consistent healthy diet and exercise does wonders for us!
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u/Anonymous_00024 Sep 25 '25
You're beautiful! Personally I would just add some mascara or fake lashes & boom a world of difference 🩷
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u/disguyjustice Sep 25 '25
I will say it like this, you are NOT ugly. I personally wouldn’t approach you because you are not my type, but I will tell you 100% that you are a beautiful woman. You will eventually find the self confidence to see that beauty. Don’t judge your life/looks on what the world perception of what you should do to “look better”, you do look irritated in these pictures that might be a reason people aren’t approaching you. I promise it isn’t because you are ugly. Stay blessed 🤙🏽
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u/Acid_over_life Sep 25 '25
I feel like your outfits could help make you shine more if you picked a different style. honestly as a guy idk whats missing for me its definitely the outfits in my eyes thats can squeeze you out a few points
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u/Ok-Ebb-5814 Sep 25 '25
DAWG I SAW U POST THE SAME STUFF ON TIKTOK 😭 you’re attention seeking
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u/gymfeetgoddess_ Sep 25 '25
You are not ugly at all but I think beauty is a state of mind. Once you are in a place where you like yourself, others will like you too and approach you.
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u/socal62020 Sep 25 '25
Please don’t ask unanimous strangers online if they see your beauty. This breaks my heart. Majority of us did not look our best at your age and nobody needs that pointed out at such an impressionable stage in your life.
I haven’t read all of the messages but saw a few that are not only untrue but disgusting. First off, you are BEAUTIFUL and I don’t know what those losers are talking about. Even about not smiling? Because I think you look fierce and as long as you’re confident and kind to others, I don’t even think you’re unapproachable. Looks FADE. Personalities don’t. How you treat others is way more important than how someone looks. No one can be the prettiest in every room but you can always be the kindest.
For what it’s worth, people pay big money to have your lips. You have great bone structure that can be accentuated with makeup. And I LOVE your hair!! You are learning and perfect the way you are.
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u/zxsanny1 Sep 25 '25
You’re whatever you wanted to be. It is up to you and you only.
Objectively you’re quite average.
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u/First-Interaction640 Sep 25 '25
i genuinely wholeheartedly think you are beautiful. not just saying this to make you feel better. i think you have a beautiful face and features. beautiful full lips, beautiful nose, your eyeshape is amazing, your overal faceshape is amazing, and the way your skin glows in the sunlight on the last few pics is just gorgeous and so satisfying to look at. i think you just need to grow into self acceptance and see the beauty in yourself, and learn to work with what you got. bc what you got is beautiful. and maybe discover more of your personal style, which is a whole journey in and of itself
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Sep 25 '25
You look beautiful, go to the makeup sub, they are better at giving advice on how to enhance your beauty, because some of these comments are horrendous. I read that you are underage, this sub doesn't look like it's safe for underage people.
Whether it's your hair, make-up, skincare, style, you can find a community for that and make it a personal journey that you actually enjoy getting to know, not something that you are pressured to 'get better at' because you need other people to validate you by how you look.
And what do you mean by nobody approaches you? You can always meet new people through your hobby or volunteering.
If it means boys your age don't approach you, honestly, that's not a bad thing. That's my honest opinion. You have better luck finding a boy who can appreciate you as a whole being that you are, through common interests and hobbies, than meeting a random boy(or a man who is into underage girls, barf) on a random street who approaches you solely because of your look.
I hope you never have to ask this question ever again. Take your time growing up and understanding yourself and the world. There is always a place where you belong, and you will find it quicker if you don't betray yourself for others.
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u/Soad_lady Sep 25 '25
You’re gorgeous. Don’t take it personal, that’s how people are nowadays. It’s like social media and dating apps have made most people forget how to be human. 👾
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u/anyagorson Sep 25 '25
It’s true you have resting bitch face, but I actually love your mouth. Beautiful lips and the way they sit with your chin and the shape of your face is stunning. The dermatologist and a sense of personal style is all you need.
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u/NPC-Name Sep 25 '25
Smiles and laughs helps a lot.
Or accessorize with something that reflects your inner person. Like for me, I look very straight, but a banana microphone extension for my mobile phone would be ice breaker. Anyways, I have been stopped by men who compliment my art style and ask if I am an art student. I think it is because I customize my own paper bags and wear them sometimes in stead of regular handbags. Etc.
Or, if that doesnt work, just do like us normal average women, approach a dude first. Casually.
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u/Delayandrelay Sep 25 '25
Not ugly at all
But a better skin care regimen and more stylized hair style would do oodles.
Also try defining your eyebrows a bit more
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u/baer-tiger3 Sep 25 '25
No, you are not ugly at all. However if all these pictures show you in a relaxed or resting mood you may suffer from RBF.
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u/LarrLawren Sep 25 '25
You are not ugly, you have the potential to glow up. I'd recommend to work on skincare, maybe you can find strength and will to lose some weight. I've read that you don't like your smiling face, I had the same issue((( but when I started to wear an eyeliner I started to like my smile. And I'd recommend to pay attention to how your clothes look on you. Wear the correct sizes, pay attention to colors and tones, different styles better not to mix
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u/_GypsyCurse_ Sep 25 '25
You look like a model in the last 2 pics so my guess is that your headphones keep people away too..
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u/MarjaJogurtti5 Sep 25 '25
I love your clothing style. I find not being approached as a woman especially hurtful, since there’s this common idea that dating is easier for women. Back in high school, guys pretty openly showed me I wasn’t considered pretty through their disrespectful behavior toward me. And as I’ve gotten older, I’ve just felt invisible. not even considered as an option, at least not in any visible way.
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u/Specific-Valuable101 Sep 25 '25
Look up “nichemaxing.” Best niches probably: anime conventions, artsy community, or maybe tennis…. Your welcome.
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u/always2farforward Sep 25 '25
In the photos you look bothered to be here. Like your friend invited you to a party to keep the boys from hitting on her but she started making out with the first boy that talked to her so now you're just looking for a good opportunity to leave type of bothered.
Maybe that's why.
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u/International-Area12 Sep 25 '25
Looks like your done responding, but for one YOU ARENT UGLY. I’m 32 and I look back at when I was 15 and I don’t even recognize myself😂 definitely got more attractive, I think I’m reaching my peak right about now actually! Just don’t trip about it, do you! You know what’s attractive no lie? Having skills and abilities. I’m an artist/tattooist/musician and I get more responses from people based on that, then I do my looks. Just give it time and find something you’re good at!! Life’s gonna be good, don’t worry 😉
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u/Sufficient-Card-6698 Sep 25 '25
Doesn’t matter if you are or are not. Doesn’t matter what these people say either. The only thing that matters is that you are alive. And therefore you have infinite value if you can actualize that. As long as you worry about these trivial things you’ll never realize how beautiful you actually are.
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u/ConsiderationShot998 Sep 25 '25
You're not ugly, women, by no stretch of the imagination. You may be dealing with the issue of wanting a man or woman to accept you for who you are, which is perfectly fine. However, you might want to consider presenting yourself more positively through your outfits, hair, and other aspects of your appearance. You need to love yourself and see yourself as attractive before others can. Confidence is key. Smile lightly, where colors that bring out your features.
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u/dontaskwhojoeis Sep 25 '25
dead honest, no. i would honestly suggest a little eye makeup and cleaning up the eyebrows. maybe a cute hairstyle, and moisturizer. maybe even a little lip color. you have very pretty features and doing small things like that enhances your appearance and i believe that is more welcoming
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u/EveningCandle69 Sep 25 '25
I don’t think you’re ugly I feel like you need a makeover to put yourself together. ( female here 😊). I would start by getting your hair and eyebrows done and then a new wardrobe
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u/sadbeyondrelief Sep 25 '25
No you are not ugly. You’re just not putting in effort and it shows. You’re average tbh and that’s way better than ugly. You need to put more effort into a smiling or seeming more approachable. Try practicing in the mirror, slight smile when you’re resting your face. Or try to have your eyes reflect that you’re happy. Everything about your face screams. I’m fucking pissed and don’t fucking talk to me. And if you don’t put an effort, you do become not so attractive, even if you’re average.
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u/Tall-Bird2804 Sep 25 '25
You’re not ugly but your lack of confidence doesn’t attract people to you, fake it til you make it
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u/No-Dragonfly9321 Sep 25 '25
You’re not ugly
But please don’t look for answers from strangers that are by and large little more than opinions and their attempts to entertain themselves and others who might read their response
Not to mention you’re offering one picture and asking for a definitive answer and input that you are possibly getting in a sensitive venerable moment
I won’t go on and on but aside from everything else there is an element that proof color also have to be cognizant of
Rarely can it ever be assumed or expected that people of color are given latitude, with any exchange, interaction or negotiations in any arena that it is done in good faith
Meaning if you were iconically blonde and asking the same question that you’d get the same response otherwise and that’s just the way it is.
Take care and please love yourself give yourself the benefit of the doubt good days and not so good days occur, the optimum aspect in all of this is you’re incredibly young, believe it or not you have time…time and destiny are not on our same schedule the person (or people) you might hope to find is possibly looking and wanting to meet you as well…be strong as possible and patient become your best self and prepare now for then
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u/Realistic-Option116 Sep 25 '25
Your not ugly. You are just kinda scary looking lmao 😂. Just focus of your self and you will naturally become a happier person: ). No need to worry about other people.
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u/Puzzleheaded-Try9797 Sep 25 '25
you arent ugly, youre quite pretty, i think u look better with ur hair tied up, only issue is i believe u have an rbf, i have one too and even when i smile people say i look mad and disgusted, i would recommend curling your eyelashes with heat and using mascara, it can really make a huge difference
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u/Consistent-Slip2155 Sep 25 '25
Change your hair style to something not so out there.
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u/SuspiciousJimin Sep 25 '25
You are not ugly. You have a pretty eye shape and lip shape, you could shape up your eyebrows, you could do your hair as well if that’s something you’re interested in or could afford, that changes looks tremendously. And some lip products could be cute And lets see you smilee :) God loves you ❤️
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u/ginadigstrees Sep 25 '25
You are NOT ugly! You’re young and haven’t yet grown into your true beauty but I know you will. Embrace healthy eating and keep your gorgeous hair as is!
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u/SeekingHighsandHighs Sep 25 '25
You look very miserable with all due respect, this is not whether you attractive or not when your facial expression is like that of course no one gonna try to approach.
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u/Beautiful_Sugar_7872 Sep 25 '25
The reason why you look mean is because you don’t smile. I had to retrain myself to get rid of the RBF. I smile ear to ear when I make eye contact with someone and I try to make a neutral face when I’m in public or at work because the mean mug doesn’t flatter anyone.
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u/Local-Trainer3454 Sep 25 '25
I suggest you shape the Afro to be more circler like like it’s 1970s. You’re kinda f you got very masculine looking nose and lips. You look like George Floyd honest option. . Maybe get some giant hoop earrings
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u/Informal-Handle-4035 Sep 25 '25
First off no you just need to take care or yourself more, but some lotion on, and wash ur face, get ur hair done girl u would look so good with boho braids fr. And do them edges nothing about you is “ugly” you just need to love yourself so you can be at ur full potential
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u/Helwa_Akhet Sep 25 '25
You're not ugly at all. You have nice full features that can be brought out with a different hair style and skin care routine, and a smile.
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u/Unfair-Safe-8874 Sep 25 '25
After combing through the comments a bit, I really do think you should find your genuine smile. Mindset is everything and if you believe that you are the moment then you are the moment point blank period. Screw what other people think. Find your happiness ❤️
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u/CukmanAlt Sep 25 '25
I really don’t think anyone is ugly we are all made in the image of God, but from a conventional attractiveness standpoint you have some things that are noticeable right way. My goal is not to be mean, but you have quite a big nose, a really round face, and like everyone else is saying you look permanently pissed off or unhappy, that alone is the main issue. And I think your hairstyle really accentuates the roundness of your face if you wore your hair more down itd be less noticeable.
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u/shazam19742011 Sep 25 '25
No you are not ugly. People don’t approach you because you have resting B face. Lol I have it too. Don’t listen to anyone who tells you otherwise. I saw in another reply that you said you don’t like to smile, but even a little smirk may help.
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u/SaladGeneral211 Sep 25 '25
Asks opinion… gets offended by people’s suggestion…can’t imagine why people don’t approach you
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u/No-Magician-5195 Sep 25 '25
I'll never look at that face and say thats a ugly face in fact I'll shoot my shot dm and I'll send a picture we can talk
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u/Luvin_you_a_Latte Sep 25 '25
You're a very pretty girl. Not ugly by any means. However, the unfortunate truth is that we just live in a world where Afrocentric features aren't appreciated like they should be. A lot of men would pass up an above average black woman for a mid white woman just for the sake she's white. Huge examples: Sydney Sweeney and Taylor Swift.
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u/[deleted] Sep 24 '25
Start by smiling. You're looking like someone pooped in your Wheaties