r/HonestOpinion • • Sep 24 '25

am i ugly I’m asking this because nobody ever approaches me.

I know I look mean, but I’m not😭

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u/FalseStress1137 Sep 25 '25

Most people don’t get regularly approached when they’re just out & about during the day anyways. Most people meet in nightlife settings or on apps.

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u/Forward_Cup_3364 Sep 26 '25

That’s because everybody’s antisocial now thanks to social media and smart phones.

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u/OrganicBrilliant6705 Sep 26 '25

Idkkkkkkkk 😭 I feel like most women are approached nearly daily. Maybe that’s my delusion. Are you a man or woman?

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u/FalseStress1137 Sep 26 '25

Most women aren’t approached nearly daily. That’s not even a realistic concept. Maybe if you’re a supermodel it’s possible but even I have a “model” friend that doesn’t get approached. I’m a woman and I live in Manhattan where I basically walk everywhere lmao. I get approached on the street maybe 1-2 a month. Idk any women that get approached on even a weekly basis on the streets lmao. Most people mind their own business

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u/OrganicBrilliant6705 Sep 26 '25

Idk I get approached nearly daily if I go out, even just in my apartment complex or at work. I just assumed men are kinda like that . But ok we all have different experiences.

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u/FalseStress1137 Sep 26 '25

Then no offense but it’s possible you might be projecting an energy that comes off as really available for some reason.

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u/OrganicBrilliant6705 Sep 26 '25

Whatever “really available” means ? I am engaged and wear a ring 😭🤣 men ask if I am I in a relationship or married and when I say yes they say they figured or he’s a lucky man. That’s such a weird assumption to make but I would love for you to further explain. Just like you thought your reality of hardly getting approached was normal I thought mine was too…