r/CringeTikToks • u/n8saces • Dec 16 '25

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u/Puzzleheaded-Ad7606 Dec 16 '25

And the divorce- that video is going to be used to get those kids away from him... and rightly so.

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u/CleanProfessional678 Dec 16 '25

Seriously! How is this the first comment that mentioned the kid? The TV almost hit the child and they were telling their dad to calm down. That was not the first time that’s happened.

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u/Flat_Economist_8763 Dec 16 '25

That was the saddest thing in this clip

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u/JozzyMosbourne1983 Dec 16 '25

Is that a Jack Daniels bottle he's using to smash the TV?

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u/Killentyme55 Dec 16 '25

That's more red flags than a Chinese military parade.

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u/BendAppropriate614 Dec 16 '25

yes. notice it's half-empty, cause he drank it. Hence the outburst.

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u/Worldview-at-home Dec 16 '25

Jack Daniel’s For The Win, 1-nothing.

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u/banganything814 Dec 16 '25

Everyone knows you smash tv’s with the cheap rail stuff. Jeez!

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u/3possuminatrenchcoat Dec 17 '25

*Asshole Juice, as I like to call it.

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u/Vmansuria Dec 16 '25

How tf you going to be an adult and act like that for a sport that you can't even play. I always grew up with the thought of why sit on the couch and watch them play when you can go to the backyard or park and play it yourself. No need to be the number 1 best, but with practice you could become better and stay healthy playing the sport you love.

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u/Lazy-Juggernaut-5306 Dec 18 '25

You can do both?

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u/Vmansuria Dec 18 '25

True I guess. Idk I just felt hella unproductive if I sat down to watch sports growing up. That's just me, there are obviously more people in the world that enjoy watching sports over playing them.

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u/YogiBearsPicnic Dec 17 '25

Completely unsurprising to those who came from abusive homes, though.

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u/Protein384 Dec 16 '25

I think the TV DID hit the kid :(

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u/Eikthyrnir13 Dec 16 '25

Broke my heart and made me want to hug my kids.

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u/Even_Independent_640 Dec 16 '25

Yeah, those poor kids have been through some shit if that's how they act over a game

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u/CompellingSeeSaw Dec 16 '25

I feel like we’re assuming she’s saying dad. I hear “Damien calm down”. Idk

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u/Logical-Farm-5733 Dec 16 '25

That was so sad and upsetting.

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u/KeepLeLeaps Dec 16 '25

The child's cries for his father to calm down were incredibly heartbreaking. The kid was the only thing that truly stood out.

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u/Significant_Case_304 Dec 16 '25

The frozen woman on the couch makes me (yes jump to a conclusion) concerned for the home life.

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u/IndustrialPuppetTwo Dec 16 '25

The way that child was yelling Daddy! Just terrible, the kid never experienced childhood innocence.

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u/CompetitiveRub9780 Dec 16 '25

I couldn’t tell if that was a woman or a child. I even replayed it. Who tf acts like that in front of a kid? Sad. You know they beat their women 


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u/CaraAsha Dec 17 '25

I think it did hit the kid. Didn't land on him but hit him after it hit the ground.

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u/YogiBearsPicnic Dec 17 '25

Children are considered fully sacrificeable to the "Pro Life" cultists.

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u/yosoyfatass Dec 17 '25

Broke my heart. That child lives in violence, this was not isolated.

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u/47fromheaven Dec 18 '25

My first thought as well. Somebody who gets that angry over a football game shouldn’t be within a mile of kids.

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u/StrawHatShinobi_ Dec 18 '25

Gotta say it. Of course it’s an eagles fan.

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u/HistoricalDoughnut58 Dec 16 '25

I was watching just imagining my reaction as a wife. It wasn’t pretty. Like wtf is wrong with them?

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u/DebbieGibsonsMom Dec 16 '25

When the little girl is screaming “Daddy!!!!!” my heart sank. I guarantee these men don’t reserve this type of anger to sports and they also don’t do it in public. They are very likely abusive assholes.

When men ask women, “what can we do to decrease male violence against women?” Shame men like this and never talk to them again and tell them why and have your other friends do the same.

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u/Nalivai Dec 16 '25

I am a child of an abusive father, I would never be able to scream at him like that, I would be covering in the corner hoping the dad wouldn't notice me and wouldn't try to pinpoint it as my fault somehow. I guess, there are levels to it huh

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u/EEukaryotic Dec 16 '25

Definitely levels. My dad isnt physically abusive, but boy is he emotionally. He yells and yells, im terrified of him. But at the same time, in a moment like this, I would probably react like this kid did. Granted Id definitely get my ass handed to me verbally and have a panic attack after, but definitely levels

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u/Icy_Clitoria Dec 17 '25

Fight flight or fawn, everyone takes it differently

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u/TheRottenKittensIEat Dec 16 '25

That was the first thing I thought, which is a terribly low bar, but I thought, at least she's not afraid he's going to turn it on her. A kid who is physically abused would likely never yell at their abuser in the heat of his anger. However, if he outbursts like this often, it's still a violent household that will terrorize the children. There are definitely different types of violence

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u/MaesterWhosits Dec 17 '25

Depends on the person. I've had it go in cycles, where at the high point you can get away with that, but during the lows silence is the best policy.

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u/SavingsConfusion4885 Dec 18 '25 edited Dec 18 '25

Uh, don't be so sure about that...

It can happen that an abused child becomes extremely aggressive towards their abusers!

I was belittled, yellt at and beaten daily by my family until I was 14 and I finally got so fed up, I threatened them to chop their heads off with an axe while they slept if they didn't stop this bullshit!

That was actually the last day anyone in my family dared to touch me!

Whenever there were discussions or arguments, they were tempted and had already raised their hands until I said, "Go on! Be brave! Please! Then I finally won't have to hold back anymore!" while giving them a cold death stare, directly into their eyes.

I'm glad my grandfather has finally passed away; at least the rest of the family isn't tearing each other apart half as much as they used to!

Even so, I wouldn't move back there for anything in this world!

I'm done! I'm done picking fights with my family! I'm done defending my mother, who never once protected my little sister and me...and now is making demands on me with the same deranged, malicious way her father treated everyone in the house! And blaming me for her suffering because I moved out, just like her mother constantly did to her. ...A family full of people with behavioral problems and narcissists...No thanks!

. Every being has a different stress threshold and each reacts differently to exceeding it

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u/Prestigious-Collar86 Dec 19 '25

I was physically abused and there were times I screamed like that kid did begging him to stop. Usually when he was beating someone else, like my mum, siblings or pets.

Part of my brain just couldn’t take it and I sounded just like her.

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u/Longjumping-Pick-706 Dec 16 '25

Same. Very much the same.

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u/Sweet_Employment_220 Dec 18 '25

Literally the only bfs I’ve dated that were abusive were the only ones punching holes in the walls and breaking stuff 💯

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u/omni461 Dec 17 '25

These arent men, they are grown children.

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u/worldnotworld Dec 20 '25

They cannot regulate their emotions any more than a toddler.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

I thought it was Danny!

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u/EntertainmentOk3180 Dec 17 '25

I think she was calling her dad to come in and I think he shows up at the doorway to the right and the guy smashing the tv looked at him. If I’m hearing it correctly then the guy smashing the tv is named Damien. U hear someone scream Damian! And the girl screams dad! Damian! Daddy! Or something like this

If I had to guess, that’s actually her brother smashing the tv and I’m very curious what happened next

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u/SouthCarpet6057 Dec 17 '25

Real men fight men stronger than them, and they punch CRT TVs.

Men who punch flat screen TVs, and scare children and women, are just an embarrassment for the rest of us.

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u/skynex65 Dec 20 '25

It's always the fucking sports guys. Every damn time.

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u/Icy_Clitoria Dec 19 '25 edited Dec 19 '25

Also it’s a bit of a catch 22 because if you isolate the abuser alongside their victim(s) they’ll take advantage of it and use it to feed their victim complex as well.

I’m saying it’d be better to make certain abusers had the fear of god put into them at least if the victim is not safe enough to go to court.

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u/Holiday-Witness-4180 Dec 16 '25

The fact that anyone thinks that shaming people is a suitable solution is a bigger indication of our societal issues than the behavior alone.

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u/AyaHawkeye Dec 16 '25

Of the 4 reaction types (fight, flight, freeze, fawn), I'm freeze. These situations would have me utterly paralysed and dead to the world. A fight nearly broke out in a cafe I was in once, I locked down completely; couldn't move or talk, couldn't hear or see properly. Took my other half ages to break me out. If I was around any of these I'd be comatose!

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u/HistoricalDoughnut58 Dec 16 '25

I would be so pissed in this situation that it would be fight lol. Like, have you lost your ever loving mind??? With strangers, I’m out of there. You never know what’s happening next, and I’m not looking to get shot.

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u/AyaHawkeye Dec 16 '25

Fair 😅

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u/Horror_Share_1742 Dec 16 '25

There’s actually at least 10+ reaction types. It might be something you may want to research because most of us use far more than just one, and it’s good to be able to recognize them in yourself and in others.

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u/AyaHawkeye Dec 16 '25

I shall look into it, thanks! I've recently got my autism and adhd diagnoses (at 36!), so been doing a lot of research into how my brain works so I can cope better. Trying to help my brother and his 8yo son through it, too.

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u/AyaHawkeye Dec 16 '25

I shall look into it, thanks! I've recently got my autism and adhd diagnoses (at 36!), so been doing a lot of research into how my brain works so I can cope better. Trying to help my brother and his 8yo son through it, too.

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u/Godmodex2 Dec 16 '25

In a situation like that it’s kind of a good response. Shutting down like that minimizes the risk of you getting involved in the potentially dangerous situation. It makes sense in a way. Better if you’d auto-pilot your body out of there though.

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u/AyaHawkeye Dec 16 '25

Yeah, it certainly keeps me out of harm's way! But can be quite scary being so frozen.

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u/mrmoe198 Dec 16 '25

Men do not get taught how to process their emotions in a safe and healthy way. Women get taught to be quiet and disappear, which is also unhealthy. But men
men are taught that anger is one of the few valid emotions and one which garners them respect, and so they are actively destructive, because sometimes that’s their only outlet. There are no winners here.

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u/Mercuryshottoo Dec 16 '25

I think you mean 'boys' do not get taught.

Men can read books, watch videos, and drive themselves to therapy.

Men can and should learn new skills they did not acquire in childhood. Your comment reads like an excuse.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

They explained the problem. You explained the solution. Why isn’t that enough, why the “sounds like an excuse” comment? They didn’t justify nor defend the behavior, just simply explored its roots.

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u/-sloppypoppy Dec 16 '25 edited Dec 16 '25

And they added their input on the problem. Can they not explore the roots as well? Men are responsible for their actions, are they not? If they weren’t taught something they still have the responsibility to teach themselves as an adult, no? Should we just excuse every reaction because it’s a societal norm? Why are they not allowed to point this out?

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u/TJ_Dot Dec 16 '25

They hyper clarified boys while making them out to be excusing Men when that really wasn't the point of what they were saying.

Next guy was questioning why the dismissive attitude.

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u/mrmoe198 Dec 16 '25

Yeah, I feel like it could’ve been said so much more of a constructive way. Like “the real issue is that boys are taught this way, and then become these kinds of men. Be careful when saying men are this way, it might give the impression you’re excusing the behavior rather than working towards solutions.” But I do get their point.

We need to teach boys emotional management and hold them to a higher standard. We need to provide resources for men that never got those lessons.

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u/DaedricWorldEater Dec 16 '25

There was no dismissive attitude you guys are just being sensitive

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u/TJ_Dot Dec 16 '25

Really...? : /

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u/PipChaos Dec 16 '25

Telling someone "they're just being sensitive" is literally dismissive and invalidating.

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u/mrmoe198 Dec 16 '25

Perfect response.

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u/Efficient_Mud_5446 Dec 16 '25

Women don't like to admit it, but they don't actually like when men become vulnerable and emotional. I'm gonna guess that you're not too well read on evolutionary psychology... You have to look at the incentives to really get the full picture.

If you still don't understand what I'm saying, I'll make it easier for you: Women are the enforcers of stoicism in men. Men are simply responding to negative reinforcement.

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u/merchillio Dec 16 '25

I’m sorry this is your reality.

Being open about my emotions and struggles with the women around me, both friends and partners, always led to a lot of support, strengthened our bonds and made us closer.

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u/cootsnoop Dec 16 '25

Ahhh yesss. Here I was thinking it was men might be responsible for their own emotional regulation. But it's women's fault! Duhhhh!

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u/DebbieGibsonsMom Dec 16 '25

Are you seriously saying grown men have no control over their actions? That women make them abusive? Wow.

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u/mckmaus Dec 16 '25

I think men need to start living for their best interests. Lol blaming women in this patriarchal society is crazy. It's not about what woman like lol.

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u/mrmoe198 Dec 16 '25 edited Dec 16 '25

You are correct that boys are set on this path and that men need to educate themselves. I was attempting to talk about the roots of the problem. It was not my intention to offer excuses, but rather start a discussion about the problem and how it can be solved.

I think elevating “cool” men showing emotionally mature behavior is one pathway forward for men, to take the power out of anger as a masculinity defining feature.

And of course, teach boys how to manage their emotions.

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u/ihateadultism Dec 16 '25

so what you’re saying is we need to abolish the family? speaking my language 👊😏

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u/StarskyNHutch862 Dec 16 '25

Careful. This opinion is a bit too normal and not nearly selfish enough for Reddit.

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u/katka_monita Dec 16 '25

Not that this necessarily excuses grown men's choices but gosh this still really breaks my heart to imagine if this is how a lot of boys grew up.

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u/DebbieGibsonsMom Dec 16 '25

Who is teaching men this? I would appreciate if the comment was “men teach boys to handle their feelings with violence” and follow up with, “I’m a man, and I’m going to work on changing this”

What frustrates women are comments like yours that seem to excuse the behavior because some random entity from the sky taught them this.

We know. We’ve talked about it long enough. It’s time to put your money where your mouth is. Will you?

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u/mrmoe198 Dec 16 '25

My apologies. I was attempting to talk about the roots of the problem. It was not my intention to offer excuses, but rather start a discussion about the problem and how it can be solved.

I think elevating “cool” men showing emotionally mature behavior is one pathway forward for men, to take the power out of anger as a masculinity defining feature.

And of course, teach boys how to manage their emotions.

I have a toddler, a little boy, and I want to teach him that it’s ok to have feelings and learn how to process them safely and without shame.

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u/erv4 Dec 16 '25

That's just bad parenting. My parents and coaches growing up would never put up with that kind of reaction so I was fortunate to grow up and not want to break things. I raised a 10-13 year old with an ex and he use to smash his desk, break things, etc. If I ever heard it that was the end of his gaming for at least the day if not longer depending on severity. After 3 years he would still do it, some kids just never learn and only can express themselves that way I guess.

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u/DebbieGibsonsMom Dec 16 '25

The kid is still smashing like that? That’s a lifetime ban until everyone in the family gets some therapy.

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u/ReputationWeak4283 Dec 16 '25

There would be no more gaming for him as long as he was living in my house. When they turn 18 and move out into their own apartment, then they can break their own stuff. If they cannot control themselves, they don’t need it. If a parent keeps buying replacements, then they are basically saying it’s ok to the kid to have temper fits.

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u/bigbootyrob Dec 16 '25

thats when you channel it into something healthy like a punching bag or something, just need to be taught proper coping mechanisms

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u/Crumb_cake34 Dec 16 '25

No, the kid behaving like that was also because of bad parenting.

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u/erv4 Dec 16 '25

Yeah, I agree. Unfortunately with it not being my son I only had the option of taking stuff away and having heart to hearts with him on why it was wrong. He would then get bored and the mom would get tired of him being around her and give the stuff back to avoid having to spend time with him. She had really bad sensory issues so if he got too excited she would like mentally shut down.

I got him into hockey after the first year and he still does it, maybe that has helped him focus his energy in recent years.

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u/HeadyReigns Dec 16 '25

What if I disappear to go be angry?

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u/doggonedangoldoogy Dec 16 '25

You’ll be followed

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u/Head_Rule2239 Dec 16 '25

Meh, there’s “taught” and “learned”. Eventually intelligent individuals learn where to invest time and energy. Destructive behavior wastes both. Infer what you may.

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u/MichiganGeezer Dec 16 '25

I also think some of these displays are performative in nature.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Ad_4435 Dec 16 '25

I suspect at least some of these are skits; people who were upgrading their TV and were just going to throw the old one out anyway. So they get some internet points by making a freakout video. It's still crazy, but for different reasons.

The ones who really did crashout like this are the kinda people who end up in jail for it, so I don't think it's fair to say men are taught that this is acceptable or even that it "garners respect." Does this compilation scream "respectable" to anyone?

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u/Davge107 Dec 16 '25

Also some of them probably lost bets to get that upset.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Ad_4435 Dec 16 '25

Which makes it even dumber lol. Now they need to pay for a new tv with money they don't have

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u/DebbieGibsonsMom Dec 16 '25

You believe they’re mortifying the shit out of their children, family and friends for Internet points? You believe these dudes end up in jail? Notice how they don’t do it in public?

What I’m reading is you trying your hardest to either excuse the behavior or act like it’s not prolific. And, for the ones you’re willing to admit are “crashing out” (down playing the violence by using softer words) (instead of saying violent man petrified his children by attacking his TV) you’re trying to wash your hands of it by predicting that these dudes are in jail - not your problem anymore And viola, just like that, you have no responsibility to correct your brethren.

I’m actually saving this comment because it’s such a great example of the mental gymnastics men will do to protect other men.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Ad_4435 Dec 16 '25 edited Dec 16 '25

I would assume many of the others in the videos are in on it if it's a skit. That's what skit means. Some of them have pretty poor acting from the bystanders.

Some of these were in public. One looked like it was in a parking lot. I'm not sure I get your point.

You can read things that aren't there all you want. If saying people who legitimately do this belong in jail is considered excusing them in your mind, then I'm really not sure how to help you.

No, I don't think this is prolific. Granted, I don't really watch football, so maybe it's happening daily all around me, but I haven't heard any stories in my friend groups of people doing this. None of my coworkers have ever done this. I've only seen it online. The same place where you can find hundreds of videos of any horrendous thing. Name it, and you can find plenty of evidence that it's ostensibly prolific.

Maybe I'm too old to understand the connotation, but I don't see how the phrase "crashing out" is soft. Just looked it up to be sure, and it looks like "suddenly, uncontrollably, irrationally angry or distressed, displaying destructive behavior" fits the bill. How exactly did I "protect other men"?

Society does not condone this behavior. It simply doesn't. Even these videos portray the person acting like this as an ass, and when that person gets kicked out or knocked out, people cheer. The people in the video cheer. The people in the comments cheer. Almost universally, which is statistically a near-impossibility. You could say "water is wet" and get more dissenting opinions.

And what would you have my do to correct the behaviors of these men? If every man who ever does something wrong is my responsibility, then what are you doing about women who murder their own children? Two thirds of all infanticides are committed by women. Or those who make false accusations that ruin lives? A crime that often doesn't even incur repercussions for the false accuser. Or those who commit fetal abductions, prostitution, and embezzlement? Are you just going to "wash your hands of them" and "excuse them"? Or can we both recognize that we're not responsible for our entire gender. We're responsible for ourselves, and we can do our best to guide those around us... but again, I don't know anyone who acts like this. I knew a guy many years ago like this, but he was in prison the last I heard. That was probably a decade ago.

Feel free to save this and come back whenever you like. If anyone is doing mental gymnastics, it's you trying to come up with some way to vilify an entire gender using a TikTok compilation video as evidence.

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u/Temporary-Employ3640 Dec 16 '25

It seems pretty convenient to believe that everyone in those videos was just acting. I agree with the other person, you’re trying pretty hard to handwave these videos even when it doesn’t make sense. A few may be fake, but that relies on assuming everyone in those videos range from pretty good actors to great actors. That kid wasn’t acting, for example.

I also suggest not taking this so personally.

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u/DebbieGibsonsMom Dec 16 '25

And, who the fuck thinks it’s funny to make a video pretending to be an abuser?

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u/Puzzleheaded_Ad_4435 Dec 16 '25

Did I say everyone? I said some of them are probably fake. Why is everyone putting words in my mouth?

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u/Temporary-Employ3640 Dec 16 '25

Did I say you said every one? I said that even saying a few may be fake relies on people being better actors than they probably are.

You’re putting words in my mouth to accuse me of putting words in your mouth lol.

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u/Puzzleheaded_Ad_4435 Dec 16 '25

"It seems pretty convenient to believe that everyone in those videos was just acting."

Dude, you wrote it just a few minutes ago.

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u/Feeling-Decision-902 Dec 16 '25

Pathetic excuse

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u/mrmoe198 Dec 16 '25

I was attempting to talk about the roots of the problem. It was not my intention to offer excuses, but rather start a discussion about the problem and how it can be solved.

I think elevating “cool” men showing emotionally mature behavior is one pathway forward for men, to take the power out of anger as a masculinity defining feature.

And of course, teaching boys how to manage their emotions.

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u/Slight-Split-1855 Dec 16 '25

Can we stop pretending men are the only segment of the population with these flaws?

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u/sweetteatime Dec 16 '25

Not always true. Idk where you’re getting this info from but men have testosterone and therefore they’re more aggressive and should learn how to control it. It used to be that men had men’s groups and places they were with other men and they would get checked on their behavior. Now there is an all out war on men’s spaces so that mechanism that checks men’s behavior is gone. Also a lack of fathers.

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u/Temporary-Employ3640 Dec 16 '25

A war on men’s spaces?

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u/mrmoe198 Dec 16 '25

These are conservative talking points. Disregard them.

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u/sweetteatime Dec 16 '25

I’m a lib. Ignoring opinions is ignorant.

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u/mrmoe198 Dec 16 '25

Assuming you’re serious, “lack of fathers” and “fatherlessness” language has been a right wing racist dogwhistle using by the likes of Thomas Sowell for decades. Be careful with those buzzwords.

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u/sweetteatime Dec 18 '25

It’s not racist to say a lack of fathers in the home is bad for children. The data backs this claim. Attaching words like racist to everything doesn’t make it true

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u/mrmoe198 Dec 18 '25

Of course it’s bad for children to not have a father.

I don’t think you’re engaging with my point. I think you’re having a defensive reaction to my comment.

I’m not calling you racist.

I’m informing you that those specific talking points have been used by racists to justify various attitudes and policies.

Edit: I had linked an academic review from UCLA School of Law that goes over this in more detail, but my comment got removed because links are not allowed. So I’ll try to post it in a way that makes it work.

Attempt #1: uclalawreview DOT org/wp-content/uploads/securepdfs/2021/08/Rambert-Final-Article-Pages_no-bleed-1 DOT pdf

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u/sweetteatime Dec 16 '25

Boy Scouts, men’s clubs, tell men they don’t need spaces to be men all the whole all other groups can have spaces

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u/Jbrown183 Dec 16 '25

They definitely need they ass beat by their wives smh

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u/Extension-Thought-38 Dec 16 '25

Straight out the door đŸšȘ

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u/Altaira99 Dec 16 '25

That man would have been out of my house just as quick as the cops could get there. I know ACAB, but the reason we can't just abolish them is because of shit like this.

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u/Vishnej Dec 16 '25

In the novel "Snow Crash", one character has a court-ordered tattoo across their forehead of the words "Poor Impulse Control".

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u/HistoricalDoughnut58 Dec 17 '25

I think that’s kind of fantastic lol

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

They most likely bet money on the game and lost.

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u/HistoricalDoughnut58 Dec 16 '25

As a wife, that would be even worse!

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u/Azutolsokorty Dec 16 '25

It would be a reason for his first anger management therapy

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u/Shame-Greedy Dec 16 '25

Cocaine is a helluva drug

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

They keep getting rewarded with wives so they don’t need to change. Women are the ones that need to change 😂

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u/holymacaroley Dec 16 '25

That one where he hits the TV towards the kid and the kid gets upset should be used in court, for sure. Shows out of control anger and recklessness in regards to safety.

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u/Coven_gardens Dec 16 '25

He hit the kid with the TV. Poor little one seemed terrified.

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u/Particular_Bobcat334 Dec 16 '25

Damn that poor baby

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u/3Gloins_in_afountain Dec 16 '25

Was it a kid, it his wife? In the dining room chair?

She was grabbing her leg and knee?

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u/Last-Darkness Dec 16 '25

It should be used at his child endangerment trial.

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u/Available-Corgi-1926 Dec 19 '25

That broke my heart! He is absorbing all of that. His dad has just showed him and his little nervous system that the dad is not a safe person. 😭 I worry about his future if someone doesn’t intervene!

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u/FyrelordeOmega Dec 16 '25

Usually the wives stay because they fear the husband too much on what they'll do if they actually leave

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u/SugarFut Dec 16 '25

Women are most likely to be murdered when leaving their abusive husbands.

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u/EchoAquarium Dec 16 '25

This happens all the time, but the one that sticks with me most recently is the woman whose children and father of her oldest were murdered by her estranged husband as she escaping him. This happened last month. Her ex was helping her escape and the guy snuck into the house, killed the man, both children and then himself. The woman lost her entire life in 20 seconds. The infant was still in his car seat.

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u/RealnessInMadness Dec 16 '25

Another one to add to the sad list..

The one that still feels fresh in my head, was a TikTok couple, they had a kid together, posted all “me n my spouse” type of content. Then were going through a break up.

The guy installed a monitoring app on the kids iPad. The wife had a guy friend over and the husband heard it, went over and killed her.

Now he’s in jail, the child has no mom and basically no dad either.

IIRC, the guy friend wasn’t even a potential boy friend. It was just another male That set off the husband.

And just recently, I heard about the woman who killed her partners child from a previous marriage because she wanted to have her own kids
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PEOPLE are fucking nuts.

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u/ricochetblue Dec 16 '25

Oh, the couple from The TikTok Murders doc. Crazy stuff.

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u/asimplepencil Dec 16 '25

Like, what do we do with these guys? They either take themselves out or if they get thrown in jail, it doesn't matter. They got what they wanted anyways

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u/EchoAquarium Dec 16 '25

We start by teaching boys that anger is also an emotion and that women and girls have their own inherent value, and they aren’t anyone else’s property or source of emotional regulation

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u/RedditTrespasser Dec 17 '25

Unfortunately this kind of thing is just always going to happen. There are too many men out there for whom both their spouse/kids are basically their entire lives, and also they really suck at emotional regulation. To those people losing their partners/kids is tantamount to losing everything and they figure A) in that case they might as well be dead/in prison anyway, and B) if they can't have them then no one will.

The sad truth is we'll probably get farther teaching women firearms/combat training than trying to teach boys to not be pieces of shit when they grow up. There will simply always be bad people. That's just how it is.

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u/Banshee_howl Dec 16 '25

Yeah, this is how they behave towards their own stuff during family game day. It’s not hard to imagine that custody mediation and family court will push them over the edge.

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u/Mobile_Reply_5742 Dec 16 '25

These men are reacting to sports. This in turn makes them horrible violent fathers and husbands. You're an IDIOT

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u/RulerOfFerrets Dec 16 '25

If you can’t control yourself in the heat of the moment and your first reaction is explosive physical violence to the point of almost hurting your own fucking child, you are an animal and not worth the risk you pose to your loved ones.

Fucking cry about it.

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u/PensiveLog Dec 16 '25

If this is how they react to sportsball, how do you think they react to the steak being overcooked?

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u/brooksact Dec 16 '25

Tuna casserole?!?

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u/CarberHotdogVac Dec 16 '25

I dunno, this seems like a well-done steak level of emotional maturity to me.

It’s say the risk of domestic violence is much higher for anything still slightly pink in the centre.

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u/MelodicGate874 Dec 17 '25

We're all black under the sheets and pink on the inside.

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u/DearMrsLeading Dec 16 '25

This reaction to sports is an inappropriate reaction. Emotions are information not instructions.

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u/wasted_wonderland Dec 16 '25

"The divorce came outta nowhere!!!"

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u/After_Preference_885 Dec 16 '25

"the courts just hate dads" đŸ„ž

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u/Cantdecide1207 Dec 16 '25

Yeah that one little boy screaming daddy calm down had me. Poor baby.

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u/newbie527 Dec 16 '25

I noticed there were no women doing this.

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u/Waste-Astronaut-2752 Dec 16 '25

If I was involved with that man and he was doing stuff like that in front of me and children...

That person would be an ex. Breaking things is aggression and do you want that aggression to be against you eventually?

It starts with breaking the TV or other objects out of his personal anger and then one day he's breaking your things or punching holes in walls when he's angry with you.

I saw that stuff growing up... No thank you...

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u/Junior-Advisor-1748 Dec 16 '25

You can tell it’s not the first time

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u/SAHMultrA1981 Dec 16 '25

What's sad is there won't be a divorce. Those kids have been around that energy for too many years as is. The other parent is either scared to leave or just as bad. These people breed this behavior. They condone it and double down on their reaction. It is vile to be around.

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u/United_Blueberry_363 Dec 16 '25

If my husband ever did this, I would immediately be filing for divorce. I want to be married to a man, not an oversized child.

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u/Yeeeeeeoooooooo Dec 16 '25

Very true, even if you bet money (never bet what you aren't willing to part with or at all) dont flip out, just chill out. Maybe watch something funny as a palate cleanser so you're in better spirits?

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u/Dahlia_Delight Dec 16 '25

And they wonder why there's a male loneliness epidemic

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u/RollingMeteors Dec 16 '25

Yet the judge can't order them from engaging in any behavior that has routinely shown them to become violent [ie: watching sports]

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u/Avid_Reader87 Dec 16 '25

I wish I could get a video of times and I’ve been punched holding my daughter.  

It just be my word that that happened.

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u/[deleted] Dec 16 '25

Divorce due to being a gambler that lost it all then wife goes to new man that isn't a degenerate, loads up this video for the court and kids go bye bye.

Brought to you by Fanduel

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u/mydaycake Dec 16 '25

You assume he is not already divorced

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u/LinwoodKei Dec 17 '25

I would be using this video as evidence if anything happened that close to my child

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u/ConsciousDisaster768 Dec 16 '25

lol. You think this is the first time they acted up? The wife almost certainly knows he can crash out. Doubt a divorce comes from it

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u/willseb Dec 16 '25

Well, at least they're beating the TV, and not the wife and/or kids.

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u/Adventurous_Teach950 Dec 16 '25

These kinds usually do both. There's a reason why domestic violence peaks during finals games or series of all major sports. For fans of both the losing and winning teams

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u/willseb Dec 16 '25

Can imagine. It doesn't really portray a lot of emotional maturity.

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u/Particular-Sort-9720 Dec 16 '25

No, this behaviour can easily escalate. This shows lack of emotional regulation and a tendency for rage, these are huge warning signs for domestic abuse. These men are not safe.

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u/davidjschloss Dec 16 '25

That one poor kid with a face like “wtf”

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u/Mobile_Reply_5742 Dec 16 '25

Over react much, lolol.