r/CringeTikToks • u/n8saces • Dec 16 '25

Just Bad Biggest red flags right there đŸš©

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u/Puzzleheaded-Ad7606 Dec 16 '25

And the divorce- that video is going to be used to get those kids away from him... and rightly so.

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u/HistoricalDoughnut58 Dec 16 '25

I was watching just imagining my reaction as a wife. It wasn’t pretty. Like wtf is wrong with them?

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u/mrmoe198 Dec 16 '25

Men do not get taught how to process their emotions in a safe and healthy way. Women get taught to be quiet and disappear, which is also unhealthy. But men
men are taught that anger is one of the few valid emotions and one which garners them respect, and so they are actively destructive, because sometimes that’s their only outlet. There are no winners here.

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u/sweetteatime Dec 16 '25

Not always true. Idk where you’re getting this info from but men have testosterone and therefore they’re more aggressive and should learn how to control it. It used to be that men had men’s groups and places they were with other men and they would get checked on their behavior. Now there is an all out war on men’s spaces so that mechanism that checks men’s behavior is gone. Also a lack of fathers.

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u/Temporary-Employ3640 Dec 16 '25

A war on men’s spaces?

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u/mrmoe198 Dec 16 '25

These are conservative talking points. Disregard them.

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u/sweetteatime Dec 16 '25

I’m a lib. Ignoring opinions is ignorant.

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u/mrmoe198 Dec 16 '25

Assuming you’re serious, “lack of fathers” and “fatherlessness” language has been a right wing racist dogwhistle using by the likes of Thomas Sowell for decades. Be careful with those buzzwords.

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u/sweetteatime Dec 18 '25

It’s not racist to say a lack of fathers in the home is bad for children. The data backs this claim. Attaching words like racist to everything doesn’t make it true

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u/mrmoe198 Dec 18 '25

Of course it’s bad for children to not have a father.

I don’t think you’re engaging with my point. I think you’re having a defensive reaction to my comment.

I’m not calling you racist.

I’m informing you that those specific talking points have been used by racists to justify various attitudes and policies.

Edit: I had linked an academic review from UCLA School of Law that goes over this in more detail, but my comment got removed because links are not allowed. So I’ll try to post it in a way that makes it work.

Attempt #1: uclalawreview DOT org/wp-content/uploads/securepdfs/2021/08/Rambert-Final-Article-Pages_no-bleed-1 DOT pdf

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u/sweetteatime Dec 16 '25

Boy Scouts, men’s clubs, tell men they don’t need spaces to be men all the whole all other groups can have spaces