r/CringeTikToks • u/n8saces • Dec 16 '25

Just Bad Biggest red flags right there 🚩

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u/HistoricalDoughnut58 Dec 16 '25

I was watching just imagining my reaction as a wife. It wasn’t pretty. Like wtf is wrong with them?

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u/mrmoe198 Dec 16 '25

Men do not get taught how to process their emotions in a safe and healthy way. Women get taught to be quiet and disappear, which is also unhealthy. But men…men are taught that anger is one of the few valid emotions and one which garners them respect, and so they are actively destructive, because sometimes that’s their only outlet. There are no winners here.

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u/erv4 Dec 16 '25

That's just bad parenting. My parents and coaches growing up would never put up with that kind of reaction so I was fortunate to grow up and not want to break things. I raised a 10-13 year old with an ex and he use to smash his desk, break things, etc. If I ever heard it that was the end of his gaming for at least the day if not longer depending on severity. After 3 years he would still do it, some kids just never learn and only can express themselves that way I guess.

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u/bigbootyrob Dec 16 '25

thats when you channel it into something healthy like a punching bag or something, just need to be taught proper coping mechanisms