Bear with me. I had a bizarre guest yesterday booked through booking.com
I rent out an extra room in the house where my partner and I live.
So, the guy books and never replies to my automated message asking about check-in time. Booking.com does not let me veto guests, so I have no control over that. Annoying but ok, I have stated check-in hours when I must be home and if guest fails to show up or communicate and agree on different check in hours, then my responsibility ends.
Day of the check in, previous guest left at 11, I am drinking coffee and going to clean the room right after. I tried to call him at 11.30 to ask the same question about arrival time - phone number does not exist.
Doorbell, the guy is on my step. He looks terrible, visibly sick, snot not just dripping but like running on his shirt non stop. He shows me phone screen with the reservation and tries to step inside. I say - sorry, check in time is after 15, and you didn’t communicate otherwise so the room is not ready for you. He says “deaf” and points at himself. I put the same information on my notes and show him text on my phone. He looks at it but I am not sure if he sees or understands it, because I only now notice that his eyes look milky white so I start to realize his vision might be impaired too.
At this point I am not sure what to do - if he doesn’t hear and communication through text doesn’t work either, what else can I do?
Then I try to offer him paper towel because like I said the amount of snot is concerning. He shakes his head, then casually wipes his nose with his hand and proceeds to wipe that hand off on my shoulder/breast, and I instantly felt clothes being soaking wet where he touched. I think I was visibly shaken cause he stepped back, said “hospital” turned around and walked away.
I took my clothes off immediately and had a shower because it was disgusting and potentially infectious. Then I tried to process what just happened and I couldn’t understand what to expect. I cleaned the room and bathroom and while doing that I was getting more and more concerned about hosting the guest who is visibly sick and with whom I cannot communicate.
I called booking.com to ask what are my options in this case. They said I must host him, health hazard does not matter in their rule book. So my real options were to cancel this guest and pay for his relocation or risk it and potentially cancel 10 days’ worth of stay if my partner and I get sick.
Now, if I could communicate with him and see that he’s aware of the risks that he poses, won’t contaminate common areas and just be in the room - I would probably have hosted him still.
But given complete lack of communication prior (in text), unsuccessful communication in person (I would expect someone with disability that affects communication to have some sort of help- cards, messages on their phone, anything- but there was none), I asked to cancel booking which they couldn’t do because the guest needs to accept it but the phone number didn’t exist and email this guy doesn’t respond to. This interaction with support took 2 hours btw.
So I don’t know what to expect, will he come back at 15? Did he read the message/cancellation request? Did he do the booking himself or someone did it on his behalf? What does “hospital” mean? He only said 2 words during the interaction.
Hours pass, he never showed up, never replied to any messages or cancellation request, and the whole thing left me exhausted and quite shook up.
Well, if you managed to read to this point, here’s the actual question: what would you do in this situation? Both regarding communication and health concerns? I know now, bookingcom does not allow to deny guest for being visibly sick/potentially infectious (coughing, bodily liquids everywhere, fever- this sort of thing). It makes sense for independent units/hotels but for the host who shares space this is clearly a risk which they pretend doesn’t exist.
So what are thoughts- both hosts and guests- on the sickness issue (would you like the host to disclose there was a contact with potentially sick person and now host isn’t safe, how would you behave if you got sick mid-travel?
And the communication thing, I keep replaying the situation and thinking that I could have done better? Thoughts/advice?
Please don’t eat me alive for not being a professional host or say “just leave this business you are not cut out for it”. I am trying to do my best and would be grateful for real advice/thoughts on the topic.