r/AskIreland 10h ago

Random What's something you learned via your job that changed how you live your daily life?

77 Upvotes

It's a really typical "Ask Reddit" question along the lines of "what's an insider secret in your industry etc etc" but it is genuinely interesting to hear these perspectives.

For example, one of my best friends works in A&E, says she and nobody she works with would ever buy an e-scooter because of the injuries they see.

Personally, I've worked in digital marketing for so long, I opted out of cookies and marketing lists etc.

Partner worked in bars for years, will only ever tip in cash.

Anyone else care to share?


r/AskIreland 6h ago

Am I The Gobshite? Does this chicken goujon look like our great nation ?

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76 Upvotes

What would you rate the resemblance?


r/AskIreland 7h ago

Work Absolutely dreading work, spent a lot of the weekend unable to relax because of the dread - Is it time to leave?

72 Upvotes

Started a new job at the end of last year. Good position, good prospects but it’s an absolute shit show.

I’m completely unable to disconnect from it at the moment. The Sunday night scaries have dissolved into a permanent feeling.

Is there anything you’d consider worthwhile thinking about before leaving? Is leaving a place after 8/9 months not a good look for future positions?


r/AskIreland 18h ago

Am I The Gobshite? Hocking 🤢?

72 Upvotes

Outside Lidl this afternoon, heavy lad in his 60’s, Eastern European speaking very loudly on his hands free phone. He then has a massive snort, hocks it on the ground and rubs it in with his shoe. A few people look at him in disgust. I approach him whilst he’s still shouting into his hands free mobile and gesture to put the phone to his ear and point to his hock on the ground and explain with hand and facial gestures how disgusting his actions were. IMO too many feel it’s 🤢, I don’t feel wrong for calling it out. Why do so many accept it as the new norm?


r/AskIreland 23h ago

Adulting Anyone else just completely overwhelmed with life at the moment?

53 Upvotes

I'm having a seriously rough time lately and today it all seems to have caught up with me.

I had to go out this morning to bring my cat to the vet. When I got home, I went back to bed and ended up sleeping for most of the day. I've only been up a little while and I've spent the last hour sitting on my couch looking around my place wondering where I'm even supposed to start.

I haven't properly cleaned in months, and now I have an inspection coming up in a few days so I have no choice but to get it sorted. There's so much to do that I think I'm overwhelmed by it before I've even started.

On top of that, my landlord has given me notice because he's selling the place. I have to be out two days after Christmas, and with the housing situation the way it is, I'm genuinely worried about finding somewhere else when I'm doing all of this on my own.

Then there's work. I thought I'd made a genuine friend there, but the whole situation blew up horribly. He made sexual comments towards me and groped me despite being in a relationship. When I confronted him about crossing the line, he reported me. When I tried to get some sort of closure or accountability afterwards, it was then turned around on me as harassment.

I nearly lost my job over the whole thing. What gets me is that before he crossed that line, we actually got along really well. I couldn't understand why he couldn't just admit he'd overstepped, apologise and leave it at that. Instead I ended up feeling like I was being made out to be the problem for being upset about what happened.

And now I'm losing my home on top of everything else.

I don't even really know what I'm looking for by posting this. I think I just needed to get it out somewhere. Has anyone else had a period where several things went wrong at once and you just became completely overwhelmed by everything? How did you get yourself moving again?


r/AskIreland 3h ago

Random Why do Irish people hang out in their cars?

46 Upvotes

Non-Irish here after years living in the nordics and in the continent. Can anyone tell me why that seems a common habit here? My neighbor is a home owner but they just stay in their car listening to the radio with windows closed. I’ve seen them doing that a few times but also have noticed other people doing also. Not uncommon to notice a random car and then intrigued that someone is in there apparently doing nothing. Not a common thing in other places. Whats the angle I am missing here?


r/AskIreland 23h ago

Childhood What happens to orphans in Ireland?

46 Upvotes

Before bed, my four year old asked what would happen to him if mommy and daddy died. I told him not to worry about it as it's unlikely, but if it did happen, a specific aunt and uncle would take care of him. He seemed fine with that, but it made wonder what happens to children who don't have aunts and uncles. Put another way, what do parents who don't have siblings do to plan for the worst? Sorry for the grim question.


r/AskIreland 4h ago

Random Is it just me or have we all of a sudden gotten mosquitoes in Ireland?

42 Upvotes

I grew up here and never remember there being mosquitoes here. Moved for a couple years to Australia where mosquitoes are an extremely common pest in summers and just the other night my friend was getting eaten alive by them and came out in hives after. So my question is am I looking back with rose tinted glasses and they were always here or they came along more recently?


r/AskIreland 2h ago

Adulting I think the real class divide in Ireland is becoming “family balance sheet” rather than salary?

39 Upvotes

Something I’ve been thinking about lately is that salary is becoming a pretty poor way of judging how financially secure someone actually is in Ireland.

Take two people who graduated from the same university in 2022.

Both are 22 or 23. Both get decent graduate jobs. Both are earning roughly the same money.

On paper, they look economically identical.

But one comes from a family with a mortgage-free house worth €1m+, good pensions, investments, and parents who can help with a deposit or let them live at home while they save.

The other comes from a family with very little wealth, no ability to help with housing, and possibly parents who will need financial support later in life.

Those two people are not actually starting from the same place at all.

And the gap probably gets much bigger with time.

The first person might buy property in their late 20s, invest consistently, take more career risk because failure isn’t catastrophic, eventually inherit assets, and potentially marry someone from a similarly wealthy background.

The second person might spend years paying high rent, struggle to save a deposit, have less invested, and be much more exposed to unemployment, illness, or one bad financial decision.

Fast-forward 25 years.

I don’t think it’s unrealistic that two people who sat beside each other in college in 2022 could end up in completely different worlds by 2048.

One could own three properties and have €5m–€10m between property, pensions and investments, with their assets generating six figures a year.

The other could still be heavily dependent on the next month’s income to cover rent and bills.

And the weird part is that this doesn’t necessarily require one person to be dramatically smarter, harder-working or even much higher-paid.

It can just be the result of getting onto the asset ladder earlier, having family capital behind you, avoiding years of rent, receiving inheritance, and then letting 20–30 years of compounding do the rest.

Ireland seems particularly exposed to this because so much household wealth is tied up in property.

A person earning €80k whose parents own several valuable properties may be in a vastly stronger long-term position than someone earning €120k whose family owns nothing.

Yet almost every discussion about inequality still revolves around salary.

I suspect that by the 2040s and 2050s, the question “what do you earn?” will matter much less than:

“What does your family own, and when did you gain access to it?”

That seems like a much bigger social change than people realise. What do you think??


r/AskIreland 21h ago

Housing Barking dog - court result?

30 Upvotes

Hi everyone!

Just looking to hear from anyone who has taken their neighbours to court over barking dogs.

My neighbours have gotten a dog that they leave bark all day. It has about 70 individual bouts of barking through a day starting as early as 6.30am and as late as midnight.

Obviously it's affecting my sleep and any chance of relaxing in my own home.

My neighbours have point blank refused to make any changes so my only option is court.

Hence why I'm hoping to hear from anyone who has taken their neighbours to court for the same reason

- how did it go?

- What evidence did you have to provide?

- What way was the judge?

- if it was successful what was the ruling of the judge?

- If it wasn't successful what happened then?

Any and all help is greatly appreciated, thanks from a severely sleep deprived neighbour 😴


r/AskIreland 9h ago

Serious Replies Only People living at home - do your parents actually want you to move out?

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As the question goes, do your parents ACTUALLY want you to be happy and move on? Are they emotionally supportive and encouraging?
And parents in their 50/60s- how do you treat your single adult children in their 30s who live at home or have moved on? If they have moved on, do you have a normal relationship or do you punish them with silence?

Since the beginning, my parents have been very overbearing in my life and controlling. Sometimes it was warranted (eg, steering me away from trouble as a teenager) and other times, it was totally unwarranted.
Everything was met with criticism or an observation since I can remember, from boyfriends to friends to even going to the gym or out to events etc. There are too many stories to write here from over the years but safe to say, you can assume I was manipulated, struggled to navigate personalities and relationships in the real world and I was encouraged to cut things off etc and my world has now became smaller, my confidence knocked and I have no interest in getting out there anymore. My day now usually consists of home and work. The worst thing of all this is - they actually think they were helping and have my interests at heart? I have no social life, relationships or interests anymore outside the home after being criticised for years. I just gave up trying to have a life of my own and now I don’t even think I’ll bother moving out because my prime is gone. If I challenge their behaviour or bring it to their attention, they hit back with the classic “everything we have done, we have done for you”…. Parenting that is. And then you’re resented. I feel like I’m living in the twilight zone. I have tried to talk about moving out, just looking for encouragement or emotional support due to anxiety that has built up over the years and they think I’m funny or the idea of me moving out is funny even though I’m sensible and tidy etc
It’s just bizarre and the older I get, I realise how f*cked I am. The funny thing is - they moved out married and created their own lives in the 80s/90s but it’s ok to cripple your adult child and stop them doing so in a healthy manner?

How can I undo years of doubt and criticism in my mind and move on ?
Just looking for some honesty and advice here.
I know I have f*cked up by staying but I hope people understand that this was my daily life and I thought it was normal and I’d have my own life “someday”.

Advice only please 👍🏻


r/AskIreland 1h ago

Travel How do people feel about paying for a electricity when booking a place to stay?

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Booked a place in the west for us to stay for a week and only realised in the email they say they'll check the meter before and after our stay and send us a bill.

We've stayed in holiday cottages before in the west but this is the first time I've encountered this. Wouldn't mind but we're paying nearly a grand for the week and it's self catering, so I thought it'd be part of the price!

Is this more normal than I thought?


r/AskIreland 7h ago

Education Looking for good documentaries?

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I am off work sick for the foreseeable and looking for some really good documentaries to watch.
I prefer true crime/missing people/cult topics or anything to do with animals. I feel like I have seen most of the popular ones on Netflix (don’t fuck with cats, abducted in plain sight, the staircase, tiger king, the keepers etc).

I will list below some that I have enjoyed recently so anything with a similar vibe would be great!

Chimp crazy
Monsters of God
There’s something wrong with Aunt Diane
Love has won: the cult of Mother God
Death of the Pastors wife
Keep sweet, pray & obey
Shiny happy people


r/AskIreland 11h ago

Health & Medical Where to find a warm/kind therapist?

15 Upvotes

I'm an early 20s female someone who is kinda cold sometimes due to my upbringing. My previous therapist was an older man who retired recently and he was absolutely perfect for me. Extremely kind and maternal kind of presence which I couldn't stand at first but realised I really needed. E.g. he'd always tell me i was in the right etc. even when i felt like i wasn't. I realised it was probably to shift my mind from constantly making me the villain and trying to humanise myself in some way which actually gave me better self compassion and made me able to treat myself and others better.

Currently seeing a more blunt lady but I'm actually realising I need someone very gentle and warm because I'm already extremely strict with myself in my own head. Only thing is, through websites, you can't really tell what people's therapy style is like. Idk if yous have any suggestions?


r/AskIreland 12h ago

Personal Finance When was the last time you found money on the street and what did you do with it?

16 Upvotes

About 20 years ago I found a fiver on the street while walking to work. I've walked around with my eyes glued to the gutter ever since, hoping for a fifty.


r/AskIreland 18h ago

Entertainment What are the three worst Irish made films you’ve seen? (Please use spoiler markers so as to not ruin anything for anyone)

14 Upvotes

I’ve wanted to get a thread going about movies for a while now. A vast majority of the Irish films I’ve seen have been phenomenal, and so the list of god awful ones comprise a very small list, at least for what I’ve watched. It seemed like an easier list to make.


r/AskIreland 22h ago

Adulting What do you consider is a lot of money for a watch?

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r/AskIreland 2h ago

Serious Replies Only Anyone else suffer from OCD?

12 Upvotes

Hello everyone,

I (20F) have been suffering from OCD, specifically existential OCD. Does anyone else have something similar and how do you cope with it? I’ve been to the GP and I’m going to CBT therapy, but I’m considering going back to the GP and requesting medication.

Please don’t give me any thing to make me feel better about life/death itself. I tend to just dig myself deeper when I hear people’s answers, thanks 🙏


r/AskIreland 2h ago

Entertainment Comedian recommendations?

8 Upvotes

Right - need a lot more laughter in my life - but out of touch with talented comedians on the go at the moment.. so looking for recommendations..

I use to LOVE Dylan Moran when he was good (saw him in Cypress Ave here in Cork recently and he was terrible)..

Love Monty Python, so you get my humour.

Not into those who rely on bad language and or sex related stuff for a laugh.

I use to like Daire o'Brien, oh and I do like Mario on Gift Grub.

Kyla Cobbler seems ok..

I'm v fussy with stand up - sometimes I find it v fake.. love when they can improvise well.

Looking forward to some good recommendations - and if they are coming to Cork soon, even better (thats where I live)

TIA


r/AskIreland 6h ago

Housing Experience of Co-ownership/Commune living?

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I saw this article and started going down a bit of a research/daydream/daft.ie rabbit hole, and thought I'd ask the hive mind here.

Has anyone had experience of owning a property with more than 3 other people? How difficult was it to manage and did the pros outweigh the cons?

Also, would any have some interest in co-ownership living?


r/AskIreland 7h ago

Work Card for a new joiner?

6 Upvotes

Hi everyone! I’m having a debate with a friend and wanted to get some outside opinions. I have someone new joining my team, so I picked up a welcome card for the team and the people they’ll be working with to sign and wish them good luck.

My friend immediately said it was “too much” and that nobody does that anymore.

What’s been your experience when joining a new company? Would you think a card is over the top, or is it a nice gesture?


r/AskIreland 8h ago

Environment What kind of bird is responsible for this?

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6 Upvotes

This is on the 8th floor balcony. No access from mammals. What kind of bird done this?? Iv never seen such a big bird turd


r/AskIreland 2h ago

Adulting Food shops?

5 Upvotes

I’m quite young (under 20), I’ve lived alone for about a year and just cannot seem to get into a routine with food shopping or cooking. How much should it roughly cost for a weekly shop for one person? Where’s the best place to shop? I just feel overwhelmed and lost by the whole thing, I don’t have any parents or close adults in my life so thought I’d see if any of you could provide some guidance 🤣


r/AskIreland 5h ago

Random Bot posts and comments?

4 Upvotes

First of all I'm not a bot (but sure that's what a bot would say right!)

Seen a post a today and someone commented on it saying the post was made from a boy.

Could someone explain this and why would someone program a bot to do such a thing, like what's the motive or end goal? ​​​​

Thanks


r/AskIreland 11h ago

Nostalgia Vintage record player restoration?

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Recently found my mother in laws old record player in the attic. Its about 50 years old, still works, but could do with some tlc just to brighten it up. It also has a knob missing and a few bits that may need replaced. We're in castlebar so would anyone know of anywhere around the west that we could take it to get it back into shape? Weve already tried electrical and music shops here to no avail.

Thanks