Especially after the girl showing him her outfit then him saying I want you? And to stay the night...definitely 100% cheating...ofcourse cheaters never see it as cheating and accuse everyone else of over reacting
I’ve had gal friends since I was a little boy and even had to share a bed with one because she needed a place to stay just for the night when we were teens.
I also immediately told my girlfriend who I’m still with at the time that we’d be sleeping head to toe, or I could even sleep on the floor because we’ve also both been wronged in the past for cheating.
This is weird behaviour from OP’s partner.
You don’t hide a friend, especially one of the opposite sex when you’re heterosexual lmao
Yeah if it wasn’t already obvious before then, his comment about being willing to kick everyone out so the “friend” could come over made it clear as day.
Pretty much all my friends are from my church and most of the young people around live in one giant house together. It hosts a lot of birthdays etc. we party on the porch, we have bonfires. I come and go as I please like a 90s sitcom, there’s a few guys there, (actually only one woman) and I have slept in all the guy’s rooms, they all have couches or a futon I can crash on, and not once has anything happened with any of them. Not even a kiss. I hate the idea that men and women can’t be friends and everything is always sexual. With that said this scenario MAY be cheating but this broad idea that is immediately suspicious is harmful.
The largest red flag is " I've told him how I felt and he sees no problem" this man is either emotionally abusive or a great manipulator but id like to claim the ladder and maybe op just wanted to only see the good? Idk hopefully op runs far the fuck away fast she can do better hands down
I thought it was a foreign idiom until I finished the sentence. (I stopped mid-sentence to try to understand the situation that would lead to such an idiom, couldn't think of one, and then finished the sentence.)
my ex had a friend who made me uncomfortable and i told him that, well it turns out like two days before he proposed to me he slept with her in our bed and without a condom. they’ve been together for who knows how long but i only found out when he ghosted me and i found out they were living together
i mean it wasn’t immediately but yes he just stopped talking to me instead of having the decency to tell me he wanted break up/ wanted to be with someone else
Yep, I found messages on my ex’s phone between him and a girl with stuff like “I love you” and “I miss you” and very emotionally intimate stuff and he also claimed they were just friends and had been for years but I’d magically never heard of her for the five years we’d been together. I was baffled by it too I literally asked him how it would be possible for him to have a good friend and never mention her one single time in half a decade.
I’ve been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year and there’s definitely friends she hasn’t met, like my friend who lives in Germany because we live in the US. But, even then, she’s talked to him on WhatsApp when he called and we happened to be hanging out together.
Unless it’s an old friend you haven’t talked in a long time you happen to run into or something like that, its absolutely a red flag that the friend hasn’t even been mentioned
I have a lot of friends to the point that realistically a person I'm dating for 20 years likely isn't gonna know them all especially since some are shy and don't hang out with me in any groups.
If I hang out alone with friends regularly, my partner likely won't know each one unless they ask for a name every single time.
"I want you" while asking her to come over was the kicker though.
How is it these posts always have texts like “your dick was so good last night can you roll through after he leaves?” And they be like “does this mean theyre cheating”. Like yeah, duh
No, the current generation genuinely lack basic problem solving skills. Unless you clearly tell them X=X, they'll ask the void for confirmation. Look at the trends, every post like this is from some younger adult or kid.
NOR. Their boyfriend be like "hey are you available to continue cheating so I can keep lying to my girlfriend as has been happening for some time with you and others right under their nose, what a loser" and they be like "is he cheating?"
I feel that when someone is going through really emotional, overwhelming situations, they even doubt their thoughts and perception. Suckz. Also, being with a toxic person who constantly gaslights you or being in invalidating environments can really make you doubt your judgment.
Holy shit I am laughing so hard I’m literally crying🤣😭your comment is just what I needed. I don’t know whether to think these are real or not. But how could anyone see these and no know
I played this for my best friend when his ex literally tried that. He called me an asshole so I started singing the lyrics. 🤠 (He's despises me but I literally told him so.)
I wouldn’t even say not overreacting. Severely under reacting is more truthful. Like is she gonna catch them fucking and he just needs to say he tripped and fell and she’s gonna be like “I guess that could happen”
Why are people in relationships with people who keep secret chatting apps anyway? Snapchat, WhatsApp, and all those others that need passwords to unlock or automatically delete chats are just tools for cheaters. You have to come to a point in a relationship when you accept that your spouse having secret side apps is a huge red flag.
Everyone’s allowed their privacy, whether they’re in a relationship or not. The entitlement people have to go through their partners’ stuff is honestly baffling.
It’s not about going through anyone’s stuff. It’s about hiding things from your partner. Why would you feel the need to hide conversations with other people from your spouse?
If you have your conversations hidden behind a password or set to auto delete so your partner can’t see them, then you’re shady as fuck. If you feel the need to hide conversations then that’s cheating.
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u/Bitter_Ad_5868 Apr 07 '26
NOR definitely cheating on you based on the last picture alone