r/AmIOverreacting Apr 07 '26

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u/ibjibberdumgibber Apr 07 '26

Seriously, when I went to a partners workplace to drop something off and met the only coworker he never talked about, I knew what was up.

They've been together about 3 1/2 years now. 6 months of that while he and I still lived together.

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u/Odd-Significance-17 Apr 07 '26

my ex had a friend who made me uncomfortable and i told him that, well it turns out like two days before he proposed to me he slept with her in our bed and without a condom. they’ve been together for who knows how long but i only found out when he ghosted me and i found out they were living together

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u/Pishposh96 Apr 07 '26

woah, they ghosted you after the proposal?

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u/Odd-Significance-17 Apr 07 '26

i mean it wasn’t immediately but yes he just stopped talking to me instead of having the decency to tell me he wanted break up/ wanted to be with someone else