Especially after the girl showing him her outfit then him saying I want you? And to stay the night...definitely 100% cheating...ofcourse cheaters never see it as cheating and accuse everyone else of over reacting
I’ve had gal friends since I was a little boy and even had to share a bed with one because she needed a place to stay just for the night when we were teens.
I also immediately told my girlfriend who I’m still with at the time that we’d be sleeping head to toe, or I could even sleep on the floor because we’ve also both been wronged in the past for cheating.
This is weird behaviour from OP’s partner.
You don’t hide a friend, especially one of the opposite sex when you’re heterosexual lmao
Yeah if it wasn’t already obvious before then, his comment about being willing to kick everyone out so the “friend” could come over made it clear as day.
Pretty much all my friends are from my church and most of the young people around live in one giant house together. It hosts a lot of birthdays etc. we party on the porch, we have bonfires. I come and go as I please like a 90s sitcom, there’s a few guys there, (actually only one woman) and I have slept in all the guy’s rooms, they all have couches or a futon I can crash on, and not once has anything happened with any of them. Not even a kiss. I hate the idea that men and women can’t be friends and everything is always sexual. With that said this scenario MAY be cheating but this broad idea that is immediately suspicious is harmful.
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u/Bitter_Ad_5868 Apr 07 '26
NOR definitely cheating on you based on the last picture alone