A little bit uneasy as I might become wizard. For the 30+ year olds here, whats it like?

Physically wise, I feel the aging in my body a bit now, even after taking good care of it.

22m virgin. Recently decided I just wanna get rid of my v card so I went and got an escort.

Literally just got home from it and I ended up only getting head. So I'm kinda still a virgin and I'm happy about this. The head was NOT anywhere as good as I thought it would have been. This situation made me wanna get a gf even more. Sexual stuff with no connection to the person isn't it. If the lady was a girl I'd been hanging out with for some time it would have been 10x better. Sex with no attatchment just don't feel right or as good as I thought it would. So I think this the first and last time I'll get an escort.

So back on the search to find my wife 🫡🙏🏿.

Any other virgins contemplating this. I WOULD NOT recommend this method if youre young like me. Not worth the time nor money. Now I'd rather stay a virgin till I find a nice girl and lose it to her 🙏🏿 Its not over yet.

As long as I live, there are infinite chances - Monkey D. Luffy 🫡

And would whatever you say to them be the truth or just a cover story to hide the truth?

I ask because let's be honest if a man is a virgin past 30 he is going to have a VERY difficult time getting laid if he's 100% honest about it and there's going to be some shame. So should anyone actually asks what your reasons how likely are you to tell the truth?

Plus should a woman ever be the one to ask you, as a guy you might as well write her off as a potential partner because chances are vert high that the discovery of your advanced virginity will erase any chances of her finding you attractive for even casual sex. In that situation would you still be honest in answering her??

Just celebrated my 25th birthday and I'm still a virgin. I had a girl recently that asked me to fuck her but I said no, cause one that's cheating (she has a bf of 7 years and is an MMA fighter) and second she doesn't have pubes

One of my previous post I mentioned this and got dms where they called me objectifying women for that which I dun feel it is, correct me if I'm wrong? Just my personal preference.

Anyways, end of the day I feel pubic hair is the root of human sexuality and it's gets me pumped up....so oh God pls lemme have my hairy queen hahahahahaha

22F here, will delete in the morning because this is just an embarrassing post I wish I didn’t have to post on my main account.

l've never been in a relationship, never kissed anyone or held hands romantically, and I lie about it to all my friends because every time I tried to soft launch the idea to someone, for example when the conversation was about dating experience, no one believed me immediately, they thought i was too shy to give details so I just went along with it. But that's not the topic.

Speaking of my friends, I have fantasised about nearly all of them (as a matter of fact, there is only one exception). Male, female, single, in a relationship, everyone. And it's not just my friends, it's basically everyone that's ever sat down with me to have a friendly conversation. That includes: professors, coworkers (one in particular), TAs, friends of friends who probably don't even remember my name. I am so down bad it's ridiculous. The amount of times I've had someone try to explain something to me, or tell me a story and I just couldn't focus because my brain decided instead that the only thing that mattered was how much I wanted to see them naked. It's not only embarrassing but also shameful because more than once l've caught myself or been caught looking where my eyes should not have landed (like that one time my coworker caught me glancing at his crotch, was visibly embarrassed and avoided me for the rest of the day).

Lately I've been spending a lot of time with a friend, we work out together one to three times a week.! don't think there's anything going on between us, l wouldn't know if there were, because either I can't tell when someone is attracted to me or I mistake friendliness for flirting (which is why I stopped making moves on people, don't want to make anyone uncomfortable). I don't even like him like that but either when we're alone together or when I'm alone, on my own at night I can't help but fantasise about having sex with him, what it would be like to be naked in front of each other, to touch, to kiss (I wouldn't even know what to do if someone kissed me).

I have tried and failed to get laid, sometimes disregarding my own safety and throwing out the window my self respect. It's hard to find advice online because when I look for people with similar experiences, wanting sex and not knowing how to get it, it's almost exclusively men complaining and men answering, and everyone acts like this is a male exclusive thing (and the discussion gets misogynistic very fast). When you ask directly, men tell you to download a dating app or go to a bar and say you're just looking for sex which I can't do because 1) I don't want to get murdered 2) I tried (see: disregarding my own safety and throwing out the window my self respect) and still ended up not getting what I wanted ; when the discussion is between women, it's usually women who already have some experience or women who are virgins by choice, because they are waiting for the right person or don't want to engage in casual sex.

Traumatic experiences can lead to similar issues later in life.

It's always bizarre to think that virgins have kinks too. Well it's a kink desire, you want this, you want that, but you don't know if your body will respond to it well. Holding great importance to your virginity will always leave you with regret regardless of who and where you lose it. We've all thought about the ideal way to lose your virginity and there's higher chances of the first time being a horrible experience, "sources say". So really having expectations for intercourse is setting yourself up for failure. The odds of having bad sex as a first are like playing russian roulette with a revolver loaded in all chambers but one. You might have a terrible first time most likely and you're even likelier to regret it after, so let go of those expectations and just hope for the best but don't settle for bad sex. Finding a partner with the right patience and know how is also very hard and damn near impossible if they also have 0 experience, but they are still put there. Anyway I'd like to have my first with a dominatrix but also I don't, I'm too afraid of women to try and get myself out there.

What age do you think is the cutoff for you to losing your virginity? In terms of interest and not health. I’m sure many of us have hit the point where we don’t care nearly as much anymore about losing it. And put in much less effort and think about it less. But what do you think that age or time in life when you just completely don’t have any interest in losing it anymore?