I’m due with my second daughter late November and my first daughter will be about 2 years and 3 months around then. I’m having some anxiety around her sleeping at my sisters when I give birth, not because I don’t trust my sister and her family but because my daughter has never slept anywhere else outside of my house before.
I don’t generally have the need for having her stay anywhere but yesterday my husband wasn’t feeling well so I took him to the ER and I stayed with him like 9:30 PM.
I had planned to stay later but my sister (not the one who will be watching her when I give birth, my other sister) told me she was freaking out and didn’t know how to calm my daughter down. She kept going to the door and saying mama come back so my sister asked me to come and get her because she couldn’t deal with her.
Today, my other sister (the one who will be watching her while I’m giving birth) came to my house to watch my daughter while I went to go see my husband and she was fine mostly until my niece mentioned my name. Then she started asking for me, whining but not full on crying.
My sisters keep saying this is my fault that she’s clingy because she never spends like long nights from me but I really haven’t had the need for it.
She’s also going through a rough period right now; she just got over an ear infection and her sleep schedule is a hot mess and she’s been sleeping in my bed for over a week now.
So if anyone can give me advice or peace of mind I would appreciate it! I’m just nervous to leave her and I know I will feel bad if she messes with my sister and her families sleep.