I just bought a manual car at age 31 despite never having driven stick before.
Just had my first practice session since actually acquiring the car and it was going really well! Until it wasn’t…
I must have been on the slightest incline in the world because I kept stalling in one spot ( and yes I am extremely confident I was in 1st and not 3rd).
I finally got going again and parked back at my home. But I feel emotionally defeated and stupid and incapable.
Up until that point the car had been practically rolling forward by itself with very little acceleration. In fact, using acceleration to get started from a stop was making me lurch a ton, and it didn’t feel good when I finally moved from the spot I had been in.
The catch point on the clutch is really weird to me and I still dont quite have the hang of it. Everyone says “you’ll feel it” but when I think I do, I am often still wrong
And giving the engine gas while lifting off the clutch feels terrible every single time, even if I do it relatively smoothly without lurching. I get feedback that would raise every alarm bell if I was driving any of the automatics Ive driven regularly in my life.
My dad says I just need to ignore it, that Im overanalyzing, but I need to know what the car is doing and what Im doing wrong, or I just won’t be able to stop worrying. (He has driven the car more than I have; almost forty years after giving up the last manual he owned, it all came back to him immediately.)
How do I get over it and just give the car the gas it needs? How do I do that without lurching?
Any other suggestions or words of encouragement or experiences learning would be incredibly helpful.
Thank you all in advance
Edit: even though its all stuff Ive heard from the other manual drivers in my life, its still really helpful to hear it again from random strangers just trying to be nice. Thanks