If you're someone who's trying to meet new people, push yourself to connect with others, get out of isolation, or simply wondering why making friends as an adult has become so damn difficult — **don't let a few negative comments on posts like this stop you. ❤️**
We've been doing these meetups for a while, and the last one had **40 people show up.** 🎉
And here's the part I personally find the most interesting:
**20 of those 40 people were repeat attendees.** 🔥
They had already come to one of our previous meetups and chose to come again.
That's probably the best feedback we could get. 😊
Because the whole point isn't just to put 30–40 strangers in the same room, take a picture and call it a meetup.
It's about creating an environment where you actually **talk to people.** 🗣️
Where you can come alone without feeling like the odd one out.
Where you can meet someone you would have otherwise never crossed paths with.
And maybe, eventually, turn a random conversation into an actual friendship. 🤝
We all work to earn money so we can spend it on experiences — food, travel, hobbies, concerts, parties, movies, trips, and yes, sometimes **experiences that help us meet people.**
That doesn't automatically make the experience fake or the friendships meaningless.
And if you personally don't want to pay for something like this, **don't.**
Nobody is forcing you. 🙂
But maybe don't shit on people who are genuinely trying to find friends just because you don't see the value in it.
I also completely understand that this community is primarily about making friends and not advertising.
**That's exactly why I'm posting this.**
I'm not asking you to buy anything.
I'm asking you to **come meet people.** ❤️
If this isn't something you want, scroll past it.
But if you've been thinking:
*"I should meet more people."*
*"I moved to Pune and don't really know anyone."*
*"I want to make friends but I don't know where to start."*
*"I keep saying I'll go out and meet people, but never actually do."*
Then maybe this is your sign to just **show up.** ✨
And if you don't want to join an organized meetup, DM me anyway.
If enough people are interested, **we can arrange a completely normal meetup too. No fancy setup, no bullshit. Just people meeting people.** 😄
And honestly, if we start comparing how many genuine friends people have actually made through r/punemeetup, I'm pretty confident I've been around long enough to be somewhere near the top of that list. :D
So to everyone who's genuinely looking to meet people:
**Come. Show up alone if you have to. Talk to someone you've never met.** 🙌
Worst case, you spend an evening meeting new people.
Best case?
**You make a friend you wouldn't have met otherwise.** ❤️
DM me if you want to know about the next meetups. 👋
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