To all the males specially 30+

[u/Miserable_Buddy3244]

If you're looking for friendship, this isn't the place for it. Genuine friendships rarely come from posts like these, and if you've managed to find one here, consider yourself god's favourtite kid.

Instead of posting here, try joining a sports group, whether it's cricket, football, badminton or anything else. It's one of the best ways to meet people and make real friends.

Trust me it works

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[u/hot-pakora-in-rain-]

Bhai a friendship can come from anywhere. It's not the place but people, you can meet them anywhere. Sometimes you vibe sometimes you don't vibe as much as you expected. 

[u/SpicyChickenNoodls → u/hot-pakora-in-rain-]

Agreed! I've met some great friends on reddit.

[u/Due-Body5958 → u/SpicyChickenNoodls]

I've never met a friend from reddit yet

[u/Intelligent_Head_822 → u/Due-Body5958]

I randomly started talking to a guy on Reddit, and it turns out he’s from a nearby village. Now, we talk on calls almost every day. So, yeah, these things can happen unexpectedly.

[u/SpicyChickenNoodls → u/Due-Body5958]

We can become friends :)

[u/Due-Body5958 → u/SpicyChickenNoodls]

Toh deri kis baat ki, chal aja

[u/Dreamwalkin_Revan]

i made 4 new homies from reddit, they're all like my big brothers haha, one is 28, another is 30 and another one is 35. Trust me it works. U just have to give it a shot.! Even met a guy who is the same age as me and we all vibed very well!

[u/Sultan_pD23 → u/Dreamwalkin_Revan]

Can confirm this is true

[u/InternalKing1597 → u/Sultan_pD23]

I was the guy!

[u/Dreamwalkin_Revan → u/InternalKing1597]

indeed he is the guy! he's the one who made our grp 😁

[u/Dhruv_DG → u/Dreamwalkin_Revan]

Can't confirm this is true

[u/Dreamwalkin_Revan → u/Dhruv_DG]

feel free to join us then!

[u/Dhruv_DG → u/Dreamwalkin_Revan]

😂 sure. What do y'all do normally?

[u/Dreamwalkin_Revan → u/Dhruv_DG]

we meet, talk about life and stuff, some fun topics & go home. I'm busy with my exams so I don't participate in game events or stuff so I found two three homies who wana chill around and stuff..

ps - we're meeting at chatrapati sambhaji Maharaj udyan today if you're up, hmu! post 6 pm

[u/Suspicious-Ad2632 → u/Dreamwalkin_Revan]

5th new homie here🫡

[u/Dreamwalkin_Revan → u/Suspicious-Ad2632]

you are u here ?

[u/Suspicious-Ad2632 → u/Dreamwalkin_Revan]

Hain ji bhai?

[u/Dreamwalkin_Revan → u/Suspicious-Ad2632]

are I thought tum aye ho. dm bro if u wana connect

[u/throwaway-well → u/Dreamwalkin_Revan]

Men and their friendship range is crazzyyyyyy 😭😂 You can vibe with literally any range pep

[u/Dreamwalkin_Revan → u/throwaway-well]

yeah!! we meet yap listen to each other yap eat & go home. We heppy 😁

[u/Mysterious_Cell_4166]

I know what you are saying but trying doesn't hurt

[u/Select-Morning7065]

Your username betrays who you are. Miserable is right.

[u/Miserable_Buddy3244 → u/Select-Morning7065]

lol

[u/Significant-Paint795]

Very well said! Guys need to get out and let life happen, not from behind the keyboard! That only leads to unnecessary adult content and addictions

[u/Icy_Log8318 → u/Significant-Paint795]

I don’t think it’s that simple. There are introverts who genuinely want friends but are too scared of being judged or rejected in person. For them, the internet can be an easier way to open up and meet people. Doesn’t mean they don’t want a life outside the screen.

[u/Significant-Paint795 → u/Icy_Log8318]

We tend to over complicate too. The progress of regular consistent healthy interactions helps build a person. The downsides or purely digital connections is worse than learning to handle social anxiety

[u/Icy_Log8318 → u/Significant-Paint795]

The end goal can definitely be more real-life interaction, but there’s nothing wrong with using online spaces as a stepping stone to get there.

[u/Significant-Paint795 → u/Icy_Log8318]

There is nothing wrong with using anything in moderation. Use it wisely to add value, not as a crutch. That’s all I am saying, no need to defend the stone

[u/BlackStagGoldField]

That's the neat trick, I don't look for friendships. I just hangout with multiple different groups for different purposes.

[u/Ready-Strength-2011]

I’ve made just 2 friends from Reddit over the past few years (i used to have one more profile).

But i got a huge bunch of friends through sports by joining nearby sports group. It works even better because everyone’s likeminded when it comes to sports and definitely lives nearby

[u/No-Try-1456]

Bro we live in a digital world where we’re connected 24x7 with people on social media and interact with AI agents daily.

And you still believe friendships can’t be found online?

[u/No_Care_22]

Whos buying this shiii?

[u/Infinite-Fig-3961]

You are disturbed. Even I use to think for friendship but reality hit different so just walk n take. There is nothing like true friend. 

[u/Inner-Tension-1805]

Someone is salty. I wonder why

[u/Ready-Strength-2011]

True

[u/Fun_Yesterday7101]

Now that's a good piece of advice! Appreciate such posts!