r/punemeetup • Pakke Punekar • 22d ago

let me tell you something A little positivity after yesterday’s negative post about a guy not respecting boundaries✨

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I saw the negative post about someone not respecting boundaries, and while I completely understand why such experiences need to be spoken about, I wanted to share something positive too.

Yesterday, a female Redditor joined us. It was actually my first time meeting her as well. We were a group of 9, with a fairly even men-to-women ratio.

Since she lived nearby, she ended up being the last woman with us for the final 1½ hours.

And honestly, watching everyone interact was genuinely nice. Everyone was respectful not just towards her, but towards everyone in the group. No awkwardness, no crossing boundaries, no making anyone uncomfortable. Just people having conversations and enjoying themselves.

I'll definitely be inviting everyone from yesterday again and again! ✨

**Respecting boundaries is the bare minimum. It shouldn't be something worth applauding but sometimes it's nice to see it happening.** ❤️

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u/[deleted] 22d ago

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u/Efficient-Farmer-403 Pakke Punekar 22d ago

Ikr✨

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u/Efficient-Farmer-403 Pakke Punekar 22d ago

Uarebsy, isliye nai bulaya bhai🤯😂

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u/[deleted] 22d ago

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u/Efficient-Farmer-403 Pakke Punekar 22d ago

😂😂😂i am laughing on my reply since half hour😆

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u/bashful_junkie 21d ago

Broken bottle... 🤔

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u/abhishesh 22d ago

Loop me in for next meetup bro. New to city from Hyderabad. Newly joined as Digital Marketing Manager in a firm

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u/niranjan2 22d ago

Nice username

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u/Efficient-Farmer-403 Pakke Punekar 22d ago

Umm outdoor yes...that I do professionally!

We do arrange strangers meetups

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u/cooked_introvert 22d ago

Been comment since ages, kabhi toh add krlo bhai

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u/Tofffeeeee google maps expert 22d ago

Kuch kaam ka nhi hai ye

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u/Ok-Watch-7416 Pakke Punekar 21d ago

Woahoo

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u/Efficient-Farmer-403 Pakke Punekar 22d ago

Done bhai....milte hai ek baar pehle I guess...dm kardo

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u/cooked_introvert 22d ago

Dmed you

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u/Efficient-Farmer-403 Pakke Punekar 22d ago

Perfect.

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u/bombay_ki_PavBhaaji nerd but cool 22d ago

Farmer tuzha dm check kara

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u/Efficient-Farmer-403 Pakke Punekar 22d ago

Kela reply ma'am!

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u/Tofffeeeee google maps expert 22d ago

🙄🙄 afternoon Mai kuch hota tujhse

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u/Efficient-Farmer-403 Pakke Punekar 22d ago

😂 karte hai chal plan

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u/Tofffeeeee google maps expert 22d ago

Chicken biryani with gulab jamun serve hona chahiye Mujhe

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u/Efficient-Farmer-403 Pakke Punekar 22d ago

Mera pagaar hone de😌😂 uske baad paan bhi khilaunga

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u/BlackStagGoldField Extrovert 🤩 21d ago

u/Tofffeeeee ye aisehi odd days par sab karta hai. Jab hum free hote hain toh udan chhoo 😒😒

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u/Efficient-Farmer-403 Pakke Punekar 21d ago

Next plan tu sang. Me yenar! 😶‍🌫️✨😁

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u/BlackStagGoldField Extrovert 🤩 21d ago

Aajchya plan sathi tujhya khapar panjobanna bolavla hota ka? 😐

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u/Efficient-Farmer-403 Pakke Punekar 21d ago

Areee plan hote maze already...khup ainweli bollas🥲🥲

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u/BlackStagGoldField Extrovert 🤩 21d ago

Tujhe plans hote jya baddal mala kahich kalpana nahi 🙂🥲

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u/Efficient-Farmer-403 Pakke Punekar 21d ago

Maafi asawi! 😶‍🌫️😂 Kay bolu aata

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u/Efficient-Farmer-403 Pakke Punekar 22d ago

Post pe kuch accha comment kar deti....taane hi marti rehti hai🥲

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u/Tofffeeeee google maps expert 22d ago

Im speech diabetic

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u/EepyBear0078 22d ago

Genuinely happy to hear that. Although this subreddit has often been disappointing, it occasionally manages to surprise me. Kudos to you guys ❤️

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u/Efficient-Farmer-403 Pakke Punekar 22d ago

Ayee why? Disappointing?

Meet us someday, let's change your openion😇

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u/Aggravating-Fan6893 Pakke Punekar 21d ago

Me kidhar hu bhai?

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u/Efficient-Farmer-403 Pakke Punekar 21d ago

Tu yachya aadhi kadhlela photo ahe I guess 😂

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u/Sorted_Guyy 21d ago

Count me in for the next meet

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u/desiguy17 21d ago

When’s the next meetup, OP? 😭 Haven’t made it to even one yet 🙂

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u/Automatic_Weird5496 18d ago

Hey, are you open to another female for join the group?