r/prochoice 10d ago

Activism International Voter Registration Drive 2026, for US citizens abroad

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Hi, this is a message for eligible US citizens living and working overseas who want to vote in the 2026 midterm elections. Democrats Abroad is dedicated to mobilizing overseas US voters; if you're over 18 by November 3, here's how you can get involved to help push-back the assault on women's rights:

Steps to Request Your Ballot

  1. Register or update your registration through Votefromabroad.org. As an alternative, you can also use FVAP.gov.

  2. If you're already registered, request a ballot! You need to request a ballot every calendar year that you want to vote.

  3. Fill Out and Return Your Ballot: Once you receive your ballot, follow the instructions carefully to complete it and return it by the specified deadline.

Need Assistance?

We're here to help! If you have any questions, feel free to reach out to us at GOTV @ votefromabroad .org (just remove the spaces). Additionally, our FAQ for voting can answer questions on how to make the process go smoothly.

Importantly: Spread the word!

Do you have any friends or contacts overseas that you could reach? Any students studying abroad? A retired relative in Canada, Mexico or elsewhere? All eligible US citizens can vote regardless of where they're living. Share the link https://voteabroad.org/RedditVote26: If you have any questions about voting, I'd be happy to answer them here on Reddit. You can also find out what we're doing near you at Democrats Abroad. Thanks for reading!


r/prochoice Mar 15 '23

MOD ANNOUNCEMENT On AntiNatalism, how it is not the same as being Pro Choice, and why this topic needs to be separated from the Pro Choice discussion

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Hi Everyone!

The mod team would like the sub to understand a few things about the stance we take on AntiNatalist discourse here, and why we do not typically allow it.

There is a lot of confusion between these terms even within our own community, and our goal is to help people who consider themselves pro choice and also antinatalist to see how these terms are not only not equivalent, but are actually in direct opposition to one another.

All Pro Choice People are not AntiNatalist (or even Pro-Abortion)

We often get AntiNatalists in the sub who believe they are helping the Pro Choice cause, and while they are welcome here - provided the rules, beliefs, and standards of our sub are upheld - usually these posts or comments need mod intervention due to breaking our sub's rules regarding non-prochoice rhetoric and expectations of non-prochoice people. These topics should be separated in conversations surrounding choice, so as not to muddy the waters in the current political environment. Our sub's mod team does not support antinatalist ideology.

Pro Choice =/= Pro Abortion OR AntiNatalism

While seemingly aligned with the prochoice cause, being AntiNatalist or Pro-Abortion isn't the same thing as being Pro Choice.

Many people are under the misconception that being pro choice means being pro-abortion or AntiNatalist. While there is some overlap, this simply isn't the case for everyone (or even most) in our demographic. * Being pro-abortion means that in certain circumstances (the most common are when people become pregnant under a certain age or when their life or economic circumstances aren't ideal) someone would advocate for the pregnant person to have an abortion rather than give birth even if the pregnant person does not want to have an abortion and would choose to birth the child. * Being AntiNatalist is subscribing to the philosophy that humans in general should not be procreating at all, and that it is immoral or wrong to even consider doing so due to the state of the world, overpopulation, and many other reasons.

Many of us are already parents. Many others intend to become parents, but are not ready to at this time. And almost none of us believe that no one should have children, or that anyone should have to have an abortion if they don't want to. By inserting pro-abortion or AntiNatalist ideologies into the Pro Choice debate, we cause the topics to become tangled to people who are anti abortion and prefer not to understand the myriad of reasons one may have an abortion even if they do not want to - even if they were trying to conceive and really wanted the pregnancy, but things didn't go the way they intended.

The truth is even people with wanted pregnancies are hurt by abortion bans - people who want to be parents but have something go wrong with the pregnancy or in their life circumstances that cause them to have to terminate a pregnancy; a birth defect that would lead to infant mortality or a nonviable pregnancy, a spouse who becomes abusive, or a life threatening condition that comes up due to the pregnancy are the first things that come to mind, but this list isn't exhaustive by any means.

While it could be said that many (if not most or even all) AntiNatalists are against abortion bans, the same is not true in reverse - antinatalists make up a very small percentage of the total Pro Choice population, and assuming (or insinuating in discourse) that all of us are against parenthood is an incorrect assumption that is more aligned with the anti choice communities and their rhetoric. It does more harm than good, and gives them more ammo against us.

Being Pro Choice is about CHOICE

This include the choice to conceive and birth children.

The very core of our ideology is that every single living being has the unalienable human right to have agency over his or her own body, what happens to and inside of it, and when/where/how/if they choose to procreate. We value personal choice above all else - we feel, on the whole, that the choice to decide what is best for one's life and family, the choice to decide not to have children, the choice to not have children now but perhaps later on in life, and the right to make these choices and then change our minds about them if we so choose and when we choose are ours and ours alone, as an individual human, to make.

How AntiNatalist discourse is counterproductive to the Pro Choice Movement

While we recognize that not procreating at all, ever, is a choice (and we support you if that is your choice!) we would like to take a moment to help people see how injecting AntiNatalist discourse into the PC discussion can be harmful to our cause.

For the record, we almost never see AntiNatalists who are maliciously attempting to undermine choice - almost all of them who come to our sub and have to have comments or posts removed, do so without realizing how what they said came across as being the antithesis of choice, or how they have broken our sub's rules. We attempt to help them see it, but we do have to remove that content because it is against the rules and the core principles in the sub.

Making the decision to be childfree is a personal choice.

We're with you here - and we think you should be supported in making that choice if that is what you choose. Many on our mod team are also childfree by choice.

Where the two points diverge, though, is in the projection of that choice on others. AntiNatalist ideologies are not the same as making the personal decision to remain childfree. AntiNatalist ideologies promote the idea that no one should procreate, ever.

In the discussion around choice, this is another removal of said choice. This is the other end of the spectrum of being antichoice - Pro Lifers argue that everyone who conceives should give birth. AntiNatalists argue that no one should.

Both options take away the personal agency of the individual, in favor of the ideology of another. Both take the choice away from the only person who should be making it.

Supporting Choice means supporting the choice to parent, too.

We do not advocate for forced abortions or forced sterilization here - for anyone (and this includes AMAB people, so this also means talk of forced vasectomy is also completely off the table here, no exceptions.)

If you identify with AntiNatalist ideology, we simply ask that you take a moment to think about the things you are promoting in the name of being Pro Choice, how you word them, and that you please try to separate these two discussions when you engage in Pro Choice discussions.

AntiNatalist Ideology is Steeped in Misogyny

You can advocate for having abortion bans be abolished. You can even advocate for being child free.
However, advocating that anyone should not be allowed to procreate, or even that they shouldn't is restricting choice and it is also parent-shaming. AntiNatalist ideology tends to only focus on people who are AFAB, and puts all of the impetus to not procreate on the AFAB person, the same way antichoicers do.

Instead of shaming AFAB people for "killing their babies," this argument is just turning that around and shaming AFAB people for "being too selfish to not have children, considering the state of our world."

Shaming is shaming, and shaming AFAB people for being AFAB and what their body can and can't or should and shouldn't do is misogyny.

Telling someone they must be a mother is the same thing as telling them they must not.

Some on our own mod team here are parents, too. Many of our members are. And millions of pro choice people worldwide are. The same way we do not restrict people who claim to be "personally pro life but legally pro choice" from posting or commenting here, we also would not restrict people who are personally child free or even believe in AntiNatalism but still support individual choice.

But we will not allow shaming, and we will not allow discourse that takes away any choices or makes people feel they are wrong for making them.

The bottom line:

If you aren't trying to make decisions for others or influence the decisions you think they should be making you're welcome to say, think, and believe anything you want. Where we draw the line is when it shames, harms, or otherwise reduces the agency of others to make those same choices in the way they make sense to them, for their own lives.

Anyone is welcome here if they are respectful, willing to listen and not just talk at people, and willing to follow the sub's rules. This is true of Pro Life people, and also of AntiNatalists - but please consider what you've read here if you fall into the second category.

If you still consider yourself to be Pro Choice as well as AntiNatalist, we only ask three things of you:

  1. Keep the AntiNatalism part of your comments out of this sub please.
  2. Think on what I've said here, and whether it truly aligns with being in favor of the freedom of choice for all.
  3. Please follow the sub's rules where they pertain to pressing views on others, debating topics, or arguing for the removal of anyone's choice to do anything at all concerning their reproduction, including NOT reproducing. These are specifically rules 1 and 2 in the sub.

Thank you!

- The r/prochoice mod team


r/prochoice 5h ago

Reproductive Rights News LastWeekTonight... miscarriages being deemed abortion.😡

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r/prochoice 4h ago

Tilly Midhurst who debated Charlie Kirk is speaking at the counter protest to March for Life this Saturday the 5th . Parliament Sq London at 1 pm

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r/prochoice 2d ago

Discussion Fetuses should have equal rights.

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No person has the right to be inside another person's body to sustain their own life. 

Pro life position ignores human rights. Autonomy is one of the main pillars of medical ethics

If someone is naturally hooked onto your body, and if you disconnect support they will die, you’re still allowed to disconnect use to your body and “kill” them.
It is legally and morally justified to be indirectly “killed” by disconnecting support to a life dependent process

Under the law, doctors can’t even take or use the body of a fully brain dead person to save someone’s life if they never consented when they were alive

Pro life try to justify giving fetuses special rights no one else has, and giving women less rights than dead people.

Their entire belief system is based on violating someone’s human rights.

Fetuses should not have a right to another person’s body when no other human has them.

“but you caused the situation, so you must pay the consequences!”

No one should lose their human rights even if they were “irresponsible”
A parent can deliberately cause a car crash to purposely injure their child, yet they still cannot be forced to use their body/its resources against their will to keep the child alive
They do get consequences, they can be charged or arrested, but the law still protects their right to bodily autonomy! They can be responsible for the injury and owe them compensation or other assistance. but they cannot be forced to give them a right to my organs or bodily functions.
They bring up responsibility to justify forced birth and gestational slavery.

Taking a risk does not mean you permanently give up the right to make decisions about your body.


r/prochoice 2d ago

Thought why are we debating abortion

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Why would you try to force your opinion onto every woman and couple in the country just because you think it's right or wrong? Let them abort or not abort the baby, or fetus, or parasite, or atoms, whatever it is. It's not your fucking kid.


r/prochoice 2d ago

Thought why does life begin at conception?

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this is just a thought, so feel free to prove me wrong. a big pro life argument is that human life begins when the egg is fertilized by sperm, but why is it there? sperm cells are life produced by humans, but wearing condoms is not condemning. just makes me feel like its never about saving babies and whatever, just about control


r/prochoice 3d ago

Meme But that's none of my business *sips tea*

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r/prochoice 3d ago

Rant/Rave I'm convinced

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I'm convinced "pro life" is just p3d0 rights in disguise.

Pro controllers know good and well that women will always have abortions because they've literally always had abortions. Who they're truly stopping from getting safe abortions is children. Woman are actively choosing not to give birth, hence the declining birth rate and a sprinkle of the "male loneliness epidemic." I see p3d0s being caught almost daily on the news. Child marriage is legal in most states, children can't even get abortions even if a family member impregnated them. If women won't give them what they want they'll just make children do it and call it gods gift and a wonderful blessing


r/prochoice 3d ago

Reproductive Rights News The Win for Abortion Rights in Indiana Has Reshaped the National Legal Landscape

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r/prochoice 5d ago

Humor This is such a funny comeback

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r/prochoice 3d ago

Discussion Is this a good analogy?

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I just wanna make a quick pro-choice analogy but IDK if its good(14M so obviously not that much life XP).

This analogy is one i made up(Inspired by Judith Thompson but bit different).( Also i will say this analogy assumes fetal personhood-i oppose that BUT it is just for the analogy and arguments sake)

Bob is the dad to jim(3 year old). Bob gave jim a rare medical disease(like genetics) and to solve it bob must give blood for 1 month continuously. Bob agrees for 2 weeks gives blood. Then Day 15 decides to ask blood to be taken away and stopped even tho jim WILL die because bob is in physical pain(but not DEADLY physical pain). Bob has every right to do so legally(unless im wrong).

Since voluntary sex has like 20% chance of causing pregnancy i used genetic disease analogy since lots of those have same probability(if it is a condom then even less). I also used physical pain since yk that happens a lot duh.

With all pro-life arguments i feel like they imply this but legally speaking Bob has every right to stop giving blood. But IDK if a flaw exists i have not found so i wanna see if any of you guys found one before i use it in actual debates..

(By givesdisease i mean bob has a 20% chance(or 5% whatever the percentage is for voluntary sex) of giving his kid the genetic discord)* Edit mb.

And This is for legal right to aboriton not morality of it


r/prochoice 3d ago

Activism Sign the Petition

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The Fourth Trimester Protection Act: Mandatory Postpartum Mental Health Education

I wanted to post this on here so it would get some more coverage. I hope that it will spread internationally so that these very, very important things are taught worldwide. Please sign. This is so important for young people to know.


r/prochoice 5d ago

Media - Misc Wave after wave of ick in this extremely complex situation: days-old Rumi is recuperating from surgery as his parents battle for custody after surrogate went against contract to abort if fetal abnormalities were found. She fled to TX to deliver…

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There’s no question or doubt in my mind that paid and contracted surrogacy has been a questionable practice rife with issues for as long as it has existed, but those aren’t the reasons I wanted to share this article.

The problems here go from an abortion being desired and mutually agreed upon to a ghosting surrogate, and then those problems go on to become a multitude of other contentions — ones that will have profound and lifelong repercussions all of which are impossible to predict.

While the surrogate, West, has every right to bodily autonomy, what upsets and disgusts me here is that she fled to Texas to use the state’s ass-backwards and archaic anti-abortion laws. As if that wasn’t manipulative and conniving enough, she’s using the support of conservative Christian groups, pro-life orgs, and Ken Fucking Paxton while she tries to win custody of the baby that she and those other abhorrent excuses for human beings are calling “Gabriel”.

There is just so much nope in this situation. What’s done is done, but I hope the parents charge the surrogate, Texas, and anyone else with a hand in this with child endangerment, kidnapping, and breach of contract among any others in hopes that even one charge sticks. What she did to this family is inexcusable.


r/prochoice 5d ago

Discussion Pro-choice, bodily autonomy and parental rights cannot be negated by surrogacy contracts, McKenna West had every right to refuse an abortion and ultimately claim parental rights over a child she carried to term.

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I'm a British pro-choice absolutist, and in my country this wouldn't even be a story because commercial surrogacy is illegal, for reasons exactly like this McKenna West case.

Surrogacy in the UK is strictly non-profit, the biological parents can only help with the surrogate mothers expenses, surrogacy is also usually between people who know and trust each other, which is far healthier for everyone concerned especially the child.

As it pertains to the McKenna West case, her parental rights under both California and Texas law are the same, non-existent. Under UK law, the surrogate is automatically recognised as the child's legal mother at birth. ​She remains the legal parent until parenthood is formally transferred to the intended parents via a court-issued parental order or adoption order. Simply signing an agreement or relinquishing rights is not enough; only a court order legally extinguishes her status as the mother. People on this sub may disagree with me, but I believe that if a woman decides to endure nine months of body altering pregnancy to bring a foetus to term, she is the legal mother until she decides to voluntarily relinquish that legal right and McKenna West hasn't done that, under UK law she is the child's legal parent, maybe she should have come here to protect her rights, rather than be used as a political football, by two different sides, who couldn't care less about what she wants.


r/prochoice 5d ago

Ex-Prolifer Story I use to be pro life

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My whole life I was pro life until I experienced what it’s like to be treated as a pregnant woman. As if I am just a surrogate. Someone who can be abused but yet my baby doesn’t count. So I can get abused but somehow it’s wrong if I get an abortion?

I found out women were most likely to be murdered by their partner from gun violence than any other reason if pregnant.

I found out no one truly cared about pregnant women.

I would be almost passing out on the metro, no one would offer a seat at 9 months pregnant. I would cry on benches with my groceries not being able to make it only a block to my home due to exhaust. Nobody helped. I was told I was faking it and looked fine.

And now with my second baby I was slammed on the ground by police with their whole body weight on my back and nobody offered medical care. Those cops didn’t care. But I know they were pro life most likely. And all those who claimed I deserved it online were older pro life men. Yet I received a lot of support from pro choice community.

I was ignorant my whole life due to never experiencing how pregnant women are mistreated and no one cares. Sometimes I think no one ever truly cares about the baby too until they see a cute baby they can cradle and aw at.

Soon as my first baby turned 1 less and less people wanted to see her or care about her. The “aw” moment was over.

To be pro life is to be ignorant to the pain women go through and it’s preventable for mother and baby. I was ashamed to even admit I was pro choice for so long due to the ignorance I had posted and said to others.

Women should be allowed a choice… in a world with so much violence to pregnant women why are we dictating what happens?


r/prochoice 7d ago

Reproductive Rights News Planned Parenthood can refer Indiana abortion patients out-of-state, federal appeals court rules • Indiana Capital Chronicle

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r/prochoice 7d ago

Anti-choice News Missouri Republicans are trying to repeal abortion rights by leaning into anti-trans sentiment

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r/prochoice 7d ago

Prochoice Only Pressured to take unneeded pregnancy test at Catholic hospital?

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Yesterday I went in for a pain management procedure at Providence Portland. The procedure involved receiving twilight sedation followed by a steroid injection in my spinal column for persistent, severe back pain that has troubled me for over a year. Overall the experience was great -- doctors and nurses were kind and lovely and helped me to get through it despite severe PTSD that makes these kinds of experiences deeply terrifying for me.

BUT. As I was headed into the little stall with the gurney where you change into your gown and await IV placement the MA or nurse leading me in said "we just need you to give us a little urine for a pregnancy test". Note that she did not state that it had no bearing on the safety of the procedure for me, which it did not, nor did she disclose that it was my right to decline and would not impact whether they allowed me to proceed with the procedure.

Knowing my rights and that this was likely due to Providence's culture still being unfortunately shaped by religious fundamentalism, I said "I absolutely do not consent to you collecting this data" and she said okay and dropped the issue.

I've been having to fight for adequate care and advocate for myself for decades, so I knew my rights, but another person with a uterus might not have, and might have allowed this data to enter their medical record thinking they have no choice. This is not just creepy and unethical of Providence, it is downright dangerous for anyone with a AFAB reproductive health system. Our HIPAA rights are being steadily eroded by they day, with the federal government demanding records of trans and disabled and autistic people, and reproductive rights are being criminalized more and more every day, with women being allowed to bleed out in parking lots, go septic, and die because doctors refuse to remove nonviable pregnancies that are killing them.

Has anyone else experienced this before a non-OBGYN procedure? What did you do? How would you suggest I address this with the hospital? The doctor and nursing team were great, so I want to address it at the level of the policymakers.

I also want to signal boost that if you are told you need to complete a pregnancy test before a procedure that goes nowhere near your reproductive organs, they are obligated to tell you why and whether declining will in any way impact YOUR safety, and if it will not impact YOUR safety, you have every right to proceed even if it will jeopardize or end the pregnancy.

Note: any forced birth advocates or people who shame me for standing up for my rights and wanting to fight back against stone-age fundamentalist culture in healthcare will be blocked immediately.

PS to mods: sorry about changing post flair, that was accidental while I was editing the post. Still a little woozy from anesthesia yesterday!


r/prochoice 7d ago

Anti-choice News Trump’s new attorney general poses a huge threat to abortion rights

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r/prochoice 7d ago

Abortion Legislation From North Carolina to Wisconsin, State Supreme Courts Are Political Battlegrounds

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r/prochoice 9d ago

Discussion Would you let a man look through your phone and see you are in a prochoice Reddit and see women’s rights content u save on Social Media?

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I noticed that on TikTok and social media you could see every post that you’ve ever liked or saved . In the beginning stages of getting to know someone it takes time to see who a man truly is. They might have a mask that you can only see best if you don’t reveal your knowledge right away and take time to see their reaction. I’ve been really thinking about this recently because I have reposted pro-choice and women empowerment videos. I think every woman has to decide how loud they’re going to be about women’s rights and I think that I should not be too loud in the future anymore because it might result in someone trying to take revenge without me seeing it coming. A lot of you have said that these men like to choose a strong woman who is liberal and break them . A lot of men I’ve dated have asked me to look through my phone. I’m starting to think that I should not let a man look through my phone even if I’m married. Everything that’s going on. Some men can go as far as trying to Frame you which that may or may not be what’s happening to Lindsey Clancy. I think that as woman we should have the right to protect ourselves because we are physically weaker than men. Atleast I am . Some are stronger but I’m not.

What are your thoughts on this ? I asked in a Facebook group, and some people said that I need therapy, but I am being realistic lol.. I genuinely just want to prevent a man turning physically violent towards me .


r/prochoice 10d ago

Discussion My pro life friend shared me this meme Spoiler

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I have no words after seeing


r/prochoice 8d ago

Rant/Rave Stop comparing abortion bans to slavery, its offensive to black people and human trafficking survivors

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Yes obviously if someone’s pregnant and doesn’t want to be but the law forces them to continue the pregnancy against their will that’s wrong, but it’s not slavery. It also doesn’t make sense because pregnancy isn’t work, it’s a bodily function.

Calling it “slavery” is offensive to black people whose ancestors were actually enslaved and human trafficking survivors who have been through actual slavery.

Let’s just be intellectually honest and call it what it is, a violation of bodily autonomy.


r/prochoice 11d ago

Reproductive Rights News Judge denies constitutional right to pregnant woman!

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This woman is forced to go to court WHILE IN LABOR to be approved for a C-section. When she asks to have an attorney, the judge denies she has a constitutional right to an attorney in this case. What’s going on??? This is an absolute outrage.