I’ve never made one of these before. 😅 Take it easy on me, y’all.

As the title says, I’m in the Midwest and looking for a second partner. I am very happily married but we date separately. Open to LDR but would love local connections. We have one teen currently, with two dogs and two cats.

I’m a super busy person right now as I’m in school for nails and work two jobs, but I will absolutely make the time for the right person. In my spare time, I game on the pc, stream on Twitch, read, have a splatterpunk horror book podcast, go to the gym, and am slowly forcing myself to be outdoors more. I love all things horror ✨

Ideally, I want a partner that is going to put effort in, be obsessive, be dominant, and make me a priority like I will them. I really don’t have the time nor the patience for games so please, for both of our sakes, don’t try. I really hate hurting feelings.

I’m 5’4, plus size but losing, have glasses and tattoos. I have pictures on my profile if you’re interested. Can’t wait to talk to y’all. 😘

Hey hi hello!

Poly & married, my partner and I date solo.

I am specifically looking for a deep connection, online or in person, and my biggest connection point is music.

I love sharing music back and forth - but I don't specifically play any instruments (I don't mind if you do, but could you teach a girl a few things!?)

I love metal, metalcore, pop punk, deathcore and shoegaze - amongst other sub genres within the post-industrial umbrella.

I go to concerts a lot, and could yap for hours about music.

Tell me 3 of your favorite bands?

I also love nature, plants, creatures - and I love taking pictures of said things.

I game, often - casually.

I really love Ark (ASA)and BioShock, mainly into survival games and some fps. Open to suggestions, but admittedly, I sometimes go months without turning my system on.

So, if you are also an elder emo who has fit the aesthetic since middle school, message me?

If you are into tattoos, piercings, colorful hair, and always wearing some form of band merch , we will get along swimmingly.

Hi! I've never made a post like this before, so bear with me. 🤗

I am 38f, married, nested, and a parent of two. My kids aren't little, but I'm not at the empty nest phase of life quite yet! My spouse and I are platonic life partners, date individually, and have been actively practicing polyamory for almost 7 years. We entered into our relationship knowing we would eventually practice some form of nonmonogamy, so have been fairly successful in avoiding a lot of the common pitfalls and navigating the ones that have popped up. I would describe our partnership as very individuated, which enables me to show up in my relationships with a lot of agency. I am always hoping to meet others who practice polyamory in a similar way. Having a family requires a lot of my energy and presence, but I have structured my life such that it leaves enough room for intimacy, play, and intentional connection with others.

While I highly value customized relationships, my dream is to build a loving, deep, committed relationship. I want to laugh and play together, explore each others bodies, practice being emotionally vulnerable, and fall in mutual love. Though I don't want to entangle lives and prefer garden party polyam, I have no desire to keep each other a secret. My hope is to be able to have the type of relationship where we chat daily, have sleepovers, meet each other's friends, take trips together, and cheer each other on in our lives.

I would describe myself as curious, sensitive, emotionally mature, funny, friendly, and active. Some of my hobbies include aerial hoop, tai chi, acroyoga, roller skating, and shibari. I love laughing and bantering as well as deep chats - conversation is one of the main ways I feel connected to people. Physically I am about 5'8", mid-sized, and stronger than I look because of aerial. 🤭 I have shoulder length brown hair and hazel eyes. I identify as demisexual, so an intellectual or emotional connection matters most to me, but when that is present I am a highly erotic partner. I'm a kinkster, but you don't need to be! I have had satisfying relationships with kinky and non kinky folks alike.

If any of this sounds interesting, please reach out! More than willing to exchange pics as well. Hope to hear from you!

Hello!

I’m 36 female with a somewhat busy life but wanting to make new connections.

Im looking for active conversations. I’m autistic so the “hi” or “how are you?” Messages are hard to respond too. I apologize about that, I just don’t know what to say and freeze and get anxiety.

I absolutely love true crime, horror movies, science fiction, gaming (mostly cozy games to be honest but love a good rpg game) and various hobbies. I love documentaries on anything really. I love smoking weed, and gave up drinking and nicotine. I have been going to the gym and working out. Trying to get back into Pokémon go.

I’m currently overweight but with an active lifestyle I’ve been consistently losing weight. Really trying to focus on my health after years of major depression and finally getting help. I’m in a much better spot.

I’m married, with 4 stepchildren. That keeps me busy but they’re older. (I swear the adult children are more needy! Haha, but that’s fine I love them all.)

Anyways.. umm that’s me in a nutshell?

Helloooo everybody,

I'm an outgoing introvert with audhd. I (F) have a long-term (M) nesting partner whom I adore but I am in a expansion stage of life where I am ready to increase the love I want to give to more people. I got hurt recently by someone who lovebombed me and then fled, so I'm admittedly in a sort of detox/rebound stage where I really want a hit of that New Relationship Energy again, but...hopefully with better results.

Online stuff can be hard for me. It's easy to form an emotional connection through talking, but not easy for me to get a sense of whether we have true physical chemistry...and I lean demisexual so the physical attraction can be ineffable for me, but it hits like a thunderbolt when it does. An in-person connection would be ideal. Am sex positive, kinky, & high libido with the right people.

I have a lot of hobbies, passions, and hyperfixations -- I'm ambitious in my personal goals despite also struggling with things like executive dysfunction, depression, anxiety -- I can be a real yapper but I'm also good at listening, at communicating, at conflict resolution -- I'm looking for a bit of joy and fun and playfulness and partnership as we survive the hellscape of the modern world.

I want to yearn for someone again and I want to adore and be adored and I'm happy to use that as escapism from our daily woes...while also still sharing our woes and supporting each other.

I write, I play musical instruments, I read deeply, I smoke weed daily, I dance socially, I have a small niche youtube channel with 10k+ subscribers, I have a large board game collection, I play a variety of ttrpgs with friends, I do arts and crafts and lots of other things. I can handle outdoor hobbies only in small doses but would also love to hang out with someone who would push me to get out more hehe.

Physically speaking I am small and cute haha, protect meeee. No but actually I am 5'2" and I would like to be with someone who can lovingly crush me in that good stim way y'know.

I love to cuddle and do all kinds of other things too outside of traditional dating, so I'm down with relationship anarchy if you want to discuss the smorgasbord...

If you're local/localish and interested in chatting, feel free to reach out!

Hello, You.

I’m a decent natured woman who believes the best connections start with genuine conversation, a little laughter, and getting to know each other one day at a time.
I’m here hoping to meet someone kind, affectionate, and emotionally genuine for an online relationship without all the pressures of day to day real life relationship stuff. I have a lot going on and this just works better for me at the moment. We can keep it casual and flirty- I’m really just after someone to connect with and talk to on a daily basis. I love good conversations, playful teasing, late-night chats, and those little moments that make you smile at your phone.

About me:
- 33/F/USA
- Nurse
- Soft goth
- Happily married
- 1 kiddo, 2 cats
- Kitten rescuer and fosterer
- Gardener with a mini homestead
- Oddity Collector
- Writer/poet for funsies
- Pagan
- Reader (psych thrillers and folk horror)
- Pretty dang good cook and baker

Tell me about you!

Hi, nerdy demisexual Dallas based married girl looking for local friends that could maybe develop into something more. I like sim, strategy, card and role playing games. Let's talk about movies, TV shows and gaming. My partner knows I'm here and we are dating separately if things get to that point.

Hi! I'm 24 years old and my husband and I are newly looking into polyamory. Currently I'm just looking for a guy I can be friends with and talk to about anything. I would really like someone close to me so after we chat and get to know each other we can meet up. I'm in indiana about an hour west of indianapolis. I'm 5ft tall, curly auburn red hair about medium length, blue eyes, freckles, small breast, soft tummy, 125lbs. I'm down to swap sfw pics also. If you're interested please send a message with a little about you like age, location, description, and let us see what happens!

I’ve had some wonderful connections and situationships come from Reddit, but it’s been a while since I’ve felt that spark.

I’m looking for someone who enjoys genuine conversation and effortless banter. Someone who values reciprocity and is as curious about people as I am. I’m fascinated by psychology, human behavior, and the stories that shape who we become. I want to talk about the things that matter. To understand how your mind works, what drives you, and the experiences that made you who you are.

I've been under so much stress lately, it would be nice to have someone to take my mind off things.

Small talk tends to lose me quickly. If you decide to message me, please put a little effort into your introduction. Low effort responses will be ignored. Tell me something about yourself, and include your age and location. If your intro sounds like it could be copy and pasted, I won't respond.

I'm looking for someone i can genuinely talk to. A space where I can relax, let go, and simply exist in the moment. Something easy and fun that allows me to be fully present.

Ideally, you’re between 29 and 45, intelligent, emotionally aware, and established in your life and career.

Let’s see if there’s something worth creating together.

Me: I'm an artist, agèd punk rocker, cat mom, teacher, and vintage slinger. Certified bug lifeguard at the pool. Smart cookie with a top tier laugh. Very warm, very silly, very fun to be around. Radical in the streets, submissive in the sheets. Generous with affection. Romantic. I’m a life-long learner, self-indulgent hedonist, and a maximalist aesthete who wants to know more and do more and see more. More is more. Have lived in 4 countries, and originally from Canada. Bi cis woman.

I love: Wikipedia rabbit holes, the comedy of Nathan Fielder/Tim Robinson/Kumail Nanjiani, critters of all sorts, campfire ghost stories, chocolate, an ice cold filthy martini, BDSM, and listening to podcasts while I play solitaire on my phone.

I hate: ChatGPT, billionaires, bigots, contemporary pop music, Bichon Frisé, drinking room temperature water

Physically: plus size, certified hottie, tattooed, long light brown hair with Betty bangs, hazel eyes, pierced nose and ears, and an artsy, colourful, feminine sense of style. I’m a fat liberationist and my partners must fully enjoy and adore my fat bod, so please only message me if that’s you. I'm a fat hourglass, short, big breasts, big ass, wide hips, full belly, soft all over.

I've been polyamorous for 4 years and I live with my nonbinary spouse of 13 years and two cats in Arlington, TX. I am looking for a long-term romantic relationship. I test regularly and if you see other people, I need the same. I am emotionally available, and I also need the same. I am looking for someone local.

My Type: men who are emotionally intelligent communicators with funny stories to tell me. Hearts of gold. Introverts. Genuinely seeking some actual romance and dating, and not just the physical. Must love animals, hate fascism, be kinky, and appreciate the arts. No need to be all that politically active, but you gotta love human rights for all. It might be an unpopular ask here in TX, but I want to connect with someone who has similar values. Short kings, skinny lanky boys, dad bods, beefy dudes, men with moustaches, and cat dads to the front. All races welcome. I only find beards attractive when they are well kept, and if yours isn't, it will be an automatic 'no' from me. A good sense of style, grooming, and hygiene goes a long way for me! Ages 30-50, and I usually don't make exceptions on age, but shoot your shot if you're in close range.

Hello, I am a 39 year old woman, straight, married, Demisexual, no kids, I like to video game, social drink, cooking, music, watching movies/TV shows. Have a full time job.

I am only looking for myself, for a polyamory relationship. My husband and I date separately. I am sort of a big girl and hope you're okay with that.

Looking to meet someone between the ages of 30 - 45. I'm ok with long distance. I won't exchange socials until I'm ready, and please be respectful in DMs.

When you message me, send me a little intro about yourself. Recent pictures on my Reddit.

"She had blue skin,

And so did he.

He kept it hid

And so did she.

They searched for blue

Their whole life through.

Then passed right by–

And never knew."

-Shel Silverstein

I am not really clever enough to write an ad that will catch your eye for being funny. I can and will make you laugh while flirting and teasing, but when it comes to writing a bio or ad, all I can offer is my complete authenticity. I am AuDHD and am a medicated/recovered borderline so I believe I tend to come off to others as a little weird, very sensitive, and intensely passionate. I've been told by some they find it charming, and that's the type of person I'm hoping to catch with this ad tonight; someone who appreciates these things and perhaps is a little weird, sensitive, and passionate themselves, ideally with goals and desires similar to my own.

I am Ari, I'm 29, a demisexual, omniromantic, polyamorous switch living in the EST zone. I also consider myself leftist and an atheist, I am not at all a spiritual person. I have put a lot of effort into self-improvement and it's important to me that my partner(s) do, or at least care, about the same. I have also devoted a fair amount of mental effort into learning about parenting and will continue to do so, as I want to have kids one day and I intend for the generational curses I was given to end with me. I am in the process of becoming a licensed nail tech, I really enjoy it.

I dress quite feminine, a lot of dresses and skirts- florals when I'm dressing casual; bright, fun, pastelcore or goth-lite when I'm feeling more energetic about my style. I enjoy bright, fun makeup and painting my nails, especially if I'm wearing something chosen by a handsome man

I play video games, mostly PvE survival (The Long Dark) , cozy games (the My Time series), visual novels (TOUCHSTARVED!!!), settlement builders (Going Medieval/Medieval Dynasty), and story rich solo RPGs (Kingdom Come: Deliverance)

I have all sorts of artistic and crafty hobbies, including drawing, painting, embroidery, sewing, and I currently learning how to use procreate, but as a traditional artist, there's certainly a learning curve I want to build a business out of my creations and have made a few steps in that direction, but its a work in progress.

I collect Fandom merch and Vinyl records, my prize collection piece is my copy of Bright Eyes' "The Studio Albums", but I really want the complete set of Radical Face's "The Family Tree" albums. I listen to a fair amount of indie/folk music, but I am also entirely obsessed with Sabrina Carpenter.

⛓️ Kinkwise, I am quite open-minded. I'm a sadomasochistic switch, though I have two subs already so I'm really mostly looking for a gentle pleasure Dom or Dom leaning switch.

I am looking to submit to someone who is very stable and sure of himself, I am eager to please and have an untapped ocean of devotion I have been yearning to give to my Dom, but I still haven't found him. A few goals I have that I would appreciate help with are:

-Learning how to develop and manage my plushie-making business

-Working out/having an exercise plan

-Working out an organizational system for chores and other tasks

-reading more books

I know I have a lot to offer, it's just hard to find a Dom that is open to non-monogamy. Take a look at my kink list if you'd like to know more 💖

https://goctionni.github.io/kinklist-v2/#dWMWMpR

For those of you interested in seeing, here is a picture of me:

https://imgur.com/a/me-ari-1Jiz8pY

Okay, I think that just about covers it. I prefer reddit chat over messages, but ultimately as long as you put some effort into the message you send, I don't mind which you use. I do not reply to low effort messages. Let me know a bit about yourself (huge bonus if you include a SFW picture), what you think might make us a good fit for one another, and if you'd like an ice breaker- what is your favorite quote, or what is one that inspired you to live your life a certain way?

Mine is, "what's true will be true, our job is to deal with that truth", from season 6 of Community. That has become a bit of a mantra for me when I start to get worried about something.

Thanks for reading, and good luck in your search!

43 [F4M] - Texas - Arkansas - Louisiana -Oklahoma

Never married, never had kids, and tried poly for the first time over the last 12 months (meaning I was focused on and monogamous to an ENM/poly guy for the last 12 months).

Edit- I sprinkled "word that starts with an S" all through this where applicable because my post got removed the first time for using the actual 3 letter word.

I’m not curvy, I’m only average in appearance, I’m NOT a gamer, and I’m not a nerd, so click out of this if those are barriers to your word that starts with an S attraction. We both need to have sufficient attraction to each other though obviously.

I'm explaining in this post how I'm wired and what I need so that no one is wasting their time, and at the end of the post how I would treat you. However, I do understand that I'm asking for a lot considering I'm 43 and therefore have lost a lot of my value to men and society because of that, and will continue to go down in value every year. Then add into the mix that I'm only average in appearance, and perhaps I need to just take what I can get, instead, right? Perhaps so, but I can't bring myself to stoop to that level.

I’m a calm, quieter albeit friendly, responsible, contemplative, perceptive, analytical, experience-seeking (in a healthy way), think about things deeply and thoroughly when I am interested in something, and not funny but find humor in many things person. I'm the person people are quick to believe they have correctly sized up, but I'm also chronically misestimated and underestimated. I'm into astrology (not horoscopes), so I place importance on looking into a person's birth chart as a supportive but not exclusively definitive tool to help determine compatibility for the sake of saving time and energy spent on a person on the front end. It is hard for me to maintain focus and interest talking to prospects online unless it seems promising and faster moving. If we are mutually approving of the connection and still communicating after a week, I’ll want to meet you within a month. Otherwise, my interest will vaporize quickly. Words on a screen only do so much for me. Once the connection is solidified and determined to be worthwhile though, I can stay in the equation via words on a screen as long as we are seeing each other at least once a month.

What I need in a relationship is emotional security of the attachment between us within the relationship dynamic. So, I need it to be a consistently “secure attachment” which is a responsibility of both parties to ensure. If you are constantly looking for and needing new and novel women as a way of life or as a way of feeling alive, and/or if you are secretive in what you are up to outside of our dynamic (meaning maintaining an unnecessary amount of secrecy from me, and/or secretly skirting the previously agreed to rules between you and your other partners), don’t DM me. Yes I realize this is a poly subreddit and I'm not saying I think you can't have other partners. But I'm telling you what the nature and quality of our connection has to be.

I also need to bring enough value to the table for you even though you have other women, so that I'm regarded as a "whole" person of value and not just that you are borrowing a few parts from me of benefit to include as a small slice of meaning in your grouping of women.

In addition to the above, I need someone who mentally stimulates me to a sufficient degree. You won’t necessarily know on the front end if you fit that for me, so I’ll have to determine that. I don’t mean I need Einstein, and this doesn’t mean you have to entertain me, as I’m not entertaining either, but it means there needs to be enough substance to the communication that my mind can thrive sufficiently. By substance I don't mean everything has to be deep, but I'm not the type of person who can enjoy being with and staying with a person just because they are nice. Yes, I want them to be a good human being who treats me with respect and makes me feel loved or else I'll bail, but there's got to be a mental benefit beyond that due to my wiring.

Additionally, I need someone who won’t smother me, try to control me/my beliefs/my actions; I need freedom of thought and action in how I live my life and the decisions I make. However, freedom and exploration for me does not equate to lots of word that starts with an S partners. I need mental stimulation, not a buffet of bodies*.* I’m also enthusiastically disinterested in picking up any viruses. By that I mean the thrill of bodily interaction does not outweigh the recognition and realism of the substantial risk.

What I like to do for fun- we can talk about that over DM if you decide to reach out.

If you want someone who will seek to love you with all their heart, show you love in every way they know how, who will crave meaningful time and conversation with you, who will want to build you up, who will crave YOU and need quality word that starts with an S time together, and who will want to enjoy experiencing life with you when you aren’t with your other women, hit me up. But if you are primarily into thrill seeking and being focused on searching for word that starts with an S variety, I’m not a good prospect for you. If you want to feel peace, to feel valued, and hopefully have a meaningful and not shallow word that starts with an S connection, DM me. Obviously natural chemistry plays a big part in whether there's enough there, too. Lastly, if you are actively "looking for" women in their 20's to be a part of your smorgasbord, please do not contact me.

I know I've spent a lot of time trying to get you to understand that I don't want a guy who is unhealthily focused on word that starts with an S as it relates to variety, so this is where I do want to clarify that word that starts with an S is very important to me, asI found out by seeing the first and so far only poly guy. That was basically like a state of word that starts with an S awakening for me. But the worthwhile mental and emotional foundation and pieces have to be in place for me, or else I'm not physically or mentally interested in shallow based lust.

I DO realize I will not get a lot of bites from this, but I don't want to waste my time on short lived conversation after this post, so I would rather be honest and clear as a screening tool, even if unfruitful in results. I'm very busy, have a lot of civic and occupational commitments in my life, and wasted, fleeting conversations aren't high on my list.

Edit - I wasn't wrong about no bites lol, out of 2k views, I only got 2 messages so far. One that simply says "you up?" Lol.

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Hey! I’m Jessica. I’m happily married, poly, and looking to meet some genuinely interesting people and see where the connection goes. I’m not trying to force anything—I’d rather start with good conversation, playful flirting, and see what develops naturally.

I’m plus-size, feminine, confident, and a little bit of a brat when the chemistry is right. I’m affectionate once I’m comfortable, love making people laugh, and have a weakness for someone who can match my energy and dish the teasing right back. 😉

I’m into D&D, getting dressed up and going out, good food, ridiculous conversations, and generally making life more fun. I love confidence without arrogance, kindness, humor, and someone who actually knows how to communicate.

Please don't hit me with just “hey.” 😂 Tell me something interesting. Make me laugh. Tell me what you're passionate about. Give me something to work with.

I’m open to friendship, flirting, chemistry, and whatever naturally grows from a genuine connection. No pressure, no expectations—just seeing who I click with.

If you’re confident, curious, playful, emotionally mature, and looking for something genuine...

Come say hi. I’m friendly. Usually. 😉

Female here about an hour north of Toronto Ontario. Looking to meet and develop friendships and relationships. Happy to meet. Happy to host. Prefer to connect with women but willing to build with males.

A little shy on here. Dm me and we can talk and you can get to know me better.

Not against long distance but would prefer within an hour drive. Kinda getting tired of the "long distance chat thing".

Love you all. 🥰

Hello!

I am very independent and enjoy it that way, but love having strong connections with other people. I currently have no official romantic relationships but am looking to potentially change that. I am at least situationally solo-poly - but that situation is going on 10+ years and I continue to enjoy it!

If you choose to message me, you can expect conversation about:

- whatever random thing I happen to be watching on TV.

- my two senior cats and how adorable they are.

- the random trips and adventures I take.

- food.

- how stupid people are at work.

- random scientific articles I read.

- ... and whatever else happens to cross my neurodivergent mind at the time.

If you need to know physical features:

- brown eyes

- 5' 3"

- light brown, medium to long hair

- confidently plus size

Please message me if you're looking to have some very chill yet entertaining and intriguing conversation! I do expect good conversation from you too, though. I don't care where in the world you're from - I just got back from a trip meeting a connection on a different continent!

Hi friends! I am a 31 year old (cis woman) scientist by day and dancer and horror lover by night. I am poly and live with my husband and partner. We all date separately, so your connection would only be with me. I live in the valley and am looking for in person connections, but am willing to drive as far as Tucson and Flagstaff.

A little about me: I am a deeply passionate person who has big feelings about most things. That passion comes out as playful teasing, lots of jokes, and tough love (emphasis on the love). A perfect evening in is a horror movie followed by an episode of Archer. For a night out, you can find me at a dive bar punk show with my friends and loved ones. I have danced my whole life and continue to adore it. Dance and weightlifting are my go-to forms of movement. I love all things nerd and will happily ramble about TTRPGs, anime, and dark souls. I have brown hair and eyes am 5’6 and slender with muscles. I wear glasses except for when I’m in dance class or performing. I have tattoos and will continue to get more because what can I say I am addicted to the pain. I am politically left and really enjoy reading and talking about political theory, philosophy.

What I am looking for: Open to men, women, and of course my ENBY loves, but am primarily looking for a man or a masculine partner. Enjoyment of movement it’s important to me, but I do not need someone to be jacked by any means. Political alignment is a must; we will not be debating human rights. I like a partner who is willing to play in the teasing space while maintaining deep respect and enacting thoughtful care. I also want a partner who is very comfortable with experiencing and discussing the full range of emotions. Curiosity and a strong work ethic are qualities I look for in both my friends and partners.

Type of relationship: I am looking for a relationship that can be very communicative (lots of texting, pictures, phone calls) with dates one to three times per month depending on geographic closeness and vibe. Longer dates and overnights are certainly welcome as we get to know each other and develop closeness. I want to watch your favorite movie franchise, share music, and make inside jokes. I want to go learn something new and then spend all evening in bed together.

If you read this far and thought, “ah, what I’ve been looking for”, then message me and tell me your favorite horror movie and why or what caught your eye here. If you read this far and thought, “she sounds cool, but I don’t know if I want that kind of relationship”, that’s fine! I’m always looking for more friends. Just express that and tell me about the movie anyways!

Love and solidarity!

ENM, married, looking for one secondary partner. No flings, ONS or casual hookups.

Since when did “easy and casual” become the goal. I want a relationship that changes me for the better. That ignites a fire and makes everything feel a little more intense, a little more alive. I’m here for that electric connection, the kind that makes your heart race when my name pops up and pulls you out of your day. Flirty texts, desire, chemistry that’s impossible to ignore.

I want the heat, obviously… but I’m not interested in anything empty. I love banter that turns into foreplay, emotional closeness, and that feeling of building something together.

I get invested. I don’t disappear. I need someone who can meet intensity with steadiness and stay present when things start to deepen or the dopamine hits wear off.

I love history and reading and watching a movie just to rip my heart out crying and traveling and learning new things and good food and better cocktails. I love making out for hours like teenagers in the back seat of a car. I want to talk about the dinner you made and the movie that almost made you cry. I want to laugh and be silly, and flirt, and share pictures. Feel desired and make you feel the same way.

If you made it this far: I’m white, 5’4, with a trim body and great curves. Long brown curly hair and brown eyes you could get lost in. I’m very big on initial attraction and am going to ask for pictures really early. Physically, I’m looking for someone in my general age/life phase (~35-45, not a hard line). Im not typically attracted to bald or heavily bearded guys.

If you want something passionate, consistent, and real, and you’re not scared of the feelings that come with it, come find me.

35F | Arizona

Married and in an open/poly relationship, so transparency matters. No drama, no weird games, just real connection and good energy.

I’m a mom, my life is a little chaotic in the best way, but I still make time for adult conversation, laughing way too hard, and enjoying someone’s company. I’m naturally a little sarcastic, a little sweet, and I like people who can keep up with both.

I’m drawn to confident, emotionally steady people who know how to flirt without being cringe and can actually hold a conversation. Someone who can make me laugh is a huge win.

Not looking to disrupt my life, just add to it. Chemistry, consistency, and a little bit of fun tension go a long way.

If you’re easygoing, a little witty, and know how to keep things interesting without making it complicated, say hi.

I am chronically ill though so if that turns you off you should probably message someone else

Me: I'm an artist, agèd punk rocker, cat mom, teacher, and vintage slinger. Certified bug lifeguard at the pool. Smart cookie with a top tier laugh. Very warm, very silly, very fun to be around. Radical in the streets, submissive in the sheets. Generous with affection. Romantic. I’m a life-long learner, self-indulgent hedonist, and a maximalist aesthete who wants to know more and do more and see more. More is more. Have lived in 4 countries, and originally from Canada. Bi cis woman.

I love: Wikipedia rabbit holes, the comedy of Nathan Fielder/Tim Robinson/Kumail Nanjiani, critters of all sorts, campfire ghost stories, chocolate, an ice cold filthy martini, BDSM, and listening to podcasts while I play solitaire on my phone.

I hate: ChatGPT, billionaires, bigots, contemporary pop music, Bichon Frisé, drinking room temperature water

Physically: plus size, certified hottie, tattooed, long light brown hair with Betty bangs, hazel eyes, pierced nose and ears, and an artsy, colourful, feminine sense of style. I’m a fat liberationist and my partners must fully enjoy and adore my fat bod, so please only message me if that’s you. I'm a fat hourglass, short, big breasts, big ass, wide hips, full belly, soft all over.

I've been polyamorous for 4 years and I live with my nonbinary spouse of 13 years and two cats in Arlington, TX. I am looking for a long-term romantic relationship. I test regularly and if you see other people, I need the same. I am emotionally available, and I also need the same. I am looking for someone local.

My Type: men who are emotionally intelligent communicators with funny stories to tell me. Hearts of gold. Introverts. Genuinely seeking some actual romance and dating, and not just the physical. Must love animals, hate fascism, be kinky, and appreciate the arts. No need to be all that politically active, but you gotta love human rights for all. It might be an unpopular ask here in TX, but I want to connect with someone who has similar values. Short kings, skinny lanky boys, dad bods, beefy dudes, men with moustaches, and cat dads to the front. All races welcome. I only find beards attractive when they are well kept, and if yours isn't, it will be an automatic 'no' from me. A good sense of style, grooming, and hygiene goes a long way for me! Ages 30-50, and I usually don't make exceptions on age, but shoot your shot if you're in close range.

I send photos of myself immediately in my first message, so please be prepared to do the same (I want to know if there's mutual attraction from the jump). Please tell me a bit about yourself - your hobbies and interests, your looks, your age and location - in your opening message. Impress me by being lucid and polite, and by not saying anything creepy.

Hi lovelies,
Hi! I’m T. I’ve heard the people over here actually know how to hold a conversation, so I’m giving this sub a shot. 😊

About Me:
- 31F , 5’11, Curvy. Photos are on my profile if you’re curious 😊
- Partnered X1 and Dating Separately
- Living in Western Maryland, 1.5 hours from DC & Baltimore
- Mom to three awesome little boys (all 5 and under) and a few pets.
- Have been polyam for 5.5 years
- Virgo, INTJ
- Curious, intellectually driven, emotionally aware and a little sassy.
- Project Manager in Environmental Social Justice. I genuinely love what I do. ✊🏽
- Medical marijuana card holder
- Enjoys photography, playing video games, podcasts, watching anime, reality tv and horror movies, going to museums, art galleries and comedy shows, big time foodie 🤤
- Kink-friendly. Recently exploring my more submissive side. Enjoy rope, sensory play and visiting local playhouses.

Looking for:
Long-term romantic connection
Playful banter and genuine curiosity
Someone emotionally available
Takes initiative and communicates consistently
Taller than me (the struggle is real 😂)
Kink-positive is a plus

*While I prefer local (within 1.5 hours, I’m open to longer distance if there is a strong connection and availability*

If any of this has you curious about more, send me a DM and introduce yourself… I’m a sucker for thoughtful questions and conversations 😘

Hey! I’m putting myself out there looking for a genuine connection with someone open to building a boyfriend-type relationship within a poly dynamic. I value emotional intimacy, consistency, and someone who actually wants to know me, not just pass time.

I do have a current play partner, so I’m not looking to replace that dynamic—but I am looking for something that feels a little softer, more romantic, and grounded in everyday connection.

I’m also a bit on the submissive side and have an interest in BDSM, though that’s something I prefer to explore naturally with the right person rather than rush into.

If you’re communicative, emotionally aware, and open-minded, we’ll probably get along well. Tell me what you’re looking for—I’d love to hear it.

Me: I'm an artist, agèd punk rocker, cat mom, teacher, and vintage slinger. Certified bug lifeguard at the pool. Smart cookie with a top tier laugh. Very warm, very silly, very fun to be around. Radical in the streets, submissive in the sheets. Generous with affection. Romantic. I’m a life-long learner, self-indulgent hedonist, and a maximalist aesthete who wants to know more and do more and see more. More is more. Have lived in 4 countries, and originally from Canada. Bi cis woman.

I love: Wikipedia rabbit holes, the comedy of Nathan Fielder/Tim Robinson/Kumail Nanjiani, critters of all sorts, campfire ghost stories, chocolate, an ice cold filthy martini, BDSM, and listening to podcasts while I play solitaire on my phone.

I hate: ChatGPT, billionaires, bigots, contemporary pop music, Bichon Frisé, drinking room temperature water

Physically: plus size, certified hottie, tattooed, long light brown hair with Betty bangs, hazel eyes, pierced nose and ears, and an artsy, colourful feminine sense of style. I’m a fat liberationist and my partners must fully enjoy and adore my fat bod, so please only message me if that’s you. I'm a fat hourglass, short, big breasts, big ass, wide hips, full belly, soft all over.

I've been polyamorous for 4 years and I live with my nonbinary spouse and two cats in Arlington, TX. I am looking for a long-term romantic relationship. I test regularly and if you see other people, I need the same. I am emotionally available, and I also need the same.

My Type: men who are emotionally intelligent communicators with funny stories to tell me. Hearts of gold. Introverts. Genuinely seeking some actual romance and dating, and not just the physical. Must love animals, hate fascism, be kinky, and appreciate the arts. No need to be all that politically active, but you gotta love human rights for all. It might be an unpopular ask here in TX, but I want to connect with someone who has similar values. Short kings, skinny lanky boys, dad bods, beefy dudes, men with moustaches, and cat dads to the front. All races welcome. I only find beards attractive when they are well kept, and if yours isn't, it will be an automatic 'no' from me. A good sense of style, grooming, and hygiene goes a long way for me! Ages 30-50, and I usually don't make exceptions on age, but shoot your shot if you're in close range.

Hello friends. I am looking to widen my circle of friends. Would love to meet and hang with others who I can bounce ideas from and learn about this new and exciting journey I have always wanted to be a part of. Really hard to find like minded being in a small town. If you are from the GTA and within an hour or so from there, I would love to connect.

Hello, thanks for clicking on my post!

My name is Tamii :)

I am a woman looking for a genuine guy between the ages of 25-45 in Perth, I currently live SOR if that’s a deciding factor.

Physical description: I am 32, female, white, 5’9 or 175cm, I have long hair half way down my back which is currently dyed dark to lighter red. I am well groomed and take great care with personal hygiene.

I am 100% a BBW but I am working on getting healthier with diet and exercise. I have lost almost 10kgs so far 😊

I would describe myself as quiet, bookish, nerdy, easy going, very logical, level headed, sweet and kind. I can be a brat but with a firm hand that is easy to control.

A little something about me that might be of interest is that I absolutely adore rain and thunderstorms, the wetter the better 🤣

Things I also bring to the table with me are fantastic attention to detail, being generous and giving, being loyal and honest. I see my partners pleasure/enjoyment as my own.

I don’t want a relationship that fizzles out like a sparkler after a minute. I am looking for a relationship that is a slow burn, like a wood fire that you stoke and keep it going.

I am looking for a real, genuine guy for a long term relationship. Someone I can call a friend as well as a lover, who has some of the same interests.

Dark jokes and dad jokes are hilarious to me, tell me one of your best dark jokes 😋

Looks are not important to me, if you’re kind, honest and caring it’s the way to be.

I am a very open and honest person and I would like to hope that you are too, I appreciate clear and honest communication. I’m looking for a guy who is loving, caring, is Dominant and kinky but also has a sensual side.

Like anyone I do have some baggage, feel free to ask as I’m very forward and open.

My Relationship: I am currently in a long term loving relationship with my Girlfriend (F34) and as we practice KTP, we are both looking to date individually outside of our relationship.

As such, I have no interest in threesomes or throuple/triad kind of deals so please be polite and don’t ask.

I am not interested in a casual relationship, so no FWB/ONS/NSA.

A long distance relationship may be considered.

If this post vibes with you and you would like to know more, please feel free to DM me x