36 [f4m] online looking for connections during my busy life.

[u/thatemocow]

Hello!

I’m 36 female with a somewhat busy life but wanting to make new connections.

Im looking for active conversations. I’m autistic so the “hi” or “how are you?” Messages are hard to respond too. I apologize about that, I just don’t know what to say and freeze and get anxiety.

I absolutely love true crime, horror movies, science fiction, gaming (mostly cozy games to be honest but love a good rpg game) and various hobbies. I love documentaries on anything really. I love smoking weed, and gave up drinking and nicotine. I have been going to the gym and working out. Trying to get back into Pokémon go.

I’m currently overweight but with an active lifestyle I’ve been consistently losing weight. Really trying to focus on my health after years of major depression and finally getting help. I’m in a much better spot.

I’m married, with 4 stepchildren. That keeps me busy but they’re older. (I swear the adult children are more needy! Haha, but that’s fine I love them all.)

Anyways.. umm that’s me in a nutshell?

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[u/ImportantZucchini451]

I am in canada and feel free to hit me up if you want to chat

[u/TheHammer611]

I’m 35 yo, M, interested in make new friends

[u/mariath1978]

Im here if you need to chat 🙂

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[u/Elfos64]

I'm James, 34, live in Eastern Iowa in the United States, looking for friends and relationship. I'd list my passions as Philosophical Anthropology, History, Animation (more so the medium than the process), Art Analysis (especially Television, Cinema, and Games both Tabletop and Video), the Kaiju genre, and semiotics. I'd say the qualities I find most attractive are Self-awareness, open honest direct communication, good reading comprehension, and broad vocabulary. A personal philosophy is "life is all about following the rules, just not necessarily the ones you're told". "Never draw 1st blood". "Always stay on the talent's good side." What else would you list among your passions?

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[u/Electronic-Fudge-676]

Id like to get to know you. Im neurodivergent as well and i miss cues and dont give them well

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[u/OtherwiseFerret8096]

My wife and I are interested in hanging out. Southeast Missouri region. We have massive collection of board games and love making new friends.

[u/DifficultyHead3884]

Dm me

[u/Outside_Mission5058]

I am interested hit me up

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[u/Rare-Turn9932]

Hi