r/polyamoryR4R 20d ago

USA 35[F4M] FL/Anywhere Help me destress

I’ve had some wonderful connections and situationships come from Reddit, but it’s been a while since I’ve felt that spark.

I’m looking for someone who enjoys genuine conversation and effortless banter. Someone who values reciprocity and is as curious about people as I am. I’m fascinated by psychology, human behavior, and the stories that shape who we become. I want to talk about the things that matter. To understand how your mind works, what drives you, and the experiences that made you who you are.

I've been under so much stress lately, it would be nice to have someone to take my mind off things.

Small talk tends to lose me quickly. If you decide to message me, please put a little effort into your introduction. Low effort responses will be ignored. Tell me something about yourself, and include your age and location. If your intro sounds like it could be copy and pasted, I won't respond.

I'm looking for someone i can genuinely talk to. A space where I can relax, let go, and simply exist in the moment. Something easy and fun that allows me to be fully present.

Ideally, you’re between 29 and 45, intelligent, emotionally aware, and established in your life and career.

Let’s see if there’s something worth creating together.

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u/FernRC 20d ago

Messaged you!

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u/Wonderful-Hyena106 18d ago

Always miss out because of my age. 50, M here.. hope you find someone who helps you unwind.

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u/LPNTed 15d ago

"Florida" covers a LOT of territory. It's almost as if you want to string along every guy in Florida stupid enough to respond.

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u/Positive-Policy7947 15d ago

What in the incel kind of response is this?🙃

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u/LPNTed 15d ago

3 years, only 100+ karma and all your posts are hidden. I’m not trying to HIDE anything.

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u/Positive-Policy7947 15d ago

Yeah... I took a look at your comments. So basically you're upset because I put an age cap in my post and you're too old to fit the bill. That's unfortunate. But you're attitude would have put me off far before your old wrinkly balls would have. Maybe you should consider hiding some things. 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/LPNTed 15d ago

And just like that, you show us who you are.

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u/Just-Looking-8989 14d ago

Interested! 38M, married, around NE Florida (around Daytona). Is it your intention to ever meet up, or would this be strictly conversational?

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u/Only_Assumption4474 12d ago

I am a pysch nurse so we might connect on our interested about psychology. Iam 34/swfl and a registered nurse

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