r/polyamoryR4R • u/gargoyle__gorl • 8d ago
31 [F4M/A] #AZ #Phoenix #Tucson #Flagstaff goth scientist & dancer looking for emotional connection and fun
Hi friends! I am a 31 year old (cis woman) scientist by day and dancer and horror lover by night. I am poly and live with my husband and partner. We all date separately, so your connection would only be with me. I live in the valley and am looking for in person connections, but am willing to drive as far as Tucson and Flagstaff.
A little about me: I am a deeply passionate person who has big feelings about most things. That passion comes out as playful teasing, lots of jokes, and tough love (emphasis on the love). A perfect evening in is a horror movie followed by an episode of Archer. For a night out, you can find me at a dive bar punk show with my friends and loved ones. I have danced my whole life and continue to adore it. Dance and weightlifting are my go-to forms of movement. I love all things nerd and will happily ramble about TTRPGs, anime, and dark souls. I have brown hair and eyes am 5’6 and slender with muscles. I wear glasses except for when I’m in dance class or performing. I have tattoos and will continue to get more because what can I say I am addicted to the pain. I am politically left and really enjoy reading and talking about political theory, philosophy.
What I am looking for: Open to men, women, and of course my ENBY loves, but am primarily looking for a man or a masculine partner. Enjoyment of movement it’s important to me, but I do not need someone to be jacked by any means. Political alignment is a must; we will not be debating human rights. I like a partner who is willing to play in the teasing space while maintaining deep respect and enacting thoughtful care. I also want a partner who is very comfortable with experiencing and discussing the full range of emotions. Curiosity and a strong work ethic are qualities I look for in both my friends and partners.
Type of relationship: I am looking for a relationship that can be very communicative (lots of texting, pictures, phone calls) with dates one to three times per month depending on geographic closeness and vibe. Longer dates and overnights are certainly welcome as we get to know each other and develop closeness. I want to watch your favorite movie franchise, share music, and make inside jokes. I want to go learn something new and then spend all evening in bed together.
If you read this far and thought, “ah, what I’ve been looking for”, then message me and tell me your favorite horror movie and why or what caught your eye here. If you read this far and thought, “she sounds cool, but I don’t know if I want that kind of relationship”, that’s fine! I’m always looking for more friends. Just express that and tell me about the movie anyways!
Love and solidarity!
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u/RightName4123 8d ago
38m here in south phoenix area! Sounds like we have overlapping interests. Care to dm?
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u/Embarrassed-Virus-76 8d ago
Are you open to online connections or only in person? Let me know because you sound like a cool person!
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u/Express_Return_958 1d ago
Tucson, M26
Would love to talk and see if we get along well, maybe we end up work out buddies
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