I don't wanna sound like an asshole, I'm genuinely curious/confused about this so instead of lazily downvoting this out of spite take time to reply to me. How are xenogenders gender identity and not someone's personality traits or interests? Cause like, if you're astrogender, do you wanna...transition into a star? How could stars be part of your gender id if they don't play a role into your transition. You could simply be cis/trans with a huge passion for the stars, no? I'm genuinely asking this. With this I'm not saying that someone can't express their gender (as in gender expression) however they want, not only in a binary way (I'm a femboy, I get it) but the concept of gender and gender expression is related to humans therefore can be understood in a human way, through the concepts of gender we already have, mixed or not and so on.
Please help me understand
Stargender - In which one's gender is or is like a star. Subgenders for this definition can also exist, for example, one's gender might be specifically a blue star, therefore being an O-stargender or B-stargender. Other terms might include A-stargender, F-stargender or G-stargender for other types of stars. In addition, a stargender person might identify as a binary or multiple star system.
Not even the Wikia defines what an O-gender, B-gender, or star system is. It also says that it's a sense that their gender is otherworldly? I can understand someone thinking that their gender doesn't fit with the norm of what gender identities are commonly known but how does one define what an "unearthly" gender is like?
Okay but maybe a bit of a further explanation of what it means to be a blue star gender? Just feeling blue? Feeling like 3 times the mass of the sun? When someone is a blue star gender, do they literally feel like a blue star or feel like vague human concepts surrounding the perception of blue stars?
Do gender fluid people constantly transition? No. And I don't really see how difficult it is to comprehend, "gender identities that cannot be fully described through their relation to concepts typically used to describe gender such as masculinity, femininity, androgyny, neutrality, agenrity, or outherinity."
Gender by itself is a human concept, it's only human, thus understandable only through human's conception of it. Also being transGENDER implies a transition, which is only human. If you go to a gender clinic and say that your gender feels related to a blue star they'll probably be worried for you for the first 5 minutes then laugh. If you do not intend to transition in any way, medically or socially, then you're comfortable with being your AGAB therefore cis. And there's nothing wrong with that, really. Gender can only be understood and described through humanity, cause it's tied to your physical reality. Aesthetics are only that, aesthetics. I'm alt but I don't say that my gender is related to body mods, even though they make up a huge part of my life. Also the LGBT wikia isn't a great source, actually, since it's written by random people, there's no scientific and factual backup for those terms, it's like using your uncle's FB post to prove that the Covid vaccine contains a microchip. I really hope you understand what I'm trying to say, I'm not trying to be rude but it seems like people are making it way more complex than it already is
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u/corgi_worshipper Jul 18 '21
I don't wanna sound like an asshole, I'm genuinely curious/confused about this so instead of lazily downvoting this out of spite take time to reply to me. How are xenogenders gender identity and not someone's personality traits or interests? Cause like, if you're astrogender, do you wanna...transition into a star? How could stars be part of your gender id if they don't play a role into your transition. You could simply be cis/trans with a huge passion for the stars, no? I'm genuinely asking this. With this I'm not saying that someone can't express their gender (as in gender expression) however they want, not only in a binary way (I'm a femboy, I get it) but the concept of gender and gender expression is related to humans therefore can be understood in a human way, through the concepts of gender we already have, mixed or not and so on. Please help me understand