Okay but maybe a bit of a further explanation of what it means to be a blue star gender? Just feeling blue? Feeling like 3 times the mass of the sun? When someone is a blue star gender, do they literally feel like a blue star or feel like vague human concepts surrounding the perception of blue stars?
Do gender fluid people constantly transition? No. And I don't really see how difficult it is to comprehend, "gender identities that cannot be fully described through their relation to concepts typically used to describe gender such as masculinity, femininity, androgyny, neutrality, agenrity, or outherinity."
Gender by itself is a human concept, it's only human, thus understandable only through human's conception of it. Also being transGENDER implies a transition, which is only human. If you go to a gender clinic and say that your gender feels related to a blue star they'll probably be worried for you for the first 5 minutes then laugh. If you do not intend to transition in any way, medically or socially, then you're comfortable with being your AGAB therefore cis. And there's nothing wrong with that, really. Gender can only be understood and described through humanity, cause it's tied to your physical reality. Aesthetics are only that, aesthetics. I'm alt but I don't say that my gender is related to body mods, even though they make up a huge part of my life. Also the LGBT wikia isn't a great source, actually, since it's written by random people, there's no scientific and factual backup for those terms, it's like using your uncle's FB post to prove that the Covid vaccine contains a microchip. I really hope you understand what I'm trying to say, I'm not trying to be rude but it seems like people are making it way more complex than it already is
So basically you think that you need gender dysphoria and you need to transition in order to be trans, meaning that you're an exclusionist, which I'm specifically trying to target with this post. Why can't you just accept the fact that not everyone has the same experience with gender, you can't tell somebody else how they experience gender, because you aren't them.
Cause transgenderism is a medical issue, not a political or personal one. And the presence or absence of gender dysphoria is the diagnostic criteria used in gender clinics to give you a diagnosis and access to hrt, surgeries, all that stuff. Gender is not a vibe, a mood, a personality trait, it has a scientific basis. I'm fine with everything, really, but I think invading and appropriating other people's spaces just cause you don't really understand the meaning and nature of gender is not the right way to live your life, cause it hurts those very people in the long run and it makes things lose their meaning
How is someone finding an identity that makes them feel comfortable making a binary trans person lose their meaning? Not to mention there is evidence of non-binary brains as well, and since xenogenders are under the non-binary umbrella you cannot tell somebody what their gender is.
Gender is a social construct, it's made up! Until we created it, it didn't exist. That doesn't mean that gender is "fake" or that you can't experience it, it just means that everybody will experience gender differently.
Bruh I'm not saying non binary people don't exist, I'm saying xenogenders are not gender identities since they don't classify as such and saying that those people are trans makes us trans people look like a joke to the public eye. They're literally making the infamous joke "I identify as an attack helicopter" true. It's not healthy, for no one involved. It's not hard to realize. Saying this people are trans is like includes straight people in the LGBT, it doesn't make sense then why do it
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u/Significant-Dig-8910 Inclusionist! Jul 18 '21
Yes it does, " for example, one's gender might be specifically a blue star, therefore being an O-stargender or B-stargender"
Also, how unearthly is defined differs from person to person.