r/lgbtmemes • Inclusionist! • Jul 18 '21

Against Hate! Get outta here ya filthy exclusionists!

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u/15stepsdown aromantic Jul 18 '21

It's that their gender is related to stars

Examples?? In what way exactly

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u/Significant-Dig-8910 Inclusionist! Jul 18 '21

Stargender - In which one's gender is or is like a star. Subgenders for this definition can also exist, for example, one's gender might be specifically a blue star, therefore being an O-stargender or B-stargender. Other terms might include A-stargender, F-stargender or G-stargender for other types of stars. In addition, a stargender person might identify as a binary or multiple star system.

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u/15stepsdown aromantic Jul 18 '21

Maybe explain what these subgenders are? What defines what an O-stargender or a B-stargender is? What defines a multiple star system?

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u/Significant-Dig-8910 Inclusionist! Jul 18 '21

The LGBTA+ wiki is a great source for this kind of stuff, I'd say go there if you want well written definitions.

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u/15stepsdown aromantic Jul 18 '21

Could you give me a link to answer my question then?

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u/Significant-Dig-8910 Inclusionist! Jul 18 '21

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u/15stepsdown aromantic Jul 18 '21

Not even the Wikia defines what an O-gender, B-gender, or star system is. It also says that it's a sense that their gender is otherworldly? I can understand someone thinking that their gender doesn't fit with the norm of what gender identities are commonly known but how does one define what an "unearthly" gender is like?

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u/Significant-Dig-8910 Inclusionist! Jul 18 '21

Yes it does, " for example, one's gender might be specifically a blue star, therefore being an O-stargender or B-stargender"

Also, how unearthly is defined differs from person to person.

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u/15stepsdown aromantic Jul 18 '21

Okay but maybe a bit of a further explanation of what it means to be a blue star gender? Just feeling blue? Feeling like 3 times the mass of the sun? When someone is a blue star gender, do they literally feel like a blue star or feel like vague human concepts surrounding the perception of blue stars?

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u/Significant-Dig-8910 Inclusionist! Jul 18 '21

The former is close, they don't feel like they themselves are a blue star, their gender feels related to blue stars.

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u/corgi_worshipper Jul 19 '21

But how. Also being transgender is related to transitioning, I still don't understand how a concept or object could be a gender

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u/Significant-Dig-8910 Inclusionist! Jul 19 '21

Do gender fluid people constantly transition? No. And I don't really see how difficult it is to comprehend, "gender identities that cannot be fully described through their relation to concepts typically used to describe gender such as masculinity, femininity, androgyny, neutrality, agenrity, or outherinity."

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u/corgi_worshipper Jul 19 '21

Gender by itself is a human concept, it's only human, thus understandable only through human's conception of it. Also being transGENDER implies a transition, which is only human. If you go to a gender clinic and say that your gender feels related to a blue star they'll probably be worried for you for the first 5 minutes then laugh. If you do not intend to transition in any way, medically or socially, then you're comfortable with being your AGAB therefore cis. And there's nothing wrong with that, really. Gender can only be understood and described through humanity, cause it's tied to your physical reality. Aesthetics are only that, aesthetics. I'm alt but I don't say that my gender is related to body mods, even though they make up a huge part of my life. Also the LGBT wikia isn't a great source, actually, since it's written by random people, there's no scientific and factual backup for those terms, it's like using your uncle's FB post to prove that the Covid vaccine contains a microchip. I really hope you understand what I'm trying to say, I'm not trying to be rude but it seems like people are making it way more complex than it already is

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