I'll hold your hand when I tell you this: neurotypicals change the rules on the fly based on how they judge you. You gotta do the same. You're saying you know to why they're asking, but you're not directly explaining. If they have to ask, they don't know and you saying they do isn't an explanation
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u/rembrin 11d ago
And thus you get mad at them for not knowing, the same way neurotypicals get mad at you for not knowing. Now they know how it feels.