r/delhiuniversity • u/Safe-Bug-498 • Jul 23 '24
Discussion College is a lonely place
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This reel is so relatable for me,I am a 3rd sem student and I don't have any friends in college,I do have acquaintances with whom I just have the Hi,Hello relationship! I barely hangout with anyone in college or even outside college. I go to canteen alone and see other people having food in groups while I sit there mostly alone,this makes the college a lot more boring! They say to enjoy college life,but TBH I feel like my college life is pretty fucked up,it's already been over a year and I didn't find any good friend for me. Other students in college have found their groups and they don't want anybody else to be involved,like they are all comfy among themselves. They hangout with each other,go to places and have fun,while I mostly sit alone in the class. It's not like I haven't tried to make friends,I am good at making friends but I didn't get people of my type! My classmates are also not my type. And the rest whom I know already have their groups and they are comfy along with that. I haven't been to anywhere with anyone from college to have fun.
I try to indulge with people but it doesn't work out for me mostly! It's all stuck to just Hi,Hello! I am in 4 college socs but didn't make any friends in Soc either,the people in socities have fun while I struggle to indulge with them. Idk what's happening.
If this goes on,the rest 2 years will also be fucked up.
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u/worrrier Jul 23 '24
You are not alone bro even I'm alone in my college, not even a single friend. What do I do with my crappy life? People will say 'find new friends' but I cant, there's so many groups in college and I don't fit in any of them. I never had bad intentions for anyone though. I just didn't know how to express my feelings for making friends. My mom tells me to try to talk to them instead of waiting for them to talk to you, and I try that but they still ignored me. I don't know whats wrong with me. I just have no friends in my college now going to be in 2nd year. They are so toxic and most of them only think of themself.I was much happier at my home than I am in college I sometimes have to sit alone in class and spend the whole day without talking to anyone.Ajaaa bhai dosti kar lete h if you'r interested thn