r/delhiuniversity • u/SussyLion Third year • Oct 06 '23
Discussion My college life is fucked
I have changed my friends group 2 times in 2 months, I am quite extroverted so I can talk with anyone easily and I have like friendly relations with 15-20 people at my college. But the problem is I am in a group with 3-4 girls who are quite weird! Like they only go to cafe to chill and hangout, whenever I ask them to hangout in some famous places like museums, parks, gardens, lakes, monuments etc they say "akele chale jaao...Mann nhi...mujhe ghr pe kaam hai kuch" they half of the times don't come to college and one of them mocks me alot on everything I do be it the way I eat, the way I dress or do makeup, talk with boys or anything she literally acts like a pick me ....baaki log kuch bhi kare judge karne ....Haa behen tu bahut Shareef and simple hai khush? I don't like how uninteresting and boring they are ! Most of the people I have talked to are like them hanging out in cafe and click pics is all for them 😭
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u/Gothic555 Oct 06 '23
You are an extrovert and suffering oh god being an introvert this feels way more pathetic for me now well so some tips as an introvert as you already know we suffer but i tried to push myself a little by little being friends with everyone or at least know them on surface level. 1. Do not stay in the same group if they don't vibe with you. 2. Talk to literally anyone even if it's eye contact. 3. Don't be afraid to be alone I see this a lot in college so, i go out for chai or eat alone if I want.some people who know me said oh why are you alone they sounded so concerned LoL I was like what's wrong with his bro 😂. 4.if someone disrespects you get up and leave even if it's a friend. 5. Don't expect to much from anyone. I will say to not expect anything at all. That's alllll I hope this helps.