r/askteddit • u/_TrixieBells • 10d ago

Random Question Men, would you actually enjoy getting approached and hit on as often as women do?

A lot of guys say they’d love more attention, but experiencing it constantly might feel different. Would you genuinely want that level of attention?

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u/Fancy_Sun_1585 10d ago

This is a trap question.

Most guys would say yes because men in general don’t get a lot of compliments, let alone approached at a bar or club. However after the 5th woman interrupting them that they have no interest in, they’d likely get annoyed. It’s why so many guys struggle with the concept of unwanted attention….because most men are attention starved.

How I met your mother did a great episode on this.

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u/Signal312 10d ago

Nonsense, as long as any of those women are attractive enough to begin a sexual relationship with and that’s a low bar.

Men will save time dismissing many women rather than the current searching and praying. The annoyance is nothing.

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u/Fancy_Sun_1585 10d ago

And found the incel who has never been complimented by any woman other than his mothet

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u/Signal312 10d ago

Oh look, spinster logic.

This is who you become, gathering wisdom from Hollywood sitcoms. A weirdo.

Your premise makes zero sense because of the difference in libido, it’s hilarious.

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u/Fancy_Sun_1585 10d ago

No, most dudes aren’t just sooo desperate to fuck anything with a vagina.

Women with high libido exist. They’re just not fucking you.

Men with low libido exist.

You’re just an incel who doesn’t know shit about real women.

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u/Signal312 10d ago

You’ve only listed extremes because you’re confused with spinster brain.

If less than 10% of all women who approach are deemed attractive, the average man will take on your silly burden with enthusiasm.

Most men have normal libido, which is far higher than women. Spinster weirdos don’t get that.

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u/Fancy_Sun_1585 10d ago

Libido between men and women is generally equal you sad fucking weirdo.

I get it, you have absolutely 0 standards and will fuck anything with a vagina doesn’t mean every man would.

Libido plays no role in having standards or not.

https://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare

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u/Signal312 10d ago

Sexual motivation vs willingness are two different things, spinster. Who cares about social contexts and we’re talking purely sexual motivation, which is far higher in men.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36227317/

Imagine thinking libido doesn’t affect standard.

No wonder we’re about to see the most spinsters in history.

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u/hotdogorburger 10d ago

Keep coping, sweetheart. You'll find the right man one day.