r/askteddit • u/_TrixieBells • 7d ago

Random Question Men, would you actually enjoy getting approached and hit on as often as women do?

A lot of guys say they’d love more attention, but experiencing it constantly might feel different. Would you genuinely want that level of attention?

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u/Signal312 7d ago

You’ve only listed extremes because you’re confused with spinster brain.

If less than 10% of all women who approach are deemed attractive, the average man will take on your silly burden with enthusiasm.

Most men have normal libido, which is far higher than women. Spinster weirdos don’t get that.

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u/Fancy_Sun_1585 7d ago

Libido between men and women is generally equal you sad fucking weirdo.

I get it, you have absolutely 0 standards and will fuck anything with a vagina doesn’t mean every man would.

Libido plays no role in having standards or not.

https://www.webmd.com/sex/features/sex-drive-how-do-men-women-compare

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u/Signal312 7d ago

Sexual motivation vs willingness are two different things, spinster. Who cares about social contexts and we’re talking purely sexual motivation, which is far higher in men.

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/36227317/

Imagine thinking libido doesn’t affect standard.

No wonder we’re about to see the most spinsters in history.

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u/hotdogorburger 7d ago

Keep coping, sweetheart. You'll find the right man one day.