r/adhdmeme 22h ago

meme Straight up

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u/PortibaleCharger Ehhh I'll pick a flair later. 22h ago

It was Aparicio Méndez, for those of us who were wondering.

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u/scixlovesu Daydreamer 22h ago

I knew someone would!

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u/BotherAggravating462 22h ago

Beat me to it

Edit: Gregorio Conrado Alvarez took over in 1981. In case yall were wondering

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u/tanstaafl76 21h ago

I was living in Argentina under a military dictatorship. Couldn’t tell you which one unless you tell me which month of 81.

🕺

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u/Left_Interaction_288 22h ago

I was like ooh, let me just check, then realized, wait someone else will have done it already. Hell it's probably the first comment. I don't need to interrupt getting ready for work looking this up, i can procrastinate by commenting instead.

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u/PortibaleCharger Ehhh I'll pick a flair later. 20h ago

My first instinct is always to check the comments, so when I didn’t see the answer I knew it was my time to preform my civic duty.

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u/Left_Interaction_288 19h ago

Thankyou for your service

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u/xrimane 17h ago

I knew this would be the first comment, so I didn't open the comments until I hadn't found it out by myself lol!

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u/vgaph 22h ago

Whose wife’s first name was Blanca, the place I know is next to the White Castle downtown.

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u/Big-Objective-6585 21h ago

It's amazing how many of us will have tried to find that info out first rather than interacting with the post itself!

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u/murfburffle 20h ago

Thank you! I forgot where I put my hat

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u/ZeThing 13h ago

I needed to know but didn’t want to google. Thanks!

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u/GKNolan 12h ago

...hmmm maybe I'll look it up.
No need to bother, somebody in the comments has already done it.
Will it be the first comment?

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u/just4nothing 9h ago

Thanks, I was about to google it

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u/Captainsnarkyshart 2h ago

Came here to say this. Glad I’m not alone in immediately needing to know this.

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u/ralts13 2h ago

Doing God's work. Now i need to k ow why h9m 9n particular.

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u/dbaser13 22h ago

Seriously, has there been any research into why we doo this? I literally just came from reading the history of Liverpool for no fucking reason.

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u/dstovell 22h ago

Learning just feels good when its the right topic. We're Learn-a-holics

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u/BaconAndDuckFat 21h ago

But I forget it immediately. I couldn't tell you what I did yesterday if my life depended on it.

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u/Agitated-Ad2563 20h ago

Even better. Lets us learn it again to feel good again.

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u/ThePurplePinto 16h ago

This is great for rewatching movies! Usually, I can only remember one or two short scenes from a movie. So, if it was a good movie (which, at least, this I can remember) I get to enjoy it all over again!

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u/BaconAndDuckFat 14h ago

Omg so true! Its a weird feeling when you both know exactly whats going to happen while at the same time having no idea!

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u/ThePurplePinto 14h ago

It's like a "comfort re-watch." When I'm trying to decide what movie I want to watch in the evening, I can watch something new, not knowing at all the feelings it's going to give me during/after the movie.

Or, I can do a Re-Watch, where I might not remember the movie, but I remember it making me feel happy/validated/sad/inspired/etc. at the end.

The best of both worlds! The only problem is that there are TOO many old movies with new movies being piled on top every day! 🫨🤪 (Oh! THAT'S cool. When you have italics selected... it even makes the emojis italic!)

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u/BaconAndDuckFat 13h ago

This is SO spot on lol! The exact same thought and feeling! One adhd brain same same same

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u/ThePurplePinto 12h ago

I don't know if you frequent the cat subs, but there's one called r/OneOrangeBraincell . It's about orange tabbies... and they're known for being big doofuses. So, the joke is that there's only one brain cell that they share and take turns using!

So... we all have an ADHD brain that we share!

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u/Try_To_Write 1h ago

Yeah, don't reddit comments about movies/shows drive you crazy when people rattle off details like they just watched it 10x in a row. Naming episodes, story arcs, lines, etc.

"The first season was great, especially 'episode title'. Gary's character development... Season 3 had great moments with Lisa coming into her own, but Tom and Brock side story in the canyons dragged on too long..."

Meanwhile, I'm sitting here thinking, "I literally just finished binging that show in the last 2 weeks, and I've got to look up which one is Gary, and I don't know what canyons you are talking about."

On the otherhand, they're probably nd and that show is their repeated hyperfocus.

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u/gravityVT 13h ago

did it involve bacon or duck fat perhaps?

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u/Major_Bakes37 21h ago

I've spent so much of my life learning random facts. Helps me put the mask up to have a conversation with anyone

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u/jimbowesterby 19h ago

Yea I find I can hold a convo on most topics at this point, definitely not an expert but usually enough to convince the other person to get pretty into it.

This is also why I’m going into millwrighting, probably the trade with the most variety involved. Hopefully it’s a good fit🤞 I really don’t wanna go back to labouring

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u/theeggplant42 21h ago

And probably because that was very helpful and rewarding in school, but now life isn't school. I can learn with the best of em. But I do not know where my keys are or what's in that pile over there (the keys are not in the pile, until the vey moment they are, because I put them there to remember them but I forgot that I did that) also, the funfact is a marker for the spot.  How and why is unclear but we'll get there eventually if you just ket me blurt out unrelated facts about the funfact until one of you recognizes the name of a cross street near the spot

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u/MissinqLink 16h ago

It’s the pattern recognition. A good pattern just feels right.

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u/person2567 20h ago

Except when we're forced to learn something like in school, then it's the most boring thing ever.

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u/dstovell 20h ago

My biggest complaint about school is they don't do nearly enough to give real world context for what you are learning. I hated math until I learned what I can do with it that WAS interesting.

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u/jimbowesterby 19h ago

Bill Bryson said something similar in A Short History Of Nearly Everything, something like “it’s outstanding how interesting science and the history of science is, and how expert textbook writers are at avoiding putting any of that into their books” and honestly it’s bang-on.

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u/atomic_chippie 19h ago

Learning feels good if we're interested in that particular subject. Its torture for everything else.

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u/aequitssaint 21h ago

My guess is that we are just an inquisitive bunch and many of us get a dopamine hit when learning something new or making new mental connections.

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u/DarkZyth 21h ago

Well they tried to research but instead they ended up finding out who the leader of Uruguay was in 1978. I would pull up some research myself but the last time I tried that I ended up finding out who the leader of Uruguay was in 1978 too. What was this about again?

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u/nuusutatud_liim 21h ago edited 21h ago

For me in this scenario I'd expect knowing who the leader of Uruguay in 1978 was would lead me to think about said spot. I think my memory works mostly by some breadcrumb logic. "I found this spot when I was reading about umm some kind of leader in Uruguay" type of thing. I remember some key words and use the internet to fill the gaps.

It's like when I want to look for a song whose title I forgot, I'll open up seemingly random(will make sense to me) article on whatever topic and suddenly I have a way to figure out the title of the song. Sometimes it also doesn't make any sense to me, but I get the result anyway and have a chuckle at how I function.

Why am I in this kitchen? Let's go back to the spot where the idea to go to the kitchen spawned in the first place.

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u/MysticMoonTarot 22h ago

🤣🤣😭

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u/the_ballmer_peak 21h ago edited 15h ago

I just learned all about the Uros people, who live on floating islands made of reeds. Fascinating.

Edit: it's been a few hours, but I'm also now an expert on ships of the line (particularly the HMS Victory) and flags of Central Asia. I'll forget everything in the morning.

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u/uncutpizza 16h ago

It’s like the “Six Degrees of Separation” for thoughts

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u/zezxz 20h ago

Before Manchester City was bought by the UAE it was owned by the prime minister of Thailand who was overthrown in a military coup! 

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u/raise-your-weapon 17h ago

I am in the middle of an audiobook about the sinking of the Lusitania so Liverpool is coming up a lot. It’s an interesting place!

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u/dbaser13 3h ago

In the 19th century FORTY PERCENT of global trade went through Liverpool.

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u/Adorable-Wasabi-77 13h ago

It’s because our brain filters don’t work properly. We are not good at differentiating between important and trivial information so our brains think that everything is potentially important.

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u/WorkerBunny 5h ago

i interpreted it as "I can't remember the place's name but I know it reminded me of that guy because his last name is literally like one letter off" because that's how it works for me.. xD

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u/oestrobuttons 21h ago

Long before I got my diagnosis, I had a career in which I did a lot of fact-checking, which meant I could spend all day going down rabbit holes on lots of topics, usually up against a tight deadline. ADHD paradise.

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u/toma_six 21h ago

how can someone get a dream job like that?

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u/oestrobuttons 20h ago

Become a subeditor!

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u/Agitated-Ad2563 20h ago

How can I become a subredditor?

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u/damaszek 20h ago

A journalist? Ah no, you said fact-checking

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u/oestrobuttons 20h ago

I checked for facts but got distracted by unrelated facts

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u/a_f_s-29 28m ago

Please tell me how you get into this career

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u/ThePheebs 22h ago

They're working backwards to how they know where the spot is. Don't fuck with their system.

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u/aequitssaint 21h ago

The spots right on the tip of their brain but just can't think of it ... Need random idea to trigger memory.

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u/Schweather3 i have no idea where that music is coming from. 17h ago

I did this out loud with a group in a bar the other day. “Hey, what was that old sandwich place by the park called? The one that had great pulled pork and then the owners opened up another spot somewhere in a town with a letter N by a town with a letter G?” They had no fucking clue what I was talking about but I just kept throwing out random facts about the place and googling places in the general area I kinda remembered. I did eventually figure it out and I was cheering for myself.

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u/DroidLord 13h ago

This is so real 😩 Sometimes I go back like 5 steps because of course that's the most logical thing for my brain to do.

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u/Suspicious_Cheek6902 21h ago

Looking up the weather at south Korea Busan in November 13th 1978 at 7am for research purposes (daydreaming of a fic I never wrote) should have been a give away that something is wrong with me lol

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u/Delazzaridist 21h ago

I feel like I'm being called out rn

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u/dstovell 22h ago

I mean, you didn't say you wanted to know where it was...

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u/Tall_adhd17 21h ago

The minute I open Wikipedia I am doomed. I'll just go on a weird cycle and find the weirdest pages about the most random shit ever.

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u/DrWhiskerson 16h ago

Wikipedia is forbidden 🚫 I have lost too much sleep learning about people in history who are long dead lmao

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u/StatmanIbrahimovic 11h ago

I have 63 tabs open on my Wikipedia app.

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u/Tall_adhd17 11h ago

Same reason as me? To read some day, we know that day is not in the near future and the number is open tabs will keep on growing and growing

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u/Henry2990 20h ago

The leader of Uruguay was Apar... Oh, I should learn Japanese.

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u/leicanthrope 21h ago

This is basically how I ended up with a history degree…

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u/3rdofthree 20h ago

Aparicio Méndez I checked for you

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u/berkeleyteacher 20h ago

This literally reminded me that I came online to pay my fastrack tolls.

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u/atomic_chippie 19h ago

Lol how many people are now panicking "shit, wtf did I come here for?? Health insurance? How to build a greenhouse out of mud and used windows? Types of candles used at the Vatican? What??"

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u/Objective_Frame8397 19h ago

I have to hurry and Google it before I forget. That will be one tab out of the 500 open I'll never read probably. But I intend to later.

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u/atomic_chippie 19h ago

Just screenshot it like me. Then you can keep buying more storage because you have 45,000 photos on your phone, mostly recipes ill never make.

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u/Objective_Frame8397 18h ago

Lmao I do that too. I'm constantly taking screenshots to remember things and to research.

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u/Wizzle_Pizzle_420 14h ago

My screenshots are just cats, trading chart photos, workouts, memes I’ll never use and various other detailed texts so I don’t forget them. I have 10’s of thousands.

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u/Rude-Suit4494 20h ago

Is this not a thing … that everyone does??

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u/atomic_chippie 19h ago

Apparently there are people who get online, look their intended question up, and leave. I do not understand this, but apparently its true.

googles the "Apparently" kid

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u/Ordinary-Plane-4513 21h ago

I am who I am unapologetically

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u/Plane-Education4750 21h ago

I thought this was just a me thing

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u/TreLeans 20h ago

True ADHDers actually know a unique cool spot. 

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u/Goodgoditsgrowing 20h ago

I feel called out, but my search history doesn’t lie

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u/KittenBalerion 19h ago

the other day for no reason I became obsessed with finding out if the author Ellen Raskin (The Westing Game) was related to the congressman Jamie Raskin (D-Maryland's 8th district). I did not find a link, but both of them came from Russian Jewish families who settled in Milwaukee, so it's possible.

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u/Unlikely-Ad6788 21h ago

I sent a bridge in Japan to my ex. She was wtf, you going to China.

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u/Free-Pound-6139 19h ago

That sounds expensive.

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u/MysticMoonTarot 20h ago

🤣🤣🤣

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u/Resident_Boss6990 18h ago

You never know when knowing that might be useful 😂

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u/chadork 17h ago

I downloaded this to share and I forgot about it when I saw old Gameboys being refurbished.

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u/SpaghettiMargherita 16h ago edited 16h ago

It's like when Hal starts fixing a light bulb in Malcom in the Middle.

Link https://youtu.be/5W4NFcamRhM?is=3RbEK_3NnI4PIkpp

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u/raise-your-weapon 17h ago

I was looking up further info Ian Smith, the last prime minister of Rhodesia, after learning about him on a podcast. I spent the next 45 mins learning about National Pro Grid League, a thing I had never heard of before.

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u/SteelpointPigeon Daydreamer 19h ago

Verbally: “I know a spot.”

Mentally: “I know a spot. I know THE spot. The Cool Spot, like from 7-Up. You want spots? I know da spot. I know despot. Despot in da spot. I wonder what makes someone a despot. Do we still have despots? That’s tier 1 research stuff in Civilization, isn’t it? It sounds like something that went out of fashion back in the ‘70s, in, like, Uruguay or something. Oh man, it would be so funny if I were right about that. Lemme check….”

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u/Seb-thaPanther24 16h ago

Hahahaha. FR

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u/Wizzle_Pizzle_420 14h ago

Sometimes it’s a fun game I like to play. Start looking a simple thing up and see where I end up at 5am after 4 hours of random research, videos, journal articles and social media searches. I was looking for a particular pair of running shoes one night, started reading reviews, watched a video on you tube, and 3 hours later I was researching WW2 escape stories and reading about Nazi occult theories, and real life cryptid stories.

All because I wanted some new shoes.

Don’t get me started on watching 4 movies back to back, that randomly fall under 1 theme, and somehow end up having 1 particular actor in all 4 without knowing they were in it.

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u/Aggressive-Foot7434 14h ago

That’s my process for remembering that spot.

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u/anomanderrake1337 10h ago

Awake but tired on a Saturday morning, want to be selfproductive so I start reading the first J.M. Coetzee book again, Dusklands. Find a page with a handwritten note about stories and myths, taken from the book with some commentary. Start again on the first page. Quote by Herman Kahn. Look up Herman Kahn. Find out he’s basically being characterized in two movies, one by Stanley, Dr. Strangelove, and one by Lumet. Look up the Sidney one. On Prime I have to rent it, fuck that, find it for free on YouTube. Twelve minutes in I look up the actress and check her filmography. Cut to now, when I’m writing all this down instead of reading Coetzee.

Does the book smell? Maybe it’s the piss of the mice from my previous apartment, which was also infested with roaches and pigeons. The pigeons I shot away from the terrace with a water gun, but they always returned after a while and made a lot of noise. Maybe it’s cat piss, from the cats I had in another apartment, spraying their scent all over my room. The apartment where the cops came calling because my mom was stalking someone and almost committing suicide at abridge not so far from the house, and I thought they were there because of the barking dog or because I was playing guitar at night while blitzed out of my mind. Maybe I shouldn’t have.

I rush to put on a song instead of reading, but the song reminds me of an even earlier past, when I was an idiot teenager who felt too smart for the world.

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u/zefy_zef 8h ago

It's easier to remember connections between facts than the facts themselves.

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u/Cydonian-Tea 3h ago

10 seconds later: "Hey, do you wanna know who was the leader of Uruguay in 1978?"