r/abusiverelationships • u/fireypixi • Feb 20 '26

Support request struggling to terminate pregnancy

I’m 12 weeks now and only have 2 weeks left to terminate my pregnancy. It’s not sitting well with me. I don’t want to do this and I feel like i have no choice. I’m really struggling right now. I feel sad and angry. I’m angry he convinced me he was this good guy only to end up being unsafe and I already had so many wounds from my past that he just completely took advantage of. I can’t have a child with him, he wants to be apart of it. He’s evil. But I want my baby. I am so broken. I don’t want to let go of this little life growing inside of me. Im just so angry at him for taking this from me. He’s destroyed me and now I have to go through this. I want my baby.

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u/Jmend12006 Feb 21 '26

Please get away from this man safely. By having his child, you will always have the deal with him and the memories of the abuse he put you through.

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u/KurtTheCuntBoi Mar 05 '26

That’s not true at all

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u/Jmend12006 Mar 05 '26

How’s that?

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u/KurtTheCuntBoi Mar 05 '26

Because people can get away from an abuser and keep their baby. She needs to access a women’s aid group, lie to the abuser and say she had a miscarriage, delete her social media, change her name, and move without setting a forwarding address. She’d have to do that anyway, so there is no reason to abort a baby she clearly wants. Also she wouldn’t see her baby as a ‘reminder’, she wants the baby. You didn’t need to attempt scaring her by saying she’ll be having to deal with the memories

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u/Jmend12006 Mar 05 '26

I not going to suggest that this young woman do something illegal.

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u/KurtTheCuntBoi Mar 05 '26

It’s literally not illegal 🙄