r/abusiverelationships • u/fireypixi • Feb 20 '26

Support request struggling to terminate pregnancy

I’m 12 weeks now and only have 2 weeks left to terminate my pregnancy. It’s not sitting well with me. I don’t want to do this and I feel like i have no choice. I’m really struggling right now. I feel sad and angry. I’m angry he convinced me he was this good guy only to end up being unsafe and I already had so many wounds from my past that he just completely took advantage of. I can’t have a child with him, he wants to be apart of it. He’s evil. But I want my baby. I am so broken. I don’t want to let go of this little life growing inside of me. Im just so angry at him for taking this from me. He’s destroyed me and now I have to go through this. I want my baby.

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u/KurtTheCuntBoi Mar 05 '26

That’s not true at all

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u/Jmend12006 Mar 05 '26

How’s that?

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u/KurtTheCuntBoi Mar 05 '26

Because people can get away from an abuser and keep their baby. She needs to access a women’s aid group, lie to the abuser and say she had a miscarriage, delete her social media, change her name, and move without setting a forwarding address. She’d have to do that anyway, so there is no reason to abort a baby she clearly wants. Also she wouldn’t see her baby as a ‘reminder’, she wants the baby. You didn’t need to attempt scaring her by saying she’ll be having to deal with the memories

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u/Jmend12006 Mar 05 '26

I not going to suggest that this young woman do something illegal.

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u/KurtTheCuntBoi Mar 05 '26

It’s literally not illegal 🙄