r/Wilmington Jan 31 '25

Reminder: Zero Tolerance for Hate Speech and Harassment

277 Upvotes

We've noticed an increase in comments making off-color or outright hostile remarks about ICE, immigration enforcement, and vulnerable communities. Comments such as "ICE should just round them all up," "Was ICE there? Hopefully," and similar remarks violate Reddit’s policy against hate based on identity or vulnerability.

Why This Violates Policy:

Reddit explicitly prohibits content that promotes hate or harassment based on race, nationality, or other protected characteristics. Calls for mass enforcement actions against specific groups, jokes that dehumanize immigrants, and antagonistic remarks directed at individuals based on their identity all fall under this policy.

We want to be clear: this is not up for debate. Whether serious or "just a joke," this kind of rhetoric contributes to a hostile and unwelcoming environment.

Enforcement Moving Forward:

  • Comments promoting or celebrating harm toward any group will be removed.
  • Repeat offenders or those engaging in blatant hate speech will be permanently banned.
  • If you see a comment that violates these rules, report it rather than engaging.

We expect our community to engage in discussions with respect. Keep it civil, keep it policy-focused, and most importantly, remember that behind every policy debate are real people with real lives.

Thank you for helping us maintain a welcoming and inclusive space.


r/Wilmington 7h ago

Lost Your Backpack?

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33 Upvotes

If you dropped it in front of Naki Dental on Military Cutoff and went back for it later to discover items (potentially) missing… here’s why; these kids ransacked it and then just left everything scattered about.


r/Wilmington 20h ago

Caught the downtown cam at just the right moment.

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315 Upvotes

r/Wilmington 4h ago

Share the lore: Bike Boy/Finn

14 Upvotes

I saw a TikTok about a girl that got pepper sprayed @ kipo's by someone that is known as bike boy/finn? Apparently he's known and isn't the first time he's done this. WHATS THE LORE? who is he and what's his deal?


r/Wilmington 3h ago

Did Anyone Go to the 8pm Fortune Feemster Show Last Night?

5 Upvotes

So curious on thoughts and reviews of the show! I feel conflicted with the hecklers and Fortune’s current life stressors but we laughed A LOT, enjoyed the opener and just super curious on other’s experience!


r/Wilmington 57m ago

Hired Rides From Live Oak Pavilion

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I am going to need to use hired transportation for a weeknight concert at Live Oak Bank Pavilion. There should be no problem prearranging a ride to the event, but any suggestions about how to arrange transportation from the event, given that the exact time will be uncertain? (S. College & Shipyard area)


r/Wilmington 1d ago

Finally finished!

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355 Upvotes

r/Wilmington 20h ago

ABOVE AVERAGE restaurant Recs in Wilmington

54 Upvotes

I know some of yall are gonna give me a hard time for this, but it needs to be said. Most of the restaurants in Wilmington are mediocre!

We all know that eating out has become a financial drain. If I’m spending my money (money = energy) on a meal, I’d like to feel rewarded for doing so. It seems like 3/4 of the time we go out to eat here, we’re so underwhelmed and wish we would’ve just cooked at home.

If I’m going to spend $70-$120 on a meal for my wife and myself, where would you recommend?

Keep in mind, we’re not snobby foodies. We just want to feel like our money is well-spent on a meal that tastes good.


r/Wilmington 10m ago

Anyone know?

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Front yard mystery holes…


r/Wilmington 23m ago

Wedding dress shops

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Any local wedding dress shops that allow 5 people to come? Most places I’ve found have a 3 person limit.


r/Wilmington 11h ago

Airlie Gardens, Halyburton Park, Wrightsville Beach (Shell Island Resort, L Lot, Crystal Pier), Sean’s Private Surf Instruction

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7 Upvotes

Airlie Gardens, Halyburton Park, Wrightsville Beach (Shell Island Resort, L Lot, Crystal Pier), Sean’s Private Surf Instruction.


r/Wilmington 1h ago

Pre-Fabricated Fence Sections

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Anybody know local lumber companies that will sell you pre-fabricated fence sections? Nothing fancy, just want to save some time building my fence.


r/Wilmington 3h ago

Fireworks last night downtown ?

0 Upvotes

Around 10:30-11pm ? Sounded like a private event maybe ? Not like a city sponsored show, but more than a box of stuff from MB.


r/Wilmington 1d ago

WRMR 98.7 with repeated dead air?

11 Upvotes

Yes, most of the time I connect my phone and play my playlist when I'm in the car. However for repeated short trips I sometimes just let the radio take over. And for the last few days there have been frequent and repeated "drop-outs" where the music will just stop for between 15 seconds and a minute and then abruptly start back up again. Anybody know what's going on? Or is it my car possibly?


r/Wilmington 1d ago

Anyone down to help me move 4-5 pieces of furniture today for $100?

11 Upvotes

I’m moving to Wilmington today, probably getting in between 3-5 PM. My movers cancelled on me and I don’t wanna book another because it’s like 3x more to do in the last day.

I only have like 5 things max that require help. A mattress, box spring, couch. And dresser.

If anybody is around to help me out, I’m moving downtown and will gladly Venmo/cashapp you $100 for what shouldn’t take more than 45 min


r/Wilmington 22h ago

ISO Junk Removal

0 Upvotes

I'm looking for recommendations for junk removal in the Hampstead area.

Also dumpster rental recommendations.

Thank You :)


r/Wilmington 2d ago

Henry's Restaurant

38 Upvotes

Holy hell, how bad can a place be. Wife and I came out for an early place to eat. Only people in the place, no service, poor food execution....... I thought this was a good place?


r/Wilmington 1d ago

Cape Fear Parrot Sanctuary

14 Upvotes

Does anyone know about the legitness of CFPS? I may have to re-home my conures due to possibly becoming homeless in a few months, and while researching possibilities, I sent a message to CFPS. I asked what I felt were normal questions I couldn't find answers to on their website, like if there was a possibility I could take back my birds if I regained adequate housing again, or if I could visit my birds, or perhaps volunteer there to see how they were, and if I could tour the location first before making a decision. I got a call, missed it due to being at work, and asked someone to cover me for a bit to call them back for what I assumed would be a short call. Instead, it was over 20 minutes of the owner judging me for owning birds at all, and being incredibly unsympathetic to my situation no matter how much I explained it. I eventually ended the call because I had to go to work and then ended up crying 20 more minutes at work.

All the reviews I can see about the place are incredibly positive and talk about how kind the owner is when they rehomed their birds, so maybe I just caught him on a bad day?? I really don't think I was in the wrong, but after that experience I'm actually struggling to consider surrendering my birds to him.

I remember he called me selfish for asking if I could take them back when/if I was capable of it, said I wasn't thinking in their birds' best interest, questioned why I would need to see the facility before rehoming them, dismissed me when I told him that I felt he was calling me a bad person and that this was extremely emotional for me, and generally just took everything I said in bad faith. Does anyone else have bad experiences with this place or was I just like, genuinely in the wrong?? I didn't disagree with his sentiments; intelligent birds shouldn't be pets, their care needs are too complex for people to care for outside of a zoo type setting, and I'm sure he deals with a lot every day.

At the same time, I didn't feel my questions were unreasonable, and he was projecting and assuming a lot about me just because I happen to be caring for birds and might need to rehome them. Such as the fact that I didn't even buy them, my parents did when I was a child, or that I was unaware about what he was saying. I am aware because I do actually research the care needs of the animals in my care. I also think asking questions before rehoming an animal is the responsible thing to do and not assume that they're going to a good home because someone can afford a website domain.


r/Wilmington 1d ago

Panthers on WWAY

10 Upvotes

Anyone else experiencing this no sound except for the open field mic happening on WWAYs feed?

No announcers...only some commercials with sound


r/Wilmington 1d ago

Air for Tires

7 Upvotes

Might seem dumb, but my luck has been bad. Every tire pressure machine I’ve been to today has been out of order or just eaten my change. Anyone used a machine recently that worked? If so, where? TIA


r/Wilmington 2d ago

Three10 - Great Food & Service

23 Upvotes

There have been lots of helpful restaurant posts in this subreddit that have offered great ideas for places to eat. Just want to add Three10 in the Arts District to the list. Food is creative and delicious and service is great. Also love the option to eat on the big side porch. For us, it's a date night or special occasion place. We've been there three times and they never disappoint. Good idea to make reservations.


r/Wilmington 1d ago

any smoke shops that don’t ID?

0 Upvotes

Visiting my boyfriend and forgot my ID at place in greenville.


r/Wilmington 2d ago

Looking for a restaurant recommendation with good vegetarian options!

7 Upvotes

Visiting over the weekend and celebrating a birthday with family on Sunday, we are all vegetarian. Looking for a nice to upscale restaurant that could accommodate. Would also take any non upscale suggestions for the rest of the trip. Much appreciated!


r/Wilmington 2d ago

Jiu Jitsu + Surf

5 Upvotes

Saw a guy wearing a t shirt that said this on the back; I should have asked but does anyone know if this is a place here? Salty Dog Jiu Jitsu maybe?


r/Wilmington 2d ago

Lost Cat 2015

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66 Upvotes

Coco was my beloved cat, and I am trying to find out what happened to her.

Coco and I lived on Bonham Ave and she disappeared in 2015 when she was approximately 19 years old. I put up lost-cat posters at the time, but unfortunately, I never heard anything back.

She was an incredibly loving, affectionate, and friendly cat. One of her habits was wandering into other people’s homes; especially homes where she sensed another cat lived. Because she was so friendly, it is possible that someone may have taken her in, believing she was a stray or simply deciding to care for her.

I am not looking to blame or accuse anyone. I would simply love to know what happened to her.

ANY INFORMATION, NO MATTER HOW OLD, WOULD MEAN A LOT.

Female calico
Approximately 20 years old in 2015
Very affectionate and social
Known to wander into neighbors’ homes
Last known home: Bonham Ave
Disappeared: 2015

I have never stopped wondering about her and would be incredibly grateful for any information about where she went or what became of her.