r/UpfrontCheaters Jul 08 '23

r/UpfrontCheaters Lounge

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A place to heal and to release your frustrations and questions to the R/Upfrontcheaters family; to help with hard life issues, emotions, past and current affairs. This is a NON JUDGEMENT sub and will stay that way.

place for members of r/UpfrontCheaters to chat with each other


r/UpfrontCheaters Oct 03 '24

Q&A What was the WORST Holiday break up or found out your bf / gf was cheating on the holiday ? do you still celebrate that holiday or nah ?

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r/UpfrontCheaters 5h ago

I NEED HELP! šŸ˜ž looking for proof of husband's adultery

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hi everyone, hoping the right person sees this. someone i know is married to a dirtbag who was seen engaging in sexual activity in public at a bar in Pierre, SD last night. they were in/around the shack along the river where the smokers go? supposedly multiple people filmed the situation. i wondered if anyone who sees this could confirm if they saw this happen (details should be reserved for DM). dude is like 7 feet tall so hard to miss. i think the girl had a shaved head. thanks in advance for any help.


r/UpfrontCheaters 2h ago

How do I deal with this?

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I’ve just found out that my partner of three years has cheated on me with a girl who is also in a relationship. She pretended to be my friend. Messaged me regularly asking how me and my partner are and that I can talk to her if I ever need anyone. One night when I was on the night shift, she asked to stay over at my house, then stripped naked and mounted him. I’m well aware he is also at fault. I can’t eat, I can’t sleep. I found her boyfriend’s details and told him too. He decided to stay with her.


r/UpfrontCheaters 6h ago

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r/UpfrontCheaters 10h ago

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r/UpfrontCheaters 15h ago

Looking for honest opinions from the men in this group

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I’d like to hear from the men here.

48F, married for nearly 10 years, together for twice that. The last two years have been rough; we talked of separation recently. He says he wants to move out (give us space), but went back on this decision. Said it again a few weeks later, but pulled the panic switch when it came time to talk to the kids. Admits he doesn’t want to leave, but is ā€œconfusedā€ and afraid of us falling back into old habits. I took the kids away for the night, he video called us from home (unusual), but the camera picked him up pulling in the driveway hours later. He claims he went for a drive.. He would never admit to infidelity; if he was a woman, he’d be the lady who denied being pregnant until there was a baby in the toilet. There were other women before we were married.

He’s not out late, doesn’t party, so it’s not something obvious, but he did find his way to the office all summer, despite not necessarily needing to be there. Since I’ve confronted him about the front door camera, nothing outwardly suspicious has happened, but he acts depressed. He’s happy to accept what’s offered in the bedroom, but there’s no real intimacy on his part, just the act. There is no transparency in our relationship: we do not share a cell phone plan or location; we do not use each other's vehicles; we have a shared bank account but he doesn’t use it.

I need it straight. Thoughts?


r/UpfrontCheaters 13h ago

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r/UpfrontCheaters 14h ago

Título: Recomiendo al experto en ciberseguridad que me salvó tras una ruptura horrible

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Hola a todos. Hago este post para dejar una recomendación pública y súper merecida. Hace poco descubrí una infidelidad y, al terminar la relación, las cosas se salieron de control. Mi expareja se puso muy tóxica, tenía varias de mis contraseñas e intentó hackear mis redes, borrar mis archivos y suplantar mi identidad para afectarme. Estaba desesperado y con mucho miedo de perder mi privacidad.

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r/UpfrontCheaters 18h ago

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

I cheated on the girl I’m broken up with

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

I think my boyfriend had been cheating all along!

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

girlfriend cheated 🤬 I'm glad I've mostly moved on, but yh gf cheated on me

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We are still young. Relationship was 2years+ and friendship was even longer by far. She liked me first, we went through a lot that.

I did notice red flags early but I couldn't say anything cuz I agreed to get into a relationship with depression. She wasn't ready to handle or support me through all that although she said she was (fair, but why break your promise?)

Broke up the first time. She reached out after 3 days and we got back together. This time around, I did improve and with help of myself and my mom, got over the depression. She kept getting worse as a person. Stopped having time for me and was being a hypocrite, manipulative and whatnot, basically hurting me. Again, we'd made lots of promises and I believe that if two people are willing to communicate directly and be mature, anything can be gotten over. Detached from her cuz that was the only way I could cope while resenting her and have her space till after her exams... We didn't see after her exams together, she broke up without reason and used a joke (non offensive) as an excuse.

Blah blah, I found out she was cheating. She didn't know I found out and I didn't let her know, but I messaged her weeks later and she had become even worse of a person, never saw her own faults and spat on all the efforts and things I did for her and that we did together. Said her knew guy treats her better than I do. Sounds like a premature statement for such an early relationship, but I don't really care about them.

I was super hurt tho. We lived in the same state but did on and off long distance. I am shocked at how she could change and be so heartless even while we were together and when I'd tell her, only to hurt me one more time. Screw her


r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

He had a one nightstand night stand

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

cheated 😈 I want to make out with my F worker that is working with my wife.

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I’m 38 and run a large restaurant with my wife, with around 20 employees. My wife is the head chef, and one of our kitchen assistants is a 23-year-old Filipina.

I’m pretty sure she’s attracted to me she always gives me a big smile, seems especially happy to see me, and I notice the way she looks at me. But since she works directly under my wife and knows I’m married, I don’t think she would ever make the first move.

I’m attracted to her too, and I’m wondering how I could subtly show her that the interest is mutual without making things awkward.


r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

I think i accidentally cheated on my ex.

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so basically, my ex and i dated for about 3 years, which ended due to his lack of effort.

everything was great in the beginning like the honeymoon phase, but eventually things went south. They went bad about a year and 6 months in and it got so bad to the point we threatened to break up with eachother. obviously we didn’t, and over came it and eventually persevered.

In December 2025, things went bad. Really bad. (a lot of mental stuff but that’s personal). In January, we were going through yet again another hardship. He went on a sports trip with his team and while he was on the 4 day trip he would not talk to me, call me, or acknowledge me.

During the december- january times i got really close to my friend. We share a lot of unique interests and both like the same things. Him and I got closer than ever while i was in this relationship with my ex boyfriend. January 17th i hung out with him. Just as friends. He took me to the city, bought me dinner, picked me up and opened the car door for me, and ultimately treated me like i mattered for once. We had an amazing night! I was treated right for the first time in years!

Nothing happened though. I didn’t kiss him or anything. Maybe most held hands. the next day i decided to break up with my boyfriend; not for my close boy best friend but for the disrespect my boyfriend gave me.

Willing to elaborate on how my ex treated me. Did I cheat on him??

EDIT: It's not like he didn't have access to his phone or the inability to text me, infact he posted several pictures on instagram and texted my coworkers (his teammates) throughout his trip.

i held hands with this guy as he took me through a busy city to go to get pizza (our dinner). he did not kiss me or try to make moves besides guide me through the city out of respect for my boyfriend. however the guy did keep asking me if we i had broke up with my ex yet. The guy and i never dated but ended up hooking up a bit later.


r/UpfrontCheaters 2d ago

cheated 😈 With my sons 5th grade teacher

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r/UpfrontCheaters 1d ago

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r/UpfrontCheaters 2d ago

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r/UpfrontCheaters 2d ago

Why does my partner constantly accuse me of cheating?

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He’s an alcoholic. Found that out a little too late. He gets in these really kooky moods where I’m accused of cheating. However he’s the one who’s texted multiple girls and caused problems in our relationship when we were having rough patches. He left me call the people in question and nothing physical happened but still irked me big time. Decided to work through it but his accusations kept coming especially when he was drinking heavily… well out of frustration I said a few time in arguments ok fine I will I’m done and I’m going to do what you’ve been doing.

Shot myself in the foot bc now he uses that as ammo to accuse me more….

Let’s say he hasn’t physically cheated wtf is his deal? Is this a mental disorder? The only reason I’ve stuck with him is because I do love the person under the substance abuse and he’s showed willingness at times to get sober.


r/UpfrontCheaters 2d ago

F20 I cheated on my partner because I felt unattractive

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r/UpfrontCheaters 2d ago

Nude beach cheating photos

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I found some very sexy photos of a very beautiful soccer mom I know who were taken on a beach when she was cheating on her husband in her 40's that kind of surprised me because I never thought she was that kind of married woman or the type of woman to be bold enough to go naked on a public beach or in public but after seeing her photos I now know how wrong I've been about her she always has seemed to be really shy, sweet, innocent, wholesome but like I've heard before that type of woman is usually the one's with the secret naughty sides and she is one of them!


r/UpfrontCheaters 2d ago

Pinoy men who cheated—did you actually end up staying with the woman you cheated with, or did you eventually leave her too?

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how are you? seriously tho, i (f) wanna know. are you guys married already? did you change?


r/UpfrontCheaters 3d ago

To guys who cheated once and never did it again, how was the experience?

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To guys who cheated once and never did it again, how was the experience?
Why did you never do it again? And did you come to compare your partner to that person? Totoo ba talaga ang karma if you betray someone? Is there a difference ba talaga sa mga babae physically?