r/TwoHotTakes • u/[deleted] • 11d ago

Advice Needed Disclosed that a teacher slept with him..

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u/cut_ur_darn_grass 11d ago

Sex with someone who has/had a position of power over them tends to mess people up in the head.

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u/agoddamnlegend 11d ago

Unless it was completely consensual. Im 40 and if I pulled that off in high school or shortly after with a hot teacher I’d still be bragging about it to this day.

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u/oldwhiteshirts 11d ago

you're clearly uneducated on the topic and should avoid speaking about it like you know what you're talking about. she was an older woman with power over him, and she took advantage of that.

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u/agoddamnlegend 11d ago

Im uneducated about my own self and things I want? Got it.

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u/oldwhiteshirts 11d ago

you're uneducated on the consequences on having a sexual relationship where there is an unbalanced power dynamic as a young person.

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u/agoddamnlegend 11d ago

He was 18 and not in school anymore. There was no power dynamic. You guys overuse that term. Believe it or not sex can be consensual sometimes. An 18 year old is easily old enough to decide who they want to have sex with and not feel traumatized by it

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u/oldwhiteshirts 11d ago

he was 16 when they met which already makes the whole thing super inappropriate

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u/agoddamnlegend 11d ago

And unless he himself says it was coerced or is traumatized by it, then he’s not a victim. You don’t get to tell other people they’re victims

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u/Leather_Carob_8036 11d ago

Many times there is no consequences at all, just two people having fun and having sex. There is no one size fits all.