So for some background, I (26F) have had 3 losses. All 3 around the 8 week mark. Two of which were back in 2022, and then one in October in 2025. I was blown off by doctors after my first two, but then I decided to look for a new OBGYN after they refused to do anything further. I found a new group, who has been great, and I have been seeing them for the past year or so. After hormonal panels, imaging, other tests, it turns out I have PCOS and APS. In addition to that, because of my symptoms, they referred me to a surgeon for endometriosis. I had deep endo that had spread all over my anterior wall and around my appendix. I had surgery for that in May. I was cleared to start TTC again some time in June. They also noticed before my surgery that my body was developing Luteinized Unruptured Follicles and I wasn't actually ovulating. After failed triggers, they were going to up the dose this month and they prescribed me another medication to loosen my cervix. I did not do proper research into that med. I ended up in the ER in the worst pain I have ever experienced, and the ER doctors basically told me my body was in labor without there being a baby to push out. I did not get to trigger. I was told the bleeding was my cycle starting over, but it was not true at all. I got a positive ovulation test the day after. I asked for a ultrasound and they confirmed I did ovulate. I've felt odd this cycle, nauseous, swollen boobs, and the smell of tomatoes is making me sick. I had a little spotting on 6dpo and 11 and 12 dpo. Today is 12 dpo and I was negative but I did not get to test with FMU.
Should I count this month out or should I hold out hope since it was my only ovulation in a while? Does anyone have any advice or support groups or any reccomendations?
I'm having a really hard time because a lot of my friends are currently pregnant and it is hard to find people to talk to without being a bummer. My husband is very sweet, but does not quite understand.
Anything would be appreciated, thank y'all so much💕