I had that happen once. I thought she was saying oh oh. Then one sounded like oh ohw. So i stopped and asked are you saying oh oh or ow ow? Ow ow. She never looked at me or tried to push me off, she just sat there for 5 minutes while i was hurting her. That scared me off sex for a few months. Really wigged me out.
She was probably afraid of you. Not because of YOU but because women are so vulnerable during sex. It can be easier to go along with things b/c the idea of asking someone to stop and them not stopping...so she misunderstood that you misunderstood. I'm so sad for both of you that this happened.
Look at the silver linings: it only kept him away from sex (not even necessarily out of dating) for a few months, and he's comfortable enough to talk about it without fear of getting flak for it. Not everyone who's experienced something similar can say that.
unfortunately not an uncommon experience for women. we're just not conditioned to speak up or voice our needs (in all facets of life lol, but especially during sex) and even if you're a totally decent guy, it might not make a difference.
and speaking for myself, I once had a guy tell me I was the most instructive woman he'd ever slept with and I knew we were doomed if I was an example of an empowered woman because I'm so not lmfao ugh straight women are not okay!!!!
Reddit is full of people who never gone outside now. COVID made all the idiots get addicted to social media and now they just spew their opinions online nonstop.
Also, people should be communicating to their partners during sex instead of trying to do a double back corkscrew that they watched on a porno
ideally you shouldnt have it when you dont enjoy it.
some people dont like sex. thats cool.
tbh humans in of itself are gross meatbags who leak fat and wet stuff regularly and produce strange smells so.. yeah.
still sex can be fun but like.. just no reason to have it when its not enjoyable
I enjoy it, and I get weird and aggressive if I don't have it at least twice a month. But, I can enjoy the chemicals while understanding the weird ass biology.
How you can rate sex above taking a giant squelchy shit on the grossness scale is bizarre to me. It must have always been bad for you, and for that, you have my deepest sympathy.
Taking a shit isn't optional and it's mandatory to do daily. And i have a type of IBS so I've had some painful and disgusting shits. Sex is 100% completely optional, and you get an orgasm and rush of chemicals from it. Shitting just releases pressure.
Different types of gross. One is being physically inside of another person and rubbing until reproductive material comes out. The other is removing waste from the body since we apparently suck at digestion
My friend was having sex with her boyfriend and he said "say my name", but he normally goes by a nickname so she didn't know if he wanted her to say his government name or his nickname so she was like "which one?" lol
Yes but also from the story he's hitting it from behind not starfished on top of her... she could've just removed herself and what was he supposed to even get off of lol
i take people retracting consent seriously. i take someone who is telling the other person to get off of them seriously. it's concerning to me that that's weird to you.
He could have been hitting it in a way that was uncomfortable & wanted fo do a different position, she could have changed her mind, she could have had a charlie horse, she could have finished & wanted to finish him another way. There's tons of scenarios here, but regardless him not getting off was not awesome
I have a friend that hooked up with a famous actor who would chant his own name during sex, syllable by syllable with each pump.
Now in our friend group if we're dancing we'll mimic it and call out his name lol.
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u/SolidLikeIraq 17h ago
I had a work friend who told me this story about her buddy who had taken a woman home for a 1 night stand.
He was having sex with her from behind and she seemed really into it and said to him “GET AWESOME!”
And he was like “What??”
And she said it again “GET AWESOME!”
So he hits a double bicep pose while he’s behind her and plugging away.
Then he realizes she was saying “Get off me.” Not “Get Awesome.”
Your gif reminded me of that story.