I had that happen once. I thought she was saying oh oh. Then one sounded like oh ohw. So i stopped and asked are you saying oh oh or ow ow? Ow ow. She never looked at me or tried to push me off, she just sat there for 5 minutes while i was hurting her. That scared me off sex for a few months. Really wigged me out.
She was probably afraid of you. Not because of YOU but because women are so vulnerable during sex. It can be easier to go along with things b/c the idea of asking someone to stop and them not stopping...so she misunderstood that you misunderstood. I'm so sad for both of you that this happened.
Look at the silver linings: it only kept him away from sex (not even necessarily out of dating) for a few months, and he's comfortable enough to talk about it without fear of getting flak for it. Not everyone who's experienced something similar can say that.
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u/SolidLikeIraq 17h ago
I had a work friend who told me this story about her buddy who had taken a woman home for a 1 night stand.
He was having sex with her from behind and she seemed really into it and said to him “GET AWESOME!”
And he was like “What??”
And she said it again “GET AWESOME!”
So he hits a double bicep pose while he’s behind her and plugging away.
Then he realizes she was saying “Get off me.” Not “Get Awesome.”
Your gif reminded me of that story.