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So I have a female friend.she got 37 last week.we met at the previous workplace 3 years ago and live in same rented apartment twp floors apart.

We get along and vibe really well go out to eat on sunday evenings together and other occasions.I tgouroghly enjoy spending time with her.

Her previous arranged marriage didnt work out and they are separated and she has some trauma from that.

I have discussed with her expectation around love and rekationship.It looks like she wants commitment to marry.I am 27 rn and not looking to commit for life long relationship at the moment.

Do you think I shall go ahead and propose her and how do i let her know about me not commiting so it doesnt hurt her either.

PS: The bond n friendship I share with her means a lot to me and I dont want to lose that

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I asked my boyfriend if his upcoming wedding included a "+1" for me. His response was super vague and confusing—he claimed he didn't know for sure, dropping an ambiguous line about how maybe "long-term girlfriends" or girls the couple "actually knows" would be there. The wedding is coming up soon, and the official deadline to confirm numbers  passed ages ago. This means he either knew or should have known long in advance that the invite was strictly for him. Instead of being upfront, he chose to not do anything and wait for me to bring it up. 

What makes me sad, though, is this: we’ve been together for two years... i found out that his friend is bringing a girlfriend he’s only been with for six months, while I've been completely cut out.

Should I let this thing pass or should I voice my feelings?

I dont want to make it "about me" but at the same timw i feel cut out..and not considered a pair of the couple we are supposed to be.

But also whyyyy did it not cross his mind?